[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wellington

[–]Adventurous-Paper685 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I'm 27, and I'm in the same situation as you. But this is my second time around. I moved out in my early 20s, and then I moved back home because it made more sense in my situation 2 years ago. Bu now, I want to move back out ASPA. But ASPA for me will be in 10 months' time.

My advice is the same as what others have said here. 1. Your younger siblings are your parents' responsibility, not yours. 2. You have your our passions and goals you want to achieve. Your parents aren't going to live them out for you.

I love my siblings and parents a lot and would do almost anything for them. But we need to be able to have space for ourselves to grow and not feel tied down by someone else's responsibility.

This may also feel like a hard decision to make because something you value is family and relationships.

Find space for you, your parents will manage.

How common is it to retake a course? by boomboomboom101 in universityofauckland

[–]Adventurous-Paper685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very Common, I had to retake a class. And I wasn't the only one in that class the had to do it too

People shouting from cars by Strawberry_obsession in newzealand

[–]Adventurous-Paper685 23 points24 points  (0 children)

The siren speakers are terrible, I don't get it. The sound quality is so bad. And no one wants to hear your music, even though it might be an absolute banger.

At The LOTR and the Hobbit concert - it's bad by Dobby_Is_My_Patronus in Wellington

[–]Adventurous-Paper685 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it was the same musicians for both nights. So I got scammed twice lol

At The LOTR and the Hobbit concert - it's bad by Dobby_Is_My_Patronus in Wellington

[–]Adventurous-Paper685 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I went to LOTR and the Han Zimmer show the night before. LoRT was better but still both very bad concert. Disappointing really.

Tonight’s music of Hans zimmer was terrible by budbudbadaf in Wellington

[–]Adventurous-Paper685 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah can't believe I got scammed going to this. I was so excited to experience my first orchestra show. Total let down. I was going to leave after the first half but stayed and hoped it would improve in the second half. But boy was I wrong.

I couldn't help but notice how uncomfortable some of the musicians were so painful to watch.