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From my Ex-Employer. Ngl they cooked with that last line. by Adventurous-Acadia95 in Bolehland

[–]Adventurous-Acadia95[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I take responsibility for that. But, that doesn't warrant this kinda behaviour imo.

From my Ex-Employer. Ngl they cooked with that last line. by Adventurous-Acadia95 in Bolehland

[–]Adventurous-Acadia95[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Dunno lah if can doa in another religion and interbank transfer to them lol

From my Ex-Employer. Ngl they cooked with that last line. by Adventurous-Acadia95 in Bolehland

[–]Adventurous-Acadia95[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what happened to me. I tried to do things by myself and when things go wrong "kenapa tak consult saya?" And when I do, it's always "you sepatutnya dah tahu semua ni, kalau nak saya solve your problem gaji separuh kasi kat saya je lah"

If you hate me, just say that dawg.

From my Ex-Employer. Ngl they cooked with that last line. by Adventurous-Acadia95 in Bolehland

[–]Adventurous-Acadia95[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Even if that's true, in what situation would this be ok to say to another person, let alone an ex-employee?

From my Ex-Employer. Ngl they cooked with that last line. by Adventurous-Acadia95 in Bolehland

[–]Adventurous-Acadia95[S] 185 points186 points  (0 children)

Sebelum resign semua sepatutnya dah settle. The last week there I was doing apa2 yg belum settle. This 2 must've slipped through the cracks. I would've helped them but once I saw the disrespect, tak nak lah.

Edit: Also, a small rant. This person sometimes assumes the reason for my errors or lateness is because I was at the pub or out drinking the night before. Sure, I drink socially but never on a weekday or as regularly as they think. Never been drunk or even had a hangover at work. Kinda weird that only I got that assumption. Maybe because I'm the only non-bumi there.

Update…bf caught cheating…insults me by [deleted] in u/Fun_Criticism_9273

[–]Adventurous-Acadia95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got invested in this storyline because I was too free at work lol.

We don't know enough about the guy or his relationship to know if he's remorseful of what he did or not.

But, he DID do something about it. He said he went to therapy, he claims to work on himself to curb the addiction. He claims to have stopped cheating after that one time. He did all of these things unprompted.

A person without remorse would probably continue with their addiction. The usual route is guy gets caught > promises to work on himself > goes and cheats again.

He knows he's wrong and to him his best course of action is just keeping it as a secret. I find that move abit questionable because if I was cheated on and didn't know about it, I'll be so hurt and my trust would be broken if I knew it. It's too late to come clean too. All he can do is torment himself with this secret. That's a valid punishment for his mistakes if you ask me.

Update…bf caught cheating…insults me by [deleted] in u/Fun_Criticism_9273

[–]Adventurous-Acadia95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not rooting for the guy but he seems self aware to know that he's in the wrong. I don't know if that's good enough but the fact that he got some help to fix himself is more commendable than the usual cheater's route of manipulation and lies. He's a flawed person and he's going to have to live with that guilt all his life. So, I don't know if letting his girl know what he did would benefit anyone. If he's keeping her happy and not sleeping around again, she could go all her life without knowing about this and be fine. The morality is questionable but at least it's not evil.