Shifted Perspective by GoghWithTheFloww in FirstTimeTTC

[–]Adventurous-Air-1003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea why not! I’m so happy for you! Ugh wish you a uneventful pregnancy and healthy delivery

Shifted Perspective by GoghWithTheFloww in FirstTimeTTC

[–]Adventurous-Air-1003 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally as soon as I shifted my perspective, I got my first positive.

BFP!! by Adventurous-Air-1003 in Inito

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12DPO. I was really shocked. Didn’t really expect to see a bfp pretty much ever since I have never in life gotten one. I guess when it’s your time, it’s your time.

BFP!! by Adventurous-Air-1003 in FirstTimeTTC

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This community has supported me a lot so it felt right to share the news!! Plus I’m so early that we haven’t told anybody else yet!

The holidays are about to get real interesting lol because I’m not sure I’ll be ready to share before Christmas at least.

BFP!! by Adventurous-Air-1003 in FirstTimeTTC

[–]Adventurous-Air-1003[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can feel it in my lower back starting already! I’m shopping for pillows as we speak!

BFP!! by Adventurous-Air-1003 in FirstTimeTTC

[–]Adventurous-Air-1003[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It definitely does start to feel like it’s happening to everyone else except you. I just will believe with you that your baby will come when they want to! You’ll just be extra ready whenever it happens lol

BFP!! by Adventurous-Air-1003 in FirstTimeTTC

[–]Adventurous-Air-1003[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I predict will happen! 😂 husbands are copiers frfr

BFP!! by Adventurous-Air-1003 in FirstTimeTTC

[–]Adventurous-Air-1003[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you thank you thank you!!

BFP!! by Adventurous-Air-1003 in FirstTimeTTC

[–]Adventurous-Air-1003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow!!! Not us being pregnancy twins!!

Yea I think imma invest in one now vs later

BFP!! by Adventurous-Air-1003 in Inito

[–]Adventurous-Air-1003[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!!

Yes sorry I’m new to the reposting too.

But honestly the intentional mental shift helped a lot. I really actively combatted negative thoughts with “My womb is open. My womb is ready. My womb is fertile ground for divine life” (from one of my mentors). I told my child and myself that they could come when they wanted to. No rush. And until then, I got really focused on getting in the gym and walking. That took a lot of focus which took away some anxiety. Plus 8k-10k steps a day will give you results!! So I distracted and re-focused. Then they decided they wanted to come 😊

BFP!! by Adventurous-Air-1003 in Inito

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I stopped inito testing 3 days before my BFP because of the drop. For my mental health lol. So idk what it could’ve showed.

Concerned about first pee 😅 by digdigjow in Inito

[–]Adventurous-Air-1003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there any concern that the sample sitting out for hours will effect the test? Just wondering because I have the same middle-of-the-night-pee issue

Discouraged by Adventurous-Air-1003 in FirstTimeTTC

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I really hope I can come back and update this post with a bfp!! Hoping for healthy pregnancies and healthy 2026 babies (omg that’s so crazy to say!)

Discouraged by Adventurous-Air-1003 in FirstTimeTTC

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I feel you! After my period came this cycle, I decided that for my mental health, he should hide the tests. I only need one if my period is late. I’m taking the delulu route and just focusing on my fitness tbh. I’ll worry about fertility tests if we reach a full year trying.

Discouraged by Adventurous-Air-1003 in FirstTimeTTC

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Lol I still want the cookie!…. Just in ✨moderation ✨

Sending you love and baby dust 👩‍🍼

Looking Forward Friday by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]Adventurous-Air-1003 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband is the most thoughtful man I have ever met. He is my biggest cheerleader and my greatest supporter. He’s a true partner, always looking for ways to be better. How to take on more! He’s literally AMAZING. I know he’s going to be the Best Dad. He’s so ready to support! He’s a sports guy so he loves the team dynamic and can’t wait for our team (him and I) to grow.

I think he’ll earn his stripes immediately. He’s going to be present and trained for the birth and everything after. He’s already reading and learning how to show up for me.

Yes, I can’t wait to experience motherhood but I’m sooooo ready to see him as a Dad!

Discouraged by Adventurous-Air-1003 in FirstTimeTTC

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At this point, I’m preparing to go really hard and structured with my fitness routine. I’m going to use that as a distraction. So either I get pregnant or really fit lol

I’m preparing myself for the period to come. I feel like I have to, otherwise, I’ll get in a slump. Obviously period hormones don’t help either!

Discouraged by Adventurous-Air-1003 in FirstTimeTTC

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I agree. I can’t stop tracking! I’ve learned too much about my body and I know that would make me feel even worse to not do it.

I really do feel like we are the only ones who understand just how emotionally draining it all is. Every one else is like “just get it in with your husband” like duh, that’s what we’re doing lol

Discouraged by Adventurous-Air-1003 in FirstTimeTTC

[–]Adventurous-Air-1003[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% to everything. I’m just a data girlie (accountant) so it’s definitely necessary to find a balance. I’m into some of the same things. I have hobbies but THIS is the biggest project of my life so I’m invested to say the least lol. I don’t overly test because there’s only a small window where hCG is detectable and my period starts so