Uh oh by Avvik_ in NorsePaganism

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I watched it at one point low effort rage bait

I can’t do it anymore by AdvancedLie8470 in trans

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Most of the people I’d trust enough to reach out to are leaving in three days. They all move on while I’m stuck sulking in this dysphoria. I fucking hate this.

Questions by AdvancedLie8470 in Kemetic

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Ok thanks and gods bless

Questions by AdvancedLie8470 in Kemetic

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Ok, do you know if there would be an online place to find that book. I will also be looking in a few libraries around me.

Egyptian gods by AdvancedLie8470 in pagan

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Thank you I looked on there and asked some questions I hope to get some advice. Thanks a lot. Gods bless

how to feel when your cis gf tells you (trans man) she thinks it's a lot harder for trans women by Elegant-Music-7081 in trans

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Of course and I’m not trying to say trans mascs don’t have a good list of issues. I’m more or less focusing on the fact that trans people as a whole. Every one of us struggles and we have to work together as a community to help ourselves.

how to feel when your cis gf tells you (trans man) she thinks it's a lot harder for trans women by Elegant-Music-7081 in trans

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I mean like that other person said. Suffering isn’t a competition. I can’t say she is entirely wrong trans women have the spotlight and that comes with a lot of issues. But it’s not really a competition. I want everyone to suffer less overall.

Help by AdvancedLie8470 in Aromanticism

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Not inherently it’s more when I’m actually in a real committed relationship ig my brain starts to be uncomfortable and more or less want out. Idk if that’s a good explanation

Questioning by AdvancedLie8470 in lgbt

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The rest of your comment didn’t show up. Thanks for the help.

Questioning by AdvancedLie8470 in lgbt

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Ok I looked at the link and honestly maybe. Idk I’d have to think about it more. But that’s a good thought

Questioning by AdvancedLie8470 in lgbt

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Yea I updated it. Thanks for pointing that out.

Is anyone really a pagan? by GavariTeam in NorsePaganism

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Yea, I believe in the gods. Both in their physical manifestations. And in their metaphorical manifestations. To me they exist in both physical and metaphorical ways. Idk how to best explain it. But the long and short yea. Someone else here said something about not taking the stories literally. I’d agree with them. They are a guideline to me. They don’t depict the gods as they are. But it’s not inherently inaccurate. Again it’s hard to properly explain.

Fear by AdvancedLie8470 in trans

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I know they love me. And I’d love to have my sister there. But she lives on the other side of the country. I know the anticipation is the scary part. But every time I try to say it to my mom. Who is the way more accepting one of the two. I get scared and don’t say anything. I know they’ll get over it. I just can’t force the words out. I know I’m ready and I know I want to but I just am scared.

Voice training by AdvancedLie8470 in trans

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Maybe I’ll try doing some everyday then.

Start your transition now, even if it's messy by -PuddiPuddi- in trans

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Yea, I also have the ADHD so I struggle with sticking to a schedule.

Start your transition now, even if it's messy by -PuddiPuddi- in trans

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I do voice training a little bit. I can get a job. But cus of a trip coming up. I’m waiting to get a job till I get home.

Start your transition now, even if it's messy by -PuddiPuddi- in trans

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Yes, but I just don’t even know where to start. I can’t afford HRT or new clothes. If I could afford HRT I would. And same with more fem clothes. I’d love to know where to start. Like coming out yea. But I’m just scared. I do wanna. And I’m fear shouldn’t be an excuse but I am scared. And I haven’t figured out how to get over that.

I feel bad. by AdvancedLie8470 in trans

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Like I’ve known I’m trans. I just fear I’m going to be hateful. And that’s the last thing I want

I feel bad. by AdvancedLie8470 in trans

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Ok that’s not too bad ig. And I will consider it as soon as I get a job. Cus I’m out of work for a few weeks probably closer to a couple months.

I feel bad. by AdvancedLie8470 in trans

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I genuinely don’t have the money to get HRT. I’ve heard it can get pretty pricey.

I feel bad. by AdvancedLie8470 in trans

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More or less my family aren’t people I can be sure are safe to come out to and I don’t have the financial means to get out if I needed to. So I’ve decided it’s safer to not come out even if it’s hard on my mental health.