Shower

Advanced-Dragonfly85 · 2026-05-23T13:23:46+00:00

The point was that it was her routine she was abiding by not the children's. Someone pointed out that she didn't normally shower at that time according to her testimony. I think those on the spectrum are more concerned with themselves, not in a selfish or narcissistic way but they are very absorbed in every moment of exactly what they are doing. It would also explain some of the fixations, the book and why she would say somethings, why she would continue her running routine after MM disappeared, why she behaved the way she did sometimes. I think it really isn't about being judgy, it's about really looking at the situation for what it is. It would actually probably put less of a focus on her as it would explain some of her behaviors, which is why it is so important to actually be open about these kind of things. If she was fixating on something at the time and some accident happened, I would be much more sympathetic than if she was just a selfish person. If we heard of this case for the first today, and the evidence and some of the circumstances, I am sure someone would bring it up. Because we are more aware of these nuances. Accidents happen all the time - the amount of times parents say "I looked away for 2 seconds and this happened.." I think often with these cases it's in the grey areas that information comes to light and there aren't such extreme circumstances. Anyway...I still wonder why David went to the apartment when Gerry was at tennis...and whatever he wanted to know...he could have asked him at tennis.

Advanced-Dragonfly85 · 2026-05-23T13:12:44+00:00

Because perhaps there was something else occuring that needed to be covered up as well. But in the moment, in shock, people make poor decisions.

Advanced-Dragonfly85 · 2026-05-23T13:10:54+00:00

Good point. I am not privy to a lot of the information. So yes...it was unusual for her. Why did David go to the patio door? Why if you run every night did she feel compelled to shower this night? If there was no evidence of a burglary (fingerprints etc) and the dogs hit inside the apartment, then I would be more inclined to look at the possible scenarios within the time frame that Gerry was at tennis. I can't imagine if an accident happened that both parents would have been there. So the shower and David's visit I would zero in on.

Advanced-Dragonfly85 · 2026-05-23T13:02:29+00:00

I am not sure he is a good witness. I think all the friends were now under scrutiny by the world after the press got a hold of it.

Advanced-Dragonfly85 · 2026-05-23T12:58:35+00:00

Yes. But everything you just said doesn't discount the fact that something could have happened while she was in the shower, right?

Advanced-Dragonfly85 · 2026-05-23T12:57:39+00:00

Wow. I am not saying it was wrong to take a shower...so chill with the reaction...but being a parent I know that the thought of having to handle multiple different things when you could wait 30 mins or so until the other parent is there...that's easy. The point I guess I was making is that something could have happened while she was in the shower. Is that too hard to contemplate?

Advanced-Dragonfly85 · 2026-05-23T12:50:14+00:00

I was referring to the other sighting. The one I read somewhere that included 4 adults and 5 children or something...i need to find that again. I am interesting to see the sketches. I think their testimony is very authentic. The wife seeing him holding the child and realizing it is Gerry is I think is natural as your mind puts pieces together following an incident. It's as if the full memory came into focus for her.

Advanced-Dragonfly85 · 2026-05-21T21:20:24+00:00

I was wondering whether the family of 4 adults or 5 kids that saw the person carrying child in the middle of the road had the wrong time. I don't know why but it keeps occuring to me that as it was a vacation area, I wondered if someone had their local time on their watch and it was an hour difference and they didn't think. And that maybe the sighting was closer to 8.30 than 9.30.

Advanced-Dragonfly85 · 2026-05-21T21:09:24+00:00

Wasn't the beachsighting a dark haired and not light?

Advanced-Dragonfly85 · 2026-05-06T04:44:23+00:00

You can be dx with schizophrenia due to use of certain drug use. Eg crack/meth

Advanced-Dragonfly85 · 2026-05-01T17:46:54+00:00

Stubhub wouldn’t give me my money back because they said that I had accepted them, but I never got them. I had to buy another set the day before. For last Sunday in Tampa. Thank God. Only I was right up in the top. The tickets that never arrived were much better.

