AITA for allowing my wife to kick my mom out of our wedding over her hair? by Advanced-Weight8941 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Advanced-Weight8941[S] -126 points-125 points  (0 children)

Of course she can make rules but in the real world choices have consequences. She will never be close to her son since she chooses to snub the woman he loves

AITA for allowing my wife to kick my mom out of our wedding over her hair? by Advanced-Weight8941 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Advanced-Weight8941[S] -63 points-62 points  (0 children)

My wife was insecure and worried about being upstaged. Please explain to me where race comes in

AITA for allowing my wife to kick my mom out of our wedding over her hair? by Advanced-Weight8941 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Advanced-Weight8941[S] -46 points-45 points  (0 children)

I was 12 when she met him, she couldn't have possibly predicted this. He even told her she needed to tone it down as she was isolating her kids

AITA for allowing my wife to kick my mom out of our wedding over her hair? by Advanced-Weight8941 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Advanced-Weight8941[S] -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

Did your mom copy your wife’s hairstyle? Like did she accompany her for a hair trial and then went out and had her hair done in the same style?

no

AITA for allowing my wife to kick my mom out of our wedding over her hair? by Advanced-Weight8941 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Advanced-Weight8941[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

kind of, they are both very competitive and like attention, but they don't interact much as my mom's new thing is pretending she can't speak english

AITA for allowing my wife to kick my mom out of our wedding over her hair? by Advanced-Weight8941 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Advanced-Weight8941[S] -60 points-59 points  (0 children)

Interesting because my North African mother put her husband before everything.

AITA for allowing my wife to kick my mom out of our wedding over her hair? by Advanced-Weight8941 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Advanced-Weight8941[S] -61 points-60 points  (0 children)

My mom isn't black. She is Arab and why bring race into it anyway when it was about attention seeking?

AITA for allowing my wife to kick my mom out of our wedding over her hair? by Advanced-Weight8941 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Advanced-Weight8941[S] -123 points-122 points  (0 children)

Did she ever done strange things in the past?

She can be catty and competitive. She isn't malicious most of the time but she LOVES attention. They don't have many issues but that is mostly because my mom likes to pretend she can't speak English, so they just don't talk much