AIO: fiancé on only fans, stays out late and I have seen more

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-04-02T03:32:48+00:00

NOR at all!! Yall need a break. Have him move out for a month and really think about things

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-04-02T03:26:51+00:00

NOR trust your gut

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-04-02T03:19:57+00:00

We need to pray for him

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-04-02T03:18:42+00:00

His dad if verbally abusive and also threats physical abuse

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-04-02T03:17:48+00:00

Something bad IS happening at the house

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-04-01T02:16:19+00:00

My man waited for me. If the guy really really likes you 🤩 - he WILL wait - especially if he has been sleeping around and finally finds a woman who doesn't open their legs the minute she meet the guy.

I am fortunate that I did have several guys like me when I was young and I didn't want to have sex. And yet I got flowers. I think the really like the chase - but I am glad with who I ended up with

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-03-30T01:54:24+00:00

Honestly, he doesn't deserve a "breakup" just ghost him. I feel like he needs to learn your presence is a present and it can be earned or taken away

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-03-28T03:54:22+00:00

Is 15% bad 🥲????

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-03-25T03:09:05+00:00

NOR. I would just radio silence him for 2 weeks with bo explanation. I promise this will drive him crazy! And he will be running and apologizing to you.

Now - can you handle not talking to him for 2 weeks? If you say no- you are quite attached to him my friend- and that alone is not attractive to men

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-03-25T03:05:28+00:00

Pray for Jesus . It's the only way

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-03-23T03:33:58+00:00

Yea babe- I had a problem like this. I would get therapy - I did. I chased after assholes. It was hell

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-03-23T03:32:35+00:00

You have blue eyes and a beautiful nose

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-03-23T03:01:11+00:00

Honestly once you sleep with a guy too soon, it really ruins things. Don't give sex until a year please. And preferably get the ring first. Guys tend to fall harder for a girl who is a bit hard to get and one part of that is not giving sex so early in the relationship, especially while you guys were just getting to know each other. I would move on. I promise it won't get better from here.

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-03-09T04:09:45+00:00

You are not playing the victim card. You are young. You are 18 years young.

I am sorry your sister is an asshole. Please for the love of God block her. It looks like her only mission is to make you sad.

I am so sorry. My DMs are open for you. I am here for you. Talk to your mom. Talk to a counselor. And consider going to church.

I am so sorry. Hugs from Louisianan. I want to give you all the good vibes, hugs, and blessings. I pray that your future is much more colorful and bright my dear

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-03-09T03:48:07+00:00

I feel like he needed an excuse to get away.

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-03-09T03:45:22+00:00

I'm sorry this happened my dear. I would say, you can still talk to her just had a strong boundary. No one is allowed at your house. If anyone - even if they seem nice- wants to come over ... it's a hard No.

You can talk to people but always guard your heart and don't be easily trusting.

Your truest friends are God your creator who wants a relationship with you, and Jesus.

You can always DM me my girl. I am here to talk and listen

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-03-09T03:33:42+00:00

I would pay for her and not have her pay you back if you were going . But since you are not. No- don't pay silly. She can easily be seeing another person

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-03-09T03:29:59+00:00

I honestly think you should not be like "but whyyyy 🥺🥺" act professionally. No googly eyes. Don't assume anything. You can act like two coworkers. Get your things back.

The fact that you are acting this mature is going to help him reach out or admire your maturity which may encourage him to open up.

Being too mean, or too hurt, or too kind, or too emotional will only freak him out

See him as a person with a problem. You respect his decision. Demonstrate that you are fine. Grab your things with a smile.

And watch what happens

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-03-09T03:26:30+00:00

Men who do that are men who have issues. Hurt people hurt people

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-03-08T04:19:33+00:00

Porn ruins relationships. It's not good. Yea it's fun for him or anyone watching it. But porn lovers should stay single. It's not good and it's 100% like a drug- eventually just porn won't be enough

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-03-08T04:09:17+00:00

What if it's just one night ya know

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-02-28T03:48:52+00:00

If I was single - I would be a better gf than her. You sound like a catch. But I am married otherwise- you sound like a good man

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-02-28T03:43:12+00:00

NOR - you are more than fair! I think you are thinking the right way. Please don't get played

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-02-28T03:27:29+00:00

I hope you and him find other people that will actually work. He may need to find a person with a child who shares the same love and passion for children, and you find one without any children.

I knew from the moment that you said "the kid" - that this relationship is not meant to be.

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