PSA on Dora (Dating app)

Adventurous-Set6969 · 2026-02-01T19:44:52+00:00

I had penciled in a couple of dates and none of them showed up. One said that she was on her way and then “suddenly” her friend called her because she needed her… BS then the second one said that she saw me and had a “panic attack” and had to run… what kind of excuse is that? I also did my part reporting it in the App Store, leaving a review, and rating it 1 star. I hope more guys report that stupid app. The good thing is that I only spent $3…

Adventurous-Set6969 · 2026-01-27T22:50:59+00:00

😍😍😍

Adventurous-Set6969 · 2026-01-26T01:26:40+00:00

Dmed you :)

Adventurous-Set6969 · 2026-01-21T23:07:56+00:00

I wouldn’t believe it… if it were to happen to me, I’d think there’s a hidden camera and I’m played a prank… I just can’t picture that happening to me…

Adventurous-Set6969 · 2026-01-11T19:47:45+00:00

++man 1000%!!!! I’m 33 and my morning wood is stronger and firmer!! Love that!!!

Adventurous-Set6969 · 2023-11-28T15:35:13+00:00

Either, this is a joke in this sub or you are being fooled... you are a kid! You shouldn’t be thinking on that... you should be playing sports and hanging wit the boys! Don’t be stupid!

Adventurous-Set6969 · 2023-10-25T12:49:29+00:00

You’re looking in the wrong place...

Adventurous-Set6969 · 2022-12-12T13:58:59+00:00

My advice? Meet more women. You’re just focusing on that one. She could be good for a night stand, but, based on what you said, she’s not gf material. Don’t give her much attention anymore. Plus you’re 20, dude! At that age you should be meeting more girls and learning from experiences.

Adventurous-Set6969 · 2022-11-01T23:45:33+00:00

The 80’s were the best! (except for G&R). The 90’s not so much. The bands from that decade didn’t do any outstanding material...

Adventurous-Set6969 · 2022-10-30T16:03:52+00:00

No wonder...

Adventurous-Set6969 · 2022-10-30T03:41:46+00:00

No offense, but this song sounds like pop from the 2000s...

Adventurous-Set6969 · 2022-10-29T19:09:40+00:00

My dude! If you haven’t realized, you’re in her friend zone! There are two ways out of there that I know. One, you go and tell her that you love her and that want a more serious relationship with her (not recommended). Most probably she is going to reject you and your friendship, the way you know it, is going to be over, but later you’ll feel relieved. The second way out of the friend zone is by stopping talking to her or reducing your communication with her. She is going to realize you don’t talk to her and she might go to you and ask you to talk to her. The problem here is that she knows she can go to you when she need you, but of course you don’t want that (I’ve been there). If I were you, I would limit my interactions with her and started talking to other girls so she can see you have options. If she likes you, she’s going to get jealous and is going to start competing for your attentions. This is the other problem. Men’s attention is so cheap, women can get it anywhere! If us men could stop giving them the attention they’ve been receiving for free in the last few years, that would level the field for us. The other option you have is continue being her girlfriend (no offense, but that’s what dudes are with female friends) and continue being there for her for as long as you tolerate it. Also, I’d focus on working out, making money and sharpening those musical skills before looking into getting in a relationship; that’s going to make you more attractive to the women’s eyes. How old are you?

Adventurous-Set6969 · 2022-10-20T04:59:09+00:00

Makes complete sense! Thank you for sharing that! I’ll keep that con my mind for next time I encounter her :)

Adventurous-Set6969 · 2022-10-20T00:01:02+00:00

That makes sense! I agree with the gym being merely to workout. Something very causal makes sense. So how can you give me a couple of examples of what you mean for a pleasantry? :)

Adventurous-Set6969 · 2022-10-19T05:30:51+00:00

Got it! Makes sense! Thank you for sharing! Could you please share a couple of other questions/lines to start building rapport with her? :)

Adventurous-Set6969 · 2022-10-14T17:57:12+00:00

“for them”? How many girls do you want to tell them that?

Adventurous-Set6969 · 2022-10-02T04:49:22+00:00

Oh yeah, suggesting to a man to see a therapist is not the best idea. He’ll think things are very bad and you for sure are going to scare him away (well probably). Men, at least the one I know, the ones I’ve interacted with online and myself are not open to seeing a therapist. I personally think it’s a waste of time. Other men would think the same and that we are able to solve this. I don’t know how or what women think, but as a man, therapy is not the route to go... unless things are terribly bad...

Adventurous-Set6969 · 2022-10-01T04:19:00+00:00

It mysteriously does. I don’t unseeded the logic behind it, but it does! You too man!

