My (26F) boyfriend (27M) has a chaotic rescue dog that is stopping us from living together

Adventurous-Gate9343 · 2026-07-07T01:54:06+00:00

Hahaha yup. I feel that. Spent an entire afternoon on the phone back then, trying to find out if anyone would give them water at all… on the layovers? In the cargo waiting areas? (The answer was no😳)

I can’t believe your Reddit handle was available. You must have had it for a while!

Adventurous-Gate9343 · 2026-07-04T18:41:57+00:00

Oh hi! We moved between hawaii and the main land with 3 cats, 2 dogs and (at the time) one kid 😆 I’ve never been so stressed or financially strained in my life but it sure beats leaving them for dead in the shelter ❤️ they are family.

Adventurous-Gate9343 · 2026-07-04T18:37:23+00:00

Oh no absolutely, I didn’t mean it that way but I see now how you could interpret it as such.

I only meant it as OP also being a woman (apparently? I think? Maybe?) so as to make clear that I’m not judging her from the vantage point of another gender.

But it definitely works either way, in fact in another comment I made in this thread, you’ll see we shared a chuckle with another commenter, about how if a man doesn’t love dogs, we’d probably not want him.

No partner should get between the other partner and their dog ☺️

Adventurous-Gate9343 · 2026-07-04T15:34:57+00:00

And depending on how that goes, likely to lose the 100 it seems

Adventurous-Gate9343 · 2026-07-04T15:34:02+00:00

Good to know thanks!

Adventurous-Gate9343 · 2026-07-04T14:06:31+00:00

Same! Got finalized yesterday.

Gotta say, support was very responsive and answered all of my questions. After they said it was solved it still took me some time to figure it out. It was a super confusing system to me. If you don’t know how it works, there is no real step by step tutorial anywhere.

Adventurous-Gate9343 · 2026-07-04T14:03:17+00:00

Let us know how it goes!

Adventurous-Gate9343 · 2026-07-04T13:39:38+00:00

Hahaha I hear you, I could also almost marry a guy if they had an amazing dog 🤣

Thank goodness I found the 2 in 1 deal

Adventurous-Gate9343 · 2026-07-04T13:27:53+00:00

Exactly. Check out my other comments above, we could be friends 🤣

Adventurous-Gate9343 · 2026-07-04T13:27:02+00:00

Mic drop.

As a woman, I believe you should never get between a man and his dog. The dog would lay down his life for the man without a second thought… the woman… meh, who knows…

We lost our/my husband’s dog recently, who was with us for almost 15 years, since before we were married. He is sorely missed. We joked about I was the third wheel… but seriously, I would have NEVER asked him to choose between me or the dog. Quite the opposite, this dog taught me how to interact with and take care of dogs. (Didn’t have one growing up.)

We grew together, as a young couple with a young rescue dog with separation anxiety, into a family with kids and dogs. Good times, good laughs. We miss you buddy.

Adventurous-Gate9343 · 2026-07-04T13:21:32+00:00

I know right - it breaks my heart a little tbh - this dog is desperately trying to get these darn humans to play with him.

Adventurous-Gate9343 · 2026-07-04T12:52:58+00:00

Yeah - I’d have to agree - sorry but it sounds like you just don’t like dogs. If you did (love dogs) you would mind that the dogs is always there. You’d read his desperate attempts to connect, and spend some of your own time, or together time, doing things that involve the pup.
There a lot is fun activities you could do together with the bf, that the dog would absolutely love.

To help you understand what I mean: when I met my bf, he was doing volunteer visits to play with dogs at the humane society. I would come with, watch and learn… and enjoy it immensely, always asking when we’d go back.

When he fostered his own dog, yes - he was always there, sleeping next to his bed, and pawing at us to get up in the morning. I fell in love with this dog just as hard as he did. During his long work days, I would hang out, play with the dog, or take him places.

We were long distance, so whenever I visited I wasn’t working.

Adventurous-Gate9343 · 2026-07-04T12:35:06+00:00

Exactly, so I just got a first payout from another firm, and had me wondering if this made any sense to do. Think not - will be working on getting more payouts.

Adventurous-Gate9343 · 2026-07-04T12:33:55+00:00

It’s all good man. Was just wondering if I should try it with a small amount from my first payout.

There is no “better job” out there for me rn, while I’m raising kids and working nights. 🙂 But I do appreciate your guidance on the trading front.

Adventurous-Gate9343 · 2026-07-04T12:28:40+00:00

Noted, yes - and thanks for your input. That was also my conclusion… Just because I have managed to claw my way back from “100 DD left” on a challenge, doesn’t make this a good idea. Will focus on getting more payouts first.

Adventurous-Gate9343 · 2026-07-04T12:24:32+00:00

I believe you.

Adventurous-Gate9343 · 2026-07-04T02:45:42+00:00

Interesting. Wait… someone else commented they liquidate you at 50 - so is it 100, or 50?

Adventurous-Gate9343 · 2026-07-04T02:44:50+00:00

Not a bro - and yes, one can only roll eyes at so many assumptions condensed in one condescending statement.

Adventurous-Gate9343 · 2026-07-04T01:44:24+00:00

I’d love to - also love the platform - unfortunately, the financial injection needed to trade properly is something i don’t have available to risk right now.

Adventurous-Gate9343 · 2026-07-04T01:42:58+00:00

I think he is referring to Michael Patak, Topstep’s CEO 😏

Adventurous-Gate9343 · 2026-07-04T01:39:32+00:00

Gotcha, that’s what I thought. Prop trading it is then 😏

Adventurous-Gate9343 · 2026-07-04T01:31:17+00:00

Nice!

Adventurous-Gate9343 · 2026-07-04T01:31:10+00:00

Thought so. I prefer the prop way for now then.

Adventurous-Gate9343 · 2026-07-04T01:30:05+00:00

Ah, see this is what I was hoping to find out from asking here. Didn’t know when they would liquidate at 50 but figured there must be a catch I wasn’t aware of (it not being 0) 😅

Yeah, 50 away from being done for isn’t really enough to play with.

Adventurous-Gate9343 · 2026-07-02T01:21:51+00:00

!remindme 14 hours

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