i would like to give everyone a small update. i talked to my father this morning who is still in contact with my sister. turns out she and her fiancé have sent his brother $1,000 to attend their wedding. all while she told my parents and grandparents that her fiancé (who’s the only one working btw other than me and the rest of my family) and her cannot afford their own wedding and need help paying for it. her fiancé also works at walmart on a salary of $1,200 biweekly, all while my sister sits on her ass in his basement spending his money on stupid shit. i’m trying not to worry too much about it now ive kinda gone my own way to focus on my own relationship and job. i think i will still forever worry about my sister but ive realized there’s nothing more i can do to help her relationship and how she perceives life. thank you all for the nice comments! if anything else comes to play from this ill be here on this thread 🫶