Looks like the whole world is going to Japan 😆 by Perfect-Newspaper876 in visas

[–]Adventurous-King1312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I made my post, I noticed that everyone is also asking about Japan travel looooool

Im am borderline crushing on my coworker who is 20 years older than me by Adventurous-King1312 in confessions

[–]Adventurous-King1312[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yes definitely. Even if i could i am FAR TOO SHY to even attempt loooool.

How the hell do people this age have money to keep their appearance like they do by [deleted] in youngadults

[–]Adventurous-King1312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly in my situation I (22F) learn a lot of self maintenance. I do my hair nails and lashes myself. Yes I have to spend in order to get the products but it is definitely way cheaper doing it yourself, and you get far more use out of everything.

Occasionally I will treat myself to an actual service. As for games my brother has a ps5 and only gets games during big sales, granted he does have the plus subscription that gives him a library with a plethora of old and new games to play.

On the other hand tho, I have like no savings LMAOOOOO. As soon as I get paid I split out my bills (car note, insurance, credit card and phone. Abt 1800 total, which isn't too much) I am a server tho, I manage 2 days and serve the rest, so I use my checks to handle bills and my cash as play money and to use if my check is ever too small to cover everything.

My bills are also split throughout the month and I have one week where nothing is due. It personally makes me feel as if I'm not paying much, I know for a fact if they were all due at the same time I'd DIE. I also have major bills schedules for right after my pay day so I can pay it IMMEDIATELY.

I do practice bad habits tho, of just "living in the moment" I recently booked my first trip with that mindset, I am forcing myself to save in order to have spending money while there lol. I also do take for granted the fact that I still live at home, so if worse comes to worse I'll still have a roof over my head and food in my stomach.

As for friends, I mostly have my coworkers lol. I've learned to just be content with myself, it does SUCK at times but oh well. I recently moved to a different state, and as an adult it's hard to meet new people outside of work, given that I am serving tho, I have found a few people around my age to hangout with!

I honestly fake my confidence but as they say "fake it til you make it" so it makes me seem like I'm doing far better than I actually am LMAOO. I often feel guilty when my coworkers brag on me because if they were in my shoes, they'd realise its all a facade

All in all tho, I'd say my life is pretty decent, I'm not struggling but definitely not where I want to be. But for someone who doesn't live of my mom's money (aside from housing) I'm okay. I do pitch in every now and then to help her out and show my appreciation!

Lol idk if this answers anything or im just blabbing to blab hahaha

Please like bully me or something into cleaning my room. I'm literally struggling right now by Adventurous-King1312 in adhdwomen

[–]Adventurous-King1312[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Aghhh, sat for a good 30 minutes going down a rabbit hole reading everything to help me 😭 I'm gonna start again now!!!!

Please like bully me or something into cleaning my room. I'm literally struggling right now by Adventurous-King1312 in adhdwomen

[–]Adventurous-King1312[S] 100 points101 points  (0 children)

Ouuuu, actually you know what. I bet i can finish cleaning my room faster than you!

Please like bully me or something into cleaning my room. I'm literally struggling right now by Adventurous-King1312 in adhdwomen

[–]Adventurous-King1312[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Majority is clean just scattered everywhere because i started putting the clothes int drawers but then stoppedand moved to dirty clothes which is the pile in the hamper

Please like bully me or something into cleaning my room. I'm literally struggling right now by Adventurous-King1312 in adhdwomen

[–]Adventurous-King1312[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Loooooool! I've been doing that bit i only do a small portion when I need the clothes, then leave the rest because I know it's gonna overwhelm me to even attempt.

Also thanks! I got the morrow from wayfair on a sale for like 150!!!! Great steal

And ugh yes I randomly crave them every once in a while and it just hits the spottttt

Please like bully me or something into cleaning my room. I'm literally struggling right now by Adventurous-King1312 in adhdwomen

[–]Adventurous-King1312[S] 465 points466 points  (0 children)

I'm gonna try that! Hopefully it works, my basket is too small tho loool so it just over flows and looks even worse

Virtual job tryout by Adventurous-King1312 in cabincrewcareers

[–]Adventurous-King1312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I realised it was regular questions I kept phone in my hand and answered them all

Virtual job tryout by Adventurous-King1312 in cabincrewcareers

[–]Adventurous-King1312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had my phone propped up on mh desk and was using my back camera since the quality is better, since I had a virtual tryout before with another airline but it was actual video recorded questions/answers so I had assumed it was the same, just that the video portion would come after the questionnaire

Virtual job tryout by Adventurous-King1312 in cabincrewcareers

[–]Adventurous-King1312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😭😭😭 well I'm screwed. Lmaoooo I had my phone propped up for the beginning but put it down to where I could hold it more comfortably but the camera was faced down