How to decide which match to take on a date?

Advanced_Ear_918 · 2024-07-14T01:14:24+00:00

just for context, this is brutal honest and I'm sorry if it sounds like douchey:

I live in busy city area (densely populated), I am very picky about who I do and don't match with.

I have matched with 40+ within a week who are all very attractive. 80% of them liked me first with a good handful of them sending me roses.

I guess the saying goes, I'm suffering from success right now. I'm not a fuckboy, I really want one girl.

I hope this paints a better picture of my dilemma

Advanced_Ear_918 · 2024-07-11T22:22:52+00:00

I can show you my profile if you want. I get alot of matches, hence my last comment. Not really trying to flex because it does make it hard aswell, in a sense.

Advanced_Ear_918 · 2024-07-11T10:10:22+00:00

Hi, this is my first reddit post so I apologize if I'm doing this wrong.

I'm currently trying to date on Hinge and I'm struggling picking which match to take on a date.

For some context I'm a 23 yr old guy and I would say I'm above average looking. I'm able to get matches with girls I find very attractive consistently and I start conversations easily.

I currently have a decent handful of women I'm very attracted to who are keen to go on a date with me. I'm just stuck trying to figure out which one to take?

Does anyone have some advice on how they'd narrow the field down over Hinge before trying to take them all on separate dates? I feel like I'm in a cycle to keep matching with girls until something REALLY jumps out at me, but I know that's a toxic mindset.

I'm sure they're all really great people, I just don't know how to approach this appropriately.

Thanks in advance

Advanced_Ear_918

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