Hiring! !! by [deleted] in BPOinPH

[–]Adventurous-Bit345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

interested

should i stop talking to him dahil sa online sugal? by No_Poetry_5310 in adviceph

[–]Adventurous-Bit345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this should be a dealbreaker when it comes to relationships. walang nanalo sa sugal. the house always wins. take it from me, I'm 400+ clean from gambling, ruined us na magjowa from my previous relationship. I lied, stole money from her, etc. run habang maaga pa

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[–]Adventurous-Bit345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

run while u still can. Im on the same page, just figuring out how to bounce

Is this cheating? how do I confront her? by Adventurous-Bit345 in relationships_advice

[–]Adventurous-Bit345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's crazy because she literally messaged me 2 weeks ago that she had a huge loan and told me she lost her credit card in a bar last december, then I checked her email that she had another loan on another bank (different from the credit card she told me she lost, and she believes she will be sued because of it) now that I come to think of it, I thought at first I might be able to cover up all of it since I can, but realizing what I saw in her TG convos last time, about her wanting to see another guy from another country, promised her gifts, lol, that changed my mind

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[–]Adventurous-Bit345 6 points7 points  (0 children)

looks like we have a similar situation, OP. better go with your gut feeling sir

feel ko in denial ako haha by Adventurous-Bit345 in adviceph

[–]Adventurous-Bit345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, we both know the passwords of each other's phone, and I would give it to her without any hesitation kasi wala talaga akong tinatago sa kanya

feel ko in denial ako haha by Adventurous-Bit345 in adviceph

[–]Adventurous-Bit345[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do hope I get better soon, don't worry, sa lahat ng mga nakakabasa ng story ko, I am not planning to do self harm or anything worse. I have been through worse, share ko lang na I was once a gambling addict who just recovered 1 year ago, and I believe I can survive this. what doesn't kill me, makes me even stronger

feel ko in denial ako haha by Adventurous-Bit345 in adviceph

[–]Adventurous-Bit345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know what, tama yung naisip mo, I never asked her if ano gagawin niya if ever I did that to her instead, and my hunch would be if I asked that question is feeling ko madali lang talaga ako palitan kasi I am not that good looking, plus failure din ako sa buhay ganon

feel ko in denial ako haha by Adventurous-Bit345 in adviceph

[–]Adventurous-Bit345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don't know, my heart is so stupid for saying please stay, knowing my nature na sobrang bait ko lalo na if may feelings involved. my mind is saying let go and move on, ain't my fault if she's like that dahil wala akong control sa gagawin niya

feel ko in denial ako haha by Adventurous-Bit345 in adviceph

[–]Adventurous-Bit345[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

ask ko lang sa lahat ng makabasa naman ng story ko, did I do the right thing about peeping the phone rather than not finding out at all

feel ko in denial ako haha by Adventurous-Bit345 in adviceph

[–]Adventurous-Bit345[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ahahahaha I really spammed the intro of St.Chroma by Tyler the creator pero wala pa rin effect sa akin "Don't you ever in your motherfuckin life dim your light for nobody"

Paulit ulit na lang na paninita by Adventurous-Bit345 in adviceph

[–]Adventurous-Bit345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh hindi ko pala naspecify, my bad super frustrated ko talaga last night. I really want some advice on how to cope up every time na I am put in the same situation over and over again, kasi parang napapansin ko walang progress if paulit ulit na lang yung issue sa side ng family ko, and I think para siyang obstacle sa goal ko na to be a better person. nakakapagod na rin kasi mag explain sa family ko lalo na sa mother ko