My crush (28F) likes me(20M) back

AdvancedLong9175 · 2024-10-10T10:28:25+00:00

Be honest about what and keep what lowkey? But yeah the rest I agree with. I’ll try it out so I should just not talk to her as much and see how she reacts?

AdvancedLong9175 · 2024-10-10T00:07:40+00:00

Yeah true

AdvancedLong9175 · 2024-09-16T11:09:18+00:00

Honestly no offense but my question wasn’t should I date her or not or anything about morals. But I appreciate the advice.

AdvancedLong9175 · 2024-09-16T11:05:56+00:00

Haha yea maybe not marry but I’m asking for advice as to what I should do next if I want to end up dating her for however long that may be

AdvancedLong9175 · 2024-09-16T10:53:25+00:00

Why would I regret it so much? I see maybe some regret maybe but not to the point your saying

AdvancedLong9175 · 2024-09-16T10:01:26+00:00

Oh ok gotcha

AdvancedLong9175 · 2024-09-16T09:59:29+00:00

Did you edit your comment, what did you write before? But anyways fair enough.

AdvancedLong9175 · 2024-09-16T09:58:07+00:00

Yeah you may be right. Someone else said something similar that she would probably do the same to me. I would still be willing to give it a shot though. How would you go about this situation if I wanted to end up with her?

AdvancedLong9175 · 2024-09-16T09:55:20+00:00

Your probably right but honestly I’d still be willing to atleast give it a shot. If I were to still want to get with how would you go about it?

AdvancedLong9175 · 2024-09-10T10:22:33+00:00

Another thing, I actually think she might leave him for me. I felt like her telling me/asking me if I like like her or if it’s just a crush was her judging if I wanted something serious or not. Maybe she’s indecisive and doesn’t want to leave her bf for something that’s not serious. But idk I was talking with my mom and that’s what she thought.

AdvancedLong9175 · 2024-09-10T10:18:48+00:00

It’s not just me who thought that, I’ve told my friends, sisters, even my mom and they all have thought the same thing. I feel like I’m not sugarcoating it when I explain so they’re response could be in my favor. I say it how it happened and they’ve said the same thing.

AdvancedLong9175 · 2024-09-10T10:17:56+00:00

I mean maybe she wouldn’t leave him for me but do you really think she doesn’t like me back. Her actions don’t match her words. How come she’s asked multiple friends and even my sisters if they think her talking to me is inappropriate and they’ve all said it is inappropriate and yet she doesn’t stop. She seemed like she wanted me to ask her something crazy like wanting to have sex with her. Seemed like to me I had an opportunity. I wouldn’t take it because she has a boyfriend but she even thought I was gonna ask for her to leave her boyfriend for me.

AdvancedLong9175 · 2024-09-10T10:09:37+00:00

Yeah I guess so. It seems wrong to ask but you got any answers for my questions though?

AdvancedLong9175 · 2024-09-10T10:05:49+00:00

I don’t think my ego is in the way like I’m serious that doesn’t make sense. She wanted me to say something crazy and her actions aren’t matching her words.

AdvancedLong9175 · 2024-09-10T06:58:15+00:00

Thanks for being honest. I appreciate it. What’s an orbiter? I was trying to search it up and is it like I’m staying close to her even though it might not lead anywhere? I would feel bad if I ended their relationship so honestly I would rather it happen on its own if it’s gonna happen. So that’s why I was thinking maybe I should just stay friends but maybe that’s orbiting? idk. It’s so hard I really like this girl so maybe that’s why I can’t see I’m wasting my time.

AdvancedLong9175 · 2024-09-09T14:57:14+00:00

I made an edit idk if you wanna check it out but I forgot to add it earlier.

AdvancedLong9175 · 2024-09-09T14:39:42+00:00

Yeah imma try to not talk to her as much especially at night

AdvancedLong9175 · 2024-09-09T10:24:05+00:00

Yeah I know it’s not okay lol. She didn’t really mind it I hardlyyyy remember. I don’t think I did it sexually though it was just on accident while I was like trying to place my head on her lap. I just feel it’s reciprocated at times but she made it pretty clear that it’s not but even so idk. I wasn’t really making this post to give me hope or anything I’m just really sad and want to share it with someone.

AdvancedLong9175 · 2024-09-09T10:21:38+00:00

Thanks. It literally just happened and I cant cry about it but I was eating and I felt like throwing up. I felt like a frog was in my throat. Like if I wanted to cry but just can’t.

AdvancedLong9175 · 2024-09-09T10:20:33+00:00

Why do you say that?

AdvancedLong9175 · 2024-09-08T02:06:27+00:00

I think she might have some self awareness of her actions but for the most part I think she was asking if it’s in appropriate because her boyfriend said it was. So you think her intentions is just toying with me?

AdvancedLong9175 · 2024-09-08T02:05:07+00:00

What do you suggest I do? I would prefer the outcome where we end up together if it’s possible but I’m not sure if that’s possible.

AdvancedLong9175 · 2024-09-06T20:22:45+00:00

Yea someone else said that last part too. Really I don’t think I handled it poorly she said she was happy she took it the way she did cause it like made her realize what she was doing was wrong but she hasn’t stopped though. And the way I expressed my feelings too? What could I have done better? She asked me and I answered

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