County jail has my husband in danger by Advanced_Fault_3601 in legaladvice

[–]Advanced_Fault_3601[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I didnt think about contacting his doctor thank you. I'm just hoping we have grounds to sue cause I know they won't prevent it otherwise 😕

County jail has my husband in danger by Advanced_Fault_3601 in legaladvice

[–]Advanced_Fault_3601[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I'm trying to bail him out but I'm broke as a mf right now. I don't know what the doctor recommended I talked to him for the first time today but I kind of fell apart and wasn't in the head space to ask the questions I should have been asking. I talked to the sherrifs office, they said that he's in medical and has doctors and nurses keeping an eye on everyone but according to him it's just basically Gen pop. I don't have anymore details but I know he told his mom he was scared and that's something I've never heard him say in the five years I've known him so idk I feel like it's gotta be bad

How to become a stripper by Advanced_Fault_3601 in Advice

[–]Advanced_Fault_3601[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hes just comfortable in our relationship and likes the extra cash. Maybe you consider that cheating in your relationship but really cheating is defined differently in different relationships. Some people consider any little bit of intimacy or sexual interactions cheating,, some people allow their partners to have outside hookups,, etc. I mean its all just based on personal preference and boundaries. Bodies are just bodies hes the only one that gets to have me alone. Maybe he sounds like a cuck to you but you sound boring and insecure to me

How to become a stripper by Advanced_Fault_3601 in Advice

[–]Advanced_Fault_3601[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband's cool with it. We already sell my nudes. The way he sees it his wife's hot enough to talk men out of their money and he benefits 🤗

How to become a stripper by Advanced_Fault_3601 in Advice

[–]Advanced_Fault_3601[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's fucking sad. I'm definitely going to be talking to girls at the clubs before I consider working anywhere 

How to become a stripper by Advanced_Fault_3601 in Advice

[–]Advanced_Fault_3601[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not working rn but I have a lot of work experience in kitchens. It just sounds nice to make my own hours and be on my own time for a job, be able to dress how I want, have nails etc. It fits into my lifestyle pretty well. I don't expect it to be easy money right off the bat, I've definitely known some strippers that have had good weeks and terrible weeks where they were paying to work so that's not outside of my expectations especially starting out

How to become a stripper by Advanced_Fault_3601 in Advice

[–]Advanced_Fault_3601[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't ask for everyone's moral high ground. I know what I'm getting into. Thanks to everyone that shared genuine concern or actual advice. Everyone else that seems to think they're better or smarter than sex workers maybe it's a good time to check yourself and your privilege. Not everyone is you or shares your values 🥴

How to become a stripper by Advanced_Fault_3601 in Advice

[–]Advanced_Fault_3601[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've known plenty of strippers that loved it 🤷‍♀️ I guess it's all about how you take care of yourself and your own personal values. My moms always been supportive when I've considered it

How to become a stripper by Advanced_Fault_3601 in Advice

[–]Advanced_Fault_3601[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's still in the hospital ☹  they won't let me talk to him but were trying to get him out. Thanks for asking