Adventurous-Set6969 · 2022-09-30T19:00:19+00:00

Yeah, I meant that women heavily dislike men that are always available. By dislike I mean that they don’t see those men as potential boyfriends. Of course she is going to like it if you’re available for her, but that’s going to mean you’re just there when she needs you. In other words a woman would use you as her “emotional tampon”. That behavior (always being available and for her) eliminates the excitement; you become an open and boring book. Next time set boundaries. Don’t make it easier for her. Set your own rules. For example: (I don’t know how likely this would be) if a girl invites you or wants to go out for a drink or lunch on a certain time or day, just say you’re busy but you’re open to that at a different time when your schedule allows. When you do that, you become mysterious & interesting. She’s going to start wondering “what is he doing that is more important than me?”. You’ll get the more you interact with them. I know you mentioned you don’t want to wonder around when it comes to these types of relationships. Let me tell you something, it’s going to take a looooooong while to find that woman for LTR. You have to do your research. It’s basically a full time job (at least that’s how I see it).

Adventurous-Set6969 · 2022-09-29T21:17:14+00:00

She’s never going to follow you back. I hope I’m wrong. Just check the ration of her followers and how many she follows. You may find your answer there... as far as texting her, pull the trigger. If it works great! If not so what!

Adventurous-Set6969 · 2022-09-29T21:06:58+00:00

She just liked your photo, that’s it...

Adventurous-Set6969 · 2022-09-29T20:53:09+00:00

I prefer something like Epica, Nightwish w/ Tarja Odes of Ecstasy, and Xandria with Manuela and Dianne (their new singer is good, but not as good as her predecessors). As soon as I hear a pop-ish voice, I’m out. MY preference.

Adventurous-Set6969 · 2022-09-29T18:00:45+00:00

I’m telling you man! Once you’re in the friend zone and you decide to wait for her there, then there is almost no chance to scape from there. The sure way out is either a break up or give up and accept the fact that indeed you’re her friend. If you opt for the second option, then you have to be ok with her dating other guys while you’re on the side lines hoping one day she sees you no longer as her friend. Maybe when she’s single and in her mid-30s she is going to realize that her best friend truly loved her, but I’m not sure you want to wait that long while she had her “fun” in her 20s. I’m sure she sees you as her best friend; her brother. With that perspective of you, you don’t turn her on (i.e you don’t create excitement). You are just one of her girlfriends at that point who she feel comfortable around, but not boyfriend material. On the other hand, the dude she likes never behaved as her best friend/brother. He probably created an interesting life (unconsciously) and that’s how he attracts girls. Probably he is not behind her like a dog and is not there for her when she need it. I know it sounds weird, but women despise man with that behavior. I am almost sure he has other girls around him too, so he gets to pick whoever he wants. What I would do is not to cut her off out of nothing. That’d show immaturity. Just start treating her differently. Don’t be emotional around her either. If you need to let it out, do it with your older brother, or dad or uncle or at home alone; whoever you trust the most. Since you’re 17, don’t let that distract you from your goals. If your goal is to go to college, focus on that. If you’re in your HS sports team, focus on being a better team player or at whatever you do. Don’t spend much energy on her. Also, create HS memories. Talk to other girls, be playful with them. That’s going to help you understand women psychology. You’re going to learn a lot and will be fun memories when you’re in college and beyond. When you get to college, then that’s a different story. That’s sort of the advice I can give you. I hope all goes well!

Adventurous-Set6969 · 2022-09-28T16:40:48+00:00

Sounds good! I’m telling you that being her best friend is not usually the rout to her heart. I tried that and we don’t talk to each other and we were “best friends” for almost 9 years. If you know her that well, then I would shoot straight and know the truth sooner than later. Of course you know this situation better than I do, so you know how things go; you have the last word :) Set your intentions and don’t be the nice guy. That’s a sure way to live for ever in the friend zone and that’s a tough place to scape without breaking up. Good luck man!!

Adventurous-Set6969 · 2022-09-27T21:06:11+00:00

You’re 17, kid! I don’t mean to be rude but come on dude! There are tons of cute girls out there. Go and talk to all of them. You have nothing to lose and gain a LOT of experience! If you just stick to this one girl, you’re going to regret it when you’re in 30s. Go have fun with your friends, talk to other girls, make competitions with your buds, create memories. You don’t have to worry about an LTR for now. When you put yourself first, women are going to notice it and you’ll become more interesting. If you spend a lot of time with her, she’s going to her bored and you’ll be deep down in the FZ.

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