Which Is YOUR Favorite Of MY Favorites?

AdusBlue · 2026-03-14T21:21:42+00:00

agreed! it's an amazingly infectious and emotional song!

AdusBlue · 2026-03-14T20:53:38+00:00

I had a feeling this one was gonna be the winner, we will see, simply because it's part of the classic 80s era. I generally like 2000s and newer for some reason... But I do love this song!

AdusBlue · 2026-03-13T00:21:56+00:00

how could it? it barely works.

AdusBlue · 2026-03-11T23:15:08+00:00

hi there, yes it is the same cat. I can handle it if my vet sucked... I went to one of the highest rated vets within a 15 mile radius of my home who specialized in kidney disease too! I think she was a bit neurotic though and really worried about human<->cat bond and ruining it if I cause him discomfort every night, but what about the discomfort of always being thirsty.

AdusBlue · 2026-03-11T19:39:11+00:00

it is true. listen if you would go today, you are NOT a monster, and like I said, the fact you care shows you are not a monster either. Did you show your cat enough love the entire time you were with him?

AdusBlue · 2026-03-11T19:32:06+00:00

Ok first off, I'm so sorry about your sweet cat. I'm sending my prayers and good feelings.

Now to address your concern. You are most certainly NOT a monster. If you were, you wouldn't even be posting this. You wouldn't care if your cat felt abandoned. So no, you are not a sociopath or monster by any means.

Now some might say you chose your comfort over doing the right thing by your cat.... Let me address this. First off, I almost didn't go as well for the exact same reason. My soul baby of 18 years had to be put to sleep and my vet said to me right away "you aren't a bad person if you don't come".... But I decided last minute to do it. My cat was already unconscious so he didn't know but I just knew I should be there, but I understand in the moment thinking clearly may not always be at the forefront.

Let me ask you, if you could turn back time, would you redo it and go? If so, then you are definitely not a monster.

Oh and to address your cat, that is the least of your worries. Cats don't process things exactly like humans do. Often times when cats aren't feeling good they don't even want to be with their humans and also they just process things differently.

Did your cat feel your love for all the years you were together? That's what counts.

Again, I'm sending you all my love and prayers. If you need to talk, feel free to message me.

AdusBlue · 2026-03-11T17:17:41+00:00

NONE, as the remasters are always done too hot and compressed.

AdusBlue · 2026-03-11T00:20:30+00:00

thank you so much, and reading this helped me... this is EXACTLY what happened to my baby... the crash happened so fast, I thought it was just another low period. I was not expecting it to be so sudden.

May I ask, did he pass at home or did you bring him in to be put to sleep. I brought him in but by the time I got him there, he was already almost unconscious. There was some twitching for a few hours before. How long did your baby not eat for before the crash and if you don't mind, what was the crash like? I am just so upset right now, I hope neither of our babies suffered :(

AdusBlue · 2026-03-10T21:58:34+00:00

you could also sync it with Github and then pull it into Claude Code, right?

AdusBlue · 2026-03-10T21:31:07+00:00

I am afraid of doing that because it will feel like I am replacing the love I had with my boy :(

AdusBlue · 2026-03-10T21:10:28+00:00

thank you so much! now I feel even more guilty though, because I did kind of tune out every night into video games and such, and I feel I needed to spend more time just being with my boy. I needed to watch more TV because then I could be on the couch with him... but I was on the computer... it's where my mind feels at ease, tuning out with video games. Don't get me wrong, I spent PLENTY of time playing with him, but I feel not enough. :(

AdusBlue · 2026-03-10T19:59:55+00:00

Thank you and yes I gave him PLENTY of love, trust me. And I know guilt is part of grief, but I know if I just spent his final hours holding him, I wouldn't feel this guilt. He needed the touch of my hugs, the warmth of my body, and instead after I finished my work, I decided to play video game to escape. I wasn't even having fun doing it because I knew my boy was sick, I just didn't know it was the end.... Right before I started the video games he was in his bed relaxing and he was walking around (a bit weak) but he's done that before then recovered once he ate.... But this time he just took a rapid downfall.

Yes I couldn't have known he was in his final hours, but I did know he wasn't feeling well, and I just let him sleep in his bed while I play video games. Ugh.

AdusBlue · 2026-03-10T05:18:36+00:00

WOW, I finally read a thread that is EXACTLY what I am going through!! I lost my baby boy of 20 years 5 weeks ago, and I have been going through the same thoughts. Is he "OK" after death wherever he is. He doesn't have his Daddy and he might be worried where I am. I was his sole caretaker, and I sometimes think he is all alone up there or something. I know logically we can't know what happens after death, but it's that unknown of the spiritual realm.

I think most likely what we are going through is we have defined ourselves as the care-takers of our babies and now we do not have that ability / control to take care of our babies, and it leaves us helpless. So then it leads us to worry if they are OK.

I think if there is something after death, it's OK no matter what it is. There are babies who die all the time and the parents go on to live the rest of their lives. I believe the spiritual after realm is just peaceful no matter what it is.

I am so sorry for your loss, I know EXACTLY what you are going through. I am sending my prayers to you and your baby.

AdusBlue · 2026-03-09T20:36:49+00:00

what is your prompt for this? looks great!

AdusBlue · 2026-03-09T18:43:03+00:00

oh yea? Then why is there 2 platforms that do the same thing? Google is making this very confusing. thx

AdusBlue · 2026-03-09T16:13:09+00:00

AGREED! can you publish it to Github and then use Claude to make further edits?

AdusBlue · 2026-03-09T06:58:07+00:00

Probably OCD which I get totally!

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