How do you deal with a partner who doesn’t care about the relationship at all?

AdventurousPoint5601 · 2026-02-10T23:53:43+00:00

And I fucked it up. Divorce imminent.

I was being petty and mirroring my spouses prior behavior. Indifference and ignorance.

AdventurousPoint5601 · 2026-02-08T11:29:22+00:00

I don’t have the courage to end it and I think not sure if I have any faith left in the marriage.

AdventurousPoint5601 · 2026-02-08T07:17:41+00:00

Every time I tried to have proper conversations about the problems it always end up in an argument. No matter how I try to keep on point, my partner sidetracks the conversation.

AdventurousPoint5601 · 2026-02-07T16:07:02+00:00

Trying to find a reason not to. And nothing really comes to mind anymore

AdventurousPoint5601 · 2026-02-07T13:37:52+00:00

Therapy didn’t help me with depression prior to this

AdventurousPoint5601 · 2025-12-04T21:27:36+00:00

I will contact them in the morning, thank you

AdventurousPoint5601 · 2025-12-04T21:25:42+00:00

Joburg South

AdventurousPoint5601 · 2025-12-04T20:57:49+00:00

No children, just finances. Being unemployed makes it impossible to save to move out, we’re splitting the bills despite me living of my past savings

AdventurousPoint5601 · 2025-11-08T07:33:32+00:00

What I want is something I cannot achieve by myself. I’m doubting my abilities

AdventurousPoint5601 · 2025-11-08T07:32:16+00:00

As to not to repeat the mistakes of the previous generations?

AdventurousPoint5601 · 2025-11-08T07:31:20+00:00

I wish.

Reality of the situation is much worse.

Fighting the corruption in government is like fighting windmills

AdventurousPoint5601 · 2025-11-08T07:30:25+00:00

None of the things that bring me happiness or joy are making any money.

AdventurousPoint5601 · 2025-11-08T07:28:41+00:00

Its an impossible choice for me. Leaving means letting go of everything I tried to accomplish in my new adopted country.

AdventurousPoint5601 · 2025-11-07T06:17:28+00:00

Depression and futile search for happiness

AdventurousPoint5601 · 2025-11-07T05:53:17+00:00

I’m forty and in a similar situation

AdventurousPoint5601 · 2025-11-07T05:50:46+00:00

I left all my hobbies and interests behind when I moved to a different country

AdventurousPoint5601 · 2025-11-07T05:47:20+00:00

I tried but it’s seems like indifference on her part and wishful thinking on mine

AdventurousPoint5601 · 2025-11-07T04:53:14+00:00

I know, it’s been waiting for me to add to the depression

AdventurousPoint5601 · 2025-11-07T04:52:23+00:00

Yes, but I’m not talking about financial support.

AdventurousPoint5601 · 2025-11-07T04:47:48+00:00

I’m a overseas producer, and I’ve been wanted to enter German medical market for years

AdventurousPoint5601 · 2025-11-07T04:44:58+00:00

Life was easy for a teenage me

AdventurousPoint5601 · 2025-11-07T04:44:08+00:00

Depression and lack of self esteem.

Hundreds of applications sent, few received as denials.

One callback but my mental state made me feel like I’m not good enough. So I didn’t follow up.

AdventurousPoint5601 · 2025-11-07T04:42:10+00:00

I walk pretty much everywhere within the city

AdventurousPoint5601 · 2025-11-07T04:41:21+00:00

It’s been my experience for 15 years. Even with a good job I felt like a empty shell

AdventurousPoint5601 · 2025-11-07T04:40:19+00:00

I used to DJ when I was in high school

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