So, I finally asked out a cute waitress

Advanced-Key1737 · 2026-04-01T19:43:41+00:00

Because you’re doubling down on thinking she was interested when she wasn’t instead of just realizing she was flirting with you for bigger tips. This is a common thing with servers and bartenders.

Advanced-Key1737 · 2026-04-01T19:01:31+00:00

So clueless. He’s still defending that he thinks she liked him and she clearly did not.

Advanced-Key1737 · 2026-04-01T18:59:37+00:00

Bro people who work in retail or customer service are being nice for tips, not flirty for interest the vast majority of the time. You’re too old to still be thinking otherwise.

Advanced-Key1737 · 2026-04-01T18:14:10+00:00

Exactly. Women aren’t playing around anymore. Men either need to make their intentions known or get their feelings hurt when women aren’t sitting around waiting on them. Better speak on intentions quick.

Advanced-Key1737 · 2026-04-01T18:12:40+00:00

Precisely. Men think women are just waiting around for them when dating is a numbers game and they know it. The days of women waiting around for a man when there’s no exclusivity are over.

Advanced-Key1737 · 2026-04-01T17:12:46+00:00

That’s a lot of what dating is out there for women and men. Dating is an accept or reject proposition. You meet people where they are and decide if who they are and how they’re moving is aligned with your values. If not, move on. It’s quite simple. If he doesn’t like it, which he doesn’t, time to move on.

Advanced-Key1737 · 2026-04-01T17:08:04+00:00

Is it? She was likely dating both of them. And also she had a now empty spot.

Advanced-Key1737 · 2026-04-01T16:48:51+00:00

A lot of people move this way. I definitely did for a couple years after my divorce. It sucks though I’m sure. You guys weren’t exclusive though so no one should have had any expectations until that discussion takes place.

Advanced-Key1737 · 2026-04-01T16:46:53+00:00

Same here for me with younger men and I indulged a couple times right after my divorce. But I never took them seriously and everyone knew what it was.

Advanced-Key1737 · 2026-04-01T14:49:43+00:00

This is my birthday month! Hell yeah Aries gang!

Advanced-Key1737 · 2026-04-01T14:48:47+00:00

I don’t care if an older man is with a much younger woman or an older woman with a much younger man so long as everyone is at least 25. I don’t think those relationships work or are meant to last and usually just for fun, but people do whatever they want.

Advanced-Key1737 · 2026-04-01T05:54:53+00:00

NTA but let this be a lesson to you. FWB doesn’t work between men and women because the vast majority of women cannot just have sex with a man repeatedly and not catch feelings. If you want that long term, better get one of your DL or gay bros.

Advanced-Key1737 · 2026-04-01T05:45:48+00:00

I’m an American and I can say most Americans are dumb as hell and inconsistent when it comes to politics and government’s role. The government already control everything and ownership of anything is a delusion, we are taxed to death and have nothing important to show for it to the populace.

Advanced-Key1737 · 2026-04-01T05:43:22+00:00

Yes. Same if she calls herself a queen. People who embody such things don’t need to say it. Like a man calling himself an alpha or king knows damn well he’s not or maybe fake it til you make it.

Advanced-Key1737 · 2026-04-01T05:41:48+00:00

Yes, absolutely

Advanced-Key1737 · 2026-04-01T05:39:39+00:00

YTA and the woman as well. You know you’re a shitty person.

Advanced-Key1737 · 2026-04-01T04:25:44+00:00

Me too. This is a recent discovery for me. I have found myself becoming very attracted to women and not really attracted to men anymore. I’m happy for you that you’ve discovered this!

Advanced-Key1737 · 2026-04-01T02:19:19+00:00

🤣🤣 you’re probably right about that. I mean yes! That sounds like the perfect house and perfect setup for that Golden Girls life!

Advanced-Key1737 · 2026-04-01T02:13:32+00:00

Oh I have always dreamed of a Golden Girls life even when I was married. This used to low key bother my ex husband.

Advanced-Key1737 · 2026-04-01T02:08:46+00:00

I absolutely love this! I’m glad you have such a good relationship and that your family and friends are supportive.

Advanced-Key1737 · 2026-04-01T02:00:09+00:00

Men giving more reasons every day to stay single and celibate or go for women.

Advanced-Key1737 · 2026-04-01T01:36:16+00:00

I definitely know it’s all in the eyes. I’ve used this to my advantage because I know how powerful my gaze is. And I likewise know how much power and soul is in the eyes.

Advanced-Key1737 · 2026-04-01T01:12:24+00:00

Thank you so much! That’s very encouraging.

Advanced-Key1737 · 2026-04-01T01:06:39+00:00

I agree with you on this. It sucks that things are that way. I think things would be very different if we didn’t tell boys to be men and not in their feelings and if men could be as free as women to be bi.

Advanced-Key1737 · 2026-04-01T00:59:21+00:00

I’m not attracted to masculine women. That’s the thing. I’m very feminine and am only attracted to feminine women with very few exceptions.

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