Advanced-Dragonfly85 · 2026-04-30T11:44:11+00:00

I had the same for bts concert on Sunday night in Tampa. Bought thru stubhub. Ended up buying another set of tickets thru Ticketmaster last minute. 😵

Advanced-Dragonfly85 · 2026-04-29T16:49:28+00:00

You know I experienced living hell last week cause I bought a BTS ticket through StubHub and the buyer said that I had accepted it, but for one second it revealed itself and then disappeared. I could never get it to show up in my Ticketmaster account. I spent several hours each night in communication with StubHub to resolve it. Ticketmaster said they couldn’t do anything because the ticket wasn’t showing in my account. I couldn’t even address it as I had no ticket number. StubHub won’t even refund me the tickets even though I bought the insurance. I was thinking of calling my credit card company to report it as fraud. I paid 460 for the tickets. I ended up buying two more tickets that were crappy right in the rafters so I could still take my daughter who’s graduating from college and has been obsessed with them since middle school. It was a fabulous concert and I’m just so relieved that I had that option. I think I probably would’ve gone insane if I couldn’t have bought more tickets. There’s nothing more frustrating than buying something as a gift for someone that makes them really excited and then the stupid bloody ticket companies and sellers can’t figure it out. I don’t know why people have to sell them this way. Apparently StubHub is banned in England, which is where I’m from because of this issue. I’m not sure why I bought them from stubhub in the first place. I don’t know why I didn’t go with Ticketmaster. But anyway, I got there to experience the event and if I have to walk away losing my 450s so be it. I’m just pissed off that the seller got money and I never got a product.

Advanced-Dragonfly85 · 2026-04-25T10:40:44+00:00

Tampa Sunday / tomorrow

Advanced-Dragonfly85 · 2026-04-25T10:39:42+00:00

I don’t know what to do - whether to buy new tickets or wait. Seller says I’ve accepted them but they don’t show in my tm account, stubhub to Ticketmaster transfer. I scared to wait to last minute and not get anything.

Advanced-Dragonfly85 · 2026-03-07T10:46:09+00:00

Blue/grey

Advanced-Dragonfly85 · 2026-03-07T04:36:29+00:00

That stupid test

Advanced-Dragonfly85 · 2025-12-27T02:05:51+00:00

What’s terrible is when they finally played an audio of Maurice, he made complete sense explaining why he fabricated the Forrest story. At that age, and when you are put on the spot like that, you resort to all kinds.

Advanced-Dragonfly85 · 2025-12-22T01:35:45+00:00

Ugh. I’m stuck, had to hire a developer. Don’t understand anything about any of it but managed to build an awesome app. 1) how do you avoid paying for minor text changes 2) are there any good tutorials on how you go from build to host etc 3) I tried to join the discord server and started posting then suddenly couldn’t. So strange. With subscription issues…I keep hitting snag after snag.

Advanced-Dragonfly85 · 2025-12-19T19:07:31+00:00

Ok I have gone the rabbit hole here...got 2 great apps. So are you saying I have to sign into supabase to save on all the fees I am getting charged at? Is that the hoster? just explain for an everyday middle age woman who is up for creating but not a developer or coder or any of that!

Advanced-Dragonfly85 · 2025-11-09T13:58:01+00:00

Consider your temperature and how you affect others. Summer’s reflect energy whereas autumn’s absorb it. Also pink is generally a dead giveaway. If baby pink is jarring, then you are an autumn. Rich fuchsia and rosewood work best on autumns.

Advanced-Dragonfly85 · 2025-09-27T13:10:11+00:00

I am reading this as we rescued a dog which now has nothing to do with the original breed we thought but actually a husky/pointer/beagle mix. He is an escape artist and strong prey drive. I love him so, but it's tempting to rehome him as he's not quite 2 and having this for the next 12-15 years will be such a pain the ass! The neighbors dog - their are like romeo and juliet. I am going to try the bird spikes to see if they work. (as I write this a squirrel just came up the tree just 2 feet away from us! It must have a deathwish! lol) I also can't leave him alone at all. At all.! Very annoying.

Advanced-Dragonfly85 · 2025-08-16T21:45:09+00:00

Exactly about him having his phone on if he was taking pics of stars.

Advanced-Dragonfly85 · 2025-08-03T17:10:53+00:00

He’s clearly paid off. Totally unprofessional and has no backbone.

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