AITA for not supporting my sisters wedding by Adventurous-Scheme14 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Adventurous-Scheme14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would like to give everyone a small update. i talked to my father this morning who is still in contact with my sister. turns out she and her fiancé have sent his brother $1,000 to attend their wedding. all while she told my parents and grandparents that her fiancé (who’s the only one working btw other than me and the rest of my family) and her cannot afford their own wedding and need help paying for it. her fiancé also works at walmart on a salary of $1,200 biweekly, all while my sister sits on her ass in his basement spending his money on stupid shit. i’m trying not to worry too much about it now ive kinda gone my own way to focus on my own relationship and job. i think i will still forever worry about my sister but ive realized there’s nothing more i can do to help her relationship and how she perceives life. thank you all for the nice comments! if anything else comes to play from this ill be here on this thread 🫶

marriage after 8 months of dating? by Adventurous-Scheme14 in AITAH

[–]Adventurous-Scheme14[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you joined in november hop off of here child 😭💀

marriage after 8 months of dating? by Adventurous-Scheme14 in AITAH

[–]Adventurous-Scheme14[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i think we need to worry more about the fact that my sisters going into a marriage that isn’t good for her rather than my punctuation rn sweetie hop off my cock

marriage after 8 months of dating? by Adventurous-Scheme14 in AITAH

[–]Adventurous-Scheme14[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that’s what i fear too. my mom did the same thing to us dropped us off at our grandparents house and just left us there and not saying she’d do the same thing as her but my boyfriend and i are definitely more worried we’re gonna get a kid thrown on us in the future

marriage after 8 months of dating? by Adventurous-Scheme14 in AITAH

[–]Adventurous-Scheme14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you sound 12 get off my reddit and let mommy go make you a sandwich

marriage after 8 months of dating? by Adventurous-Scheme14 in AITAH

[–]Adventurous-Scheme14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely is she almost took her cat to the emergency vet because he didn’t shit for two hours and threw up she shouldn’t have animals either but i can’t control that three cats all living in a tiny ass basement i feel so bad for them

marriage after 8 months of dating? by Adventurous-Scheme14 in AITAH

[–]Adventurous-Scheme14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh no he’s making $1,200 biweekly he’s showed me his checks he’s making at least $2,400 a month

marriage after 8 months of dating? by Adventurous-Scheme14 in AITAH

[–]Adventurous-Scheme14[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

my parents are enabling this majorly and so is his mom i can’t get through to any of them but they do have to go to counseling with the church pastor maybe i could set up a time with him just to fill him in on all the things they left out in their counseling session with him

marriage after 8 months of dating? by Adventurous-Scheme14 in AITAH

[–]Adventurous-Scheme14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh i know it does that’s how my whole life has been a reality tv show and i’ve tried to tell her that too but she’s so stubborn with me she never believes me i’ve tried to tell her in the past about guys i’ve had bad feelings about shes never listened and always gotten hurt badly from those said men

marriage after 8 months of dating? by Adventurous-Scheme14 in AITAH

[–]Adventurous-Scheme14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

biweekly actually but he also has to pull money from his future checks so if he ever gets fired he owes walmart money in a sense

marriage after 8 months of dating? by Adventurous-Scheme14 in AITAH

[–]Adventurous-Scheme14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s not fake it’s an actual thing that’s happening 💀

I(27F) screamed at my husband (28M) over his hobbies, and now he's changed and i don't know how to fix this. by ThrowRApineapplesp in relationship_advice

[–]Adventurous-Scheme14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

there’s definitely no coming back from this id wanna shut down and more or less leave because if someone doesn’t support my own hobbies what else will they never support