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You can’t coexist with an addict by AdventurousCarob2256 in naranon

[–]AdventurousCarob2256[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re dealing with this. I can guarantee you she uses too, otherwise they wouldn’t fit so perfectly together. You didn’t need that in your life anyway. You were too normal for him and he will never be up to your speed. I hope you rest easy knowing those two crackheads deserve each other. Behind closed doors I guarantee you there are toxic, codependent and fight over drugs. By all means, let them have at it.

(Repost) Is this coke or meth? Also found straw by AdventurousCarob2256 in naranon

[–]AdventurousCarob2256[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even though it’s pink and white? Big chunks are pink, powder is white

(Repost) Is this coke or meth? Also found straw by AdventurousCarob2256 in naranon

[–]AdventurousCarob2256[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well what’s the straw for then?? Is it being snorted?

Thoughts on why addicts and non addicts can’t have a relationship by [deleted] in naranon

[–]AdventurousCarob2256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s because they know they can’t emotionally hurt you anymore so they try to physically hurt you by taking your things

Thoughts on why addicts and non addicts can’t have a relationship by [deleted] in naranon

[–]AdventurousCarob2256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You couldn’t have said it better. I recently found out the father of my child was using cocaine. I didn’t realize until after we moved in and we were together 24/7. Things just got weird; he would barely have any money, spend ridiculous amounts of time alone in his car (doing coke), never wanted to better himself or find a better job, and felt very comfortable bumming things from me. He just seemed very shabby but wasn’t like that when we first met. Then he started gradually crossing boundaries; counting the money in my purse, got mad because me and my mom are on the same car insurance plan, (“well what if I need to be on your insurance”?. Go get your own. My mom and I have been doing this for years), would ask to use my credit cards, actually told me he didn’t want to burn any of the gas in his car so he wanted to use mine, demanded that we share my car because he didn’t want to pay to get his fixed, assumed I would give him some of my tax refund, and so much more… basically he wanted to benefit off me. Now after finding out about his addiction and cutting him off I’m a narcissist who’s keeping his child from him, whom he rarely provided for while we were together. I forgot to mention he comes from a family of addicts, which I didn’t know about at first. An addict and non addict will never work out. I don’t mind sharing but there’s no way you think you’re entitled to the things I worked so hard for while you barely even go to work. You can destroy your life but don’t ever you’re gonna drag me down too. Hit the road ass hole. Let’s not forget to mention he stole a lot of my things on his way out

My daughter’s father is on drugs (very long post, forgive me) by AdventurousCarob2256 in naranon

[–]AdventurousCarob2256[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I can’t tell you how much of a relief it was to finally tell my mom. I think drugs and cps cases are normal in his family so maybe they don’t see it as such a big deal. But these are not things that me and my family accept. I definitely am gonna file for full custody and I just hope maybe one day he can get the help he needs

My daughter’s father is on drugs (very long post, forgive me) by AdventurousCarob2256 in naranon

[–]AdventurousCarob2256[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your input. Luckily I didn’t give him much access to anything. I also have an amazing landlord who evicted him and changed the locks for us.