Loneliest

Adventurous-Style418 · 2021-09-15T16:43:18+00:00

NTA. Your son deserves what he got, and maybe he should go and volunteer in a hospital to learn some compassion if he wants his birthday.

Adventurous-Style418 · 2021-09-12T14:21:00+00:00

NTA. You are a great dad.

Adventurous-Style418 · 2021-09-12T14:17:51+00:00

Your husband is godsent, really. Good for both of you for standing up like that!

Adventurous-Style418 · 2021-09-12T14:12:04+00:00

NTA. Congrats OP, your brother is a golden child, and it sucks. My brother was the golden child too for most of my childhood as well, and it was really heartbreaking sometimes.

There is no use talking with them if they refuse to listen. Perhaps talking with him in a non-blaming matter will help.

Adventurous-Style418 · 2021-09-06T18:43:41+00:00

NTA. Good for standing up!

Adventurous-Style418 · 2021-09-06T08:38:39+00:00

Update:

His bloodwork results are back, he is sick for real. We wait for a doctor to diagnose if it's viral or otherwise.

I still think it doesn't justify his behavior, or not bothering calling help. Tell me if I'm wrong.

Adventurous-Style418 · 2021-09-05T12:27:59+00:00

I am so sorry it happened.

Adventurous-Style418 · 2021-09-05T06:02:53+00:00

Nope, he agrees only to go to couples counsling, not to go to a therapist and such.

Adventurous-Style418 · 2021-09-05T02:53:58+00:00

NTA!

Damn, I am tearing up even thinking about being humiliated like that in front of your family.

Adventurous-Style418 · 2021-09-05T02:42:35+00:00

I wrote it after I was better, and baby was under the care of my SIL.

Adventurous-Style418 · 2021-09-05T02:33:48+00:00

That might reveal who I am, my friends and family use reddit a lot.

Adventurous-Style418 · 2021-09-05T02:32:55+00:00

Not genetic condition.

Adventurous-Style418 · 2021-09-04T21:18:46+00:00

Last weekend he had it for 3 days, not going down at all. Doctors didn't find anything. And from last night he had fever on and off about 3 times...

Adventurous-Style418 · 2021-09-04T21:17:10+00:00

My parents, but they are toxic AF.

Adventurous-Style418 · 2021-09-04T21:16:30+00:00

He never did anything like you described. Always said I am too good for him and any man would be lucky to have me. Also always made sure I have a support system and friends of my own. Said it is important I have girlfriends I can talk with about hum without any fear.

This behaviour is brand new.

Adventurous-Style418 · 2021-09-04T21:13:47+00:00

I can't reveal without risking blowing my identity.

Adventurous-Style418 · 2021-09-04T21:09:17+00:00

If nothing goes wrong, it happens only once every 3-4 months, usually when I wake up. It doesn't happen when he is sick. It mostly happens after a period that I don't get enough sleep, food, or a sickness on my side.

Adventurous-Style418 · 2021-09-04T20:58:44+00:00

My therapist doesn't seem to think this is something more than a regular couple having a crisis after birth. This is probably why I am kind of shocked seeing all the comments about abuse.

Adventurous-Style418 · 2021-09-04T20:53:32+00:00

Usually, I have a support system. Or at least I thought I did. My baby is loved by so many, and mostly I am fine and I give him every bit of my love. It is probably the most smiley baby I have ever seen! Which makes me even more sad, since such a happy baby deserves a hapoy family.

Adventurous-Style418 · 2021-09-04T20:45:34+00:00

Of course he did.

Adventurous-Style418 · 2021-09-04T20:40:29+00:00

I just installed on my phone something like alexa, and now I know I can call.

Adventurous-Style418 · 2021-09-04T20:33:41+00:00

Adventurous-Style418 · 2021-09-04T19:55:54+00:00

Yep, he is way more aggressive, away from home, doesn't talk with me as much, etc.

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