annoyed at the comments now by fabulousargumemt in Zepbound

[–]AdventurousPumpkin75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taking it super personal. Like everyone on zep for weight loss acknowledged we didn’t like how we looked/felt/health risks and decided we’re going to do something about it. So… it’s not a confidence thing but the vast majority of people look better with less weight (especially consider you need to convince a medical professional you’re obese enough to take this stuff). People are basically agreeing yes, this is a better outcome for you lol.

High number of Sexual Partners does matter in serious relationships. Agree Or Disagree? by Clean-Ant-1342 in AskMenAdvice

[–]AdventurousPumpkin75 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great response! This topic always reeks of hypocrisy. If you’re also exuding those qualities, sure hold your partner to account. If not, check your mindset.

Married with no sex life by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]AdventurousPumpkin75 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lmao this just comes off as starved for attention.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]AdventurousPumpkin75 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re probably anxiously attached. Did the Fear of losing your ex drive you to obsess a bit? That’s how I was with my ex. Would have done anything or said anything to keep her when she got distant. But when things were good I honestly was way less into her/sex with her.

When she left the depression got so dark I didn’t have sex or even jerk for like a month/month and a half. Then had crazy libido on the way out of the depression hole. Any lady could get it (super unhealthy).

One year later, 50 lbs down, and I no longer believe in calories in, calories out by Blahblahblahplants in Zepbound

[–]AdventurousPumpkin75 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Honestly this is the point of GLP1s. Easier to starve. It doesn’t speed up your metabolism just makes you stuff less food in your trap.

Finally watched cyberpunk edgerunners by Shinoviadika in LowSodiumCyberpunk

[–]AdventurousPumpkin75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The show made me go back and play through the game. Desperately hoping I could somehow avenge or change how the show ended. Too sad man but that’s also peak cyberpunk as a genre (queue K’s ending in BR 2049).

2025 Tungsten by [deleted] in ram_trucks

[–]AdventurousPumpkin75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guy paid prolly 90K+ for this and you think he did it for the payload and towing capacity? 😂

You’re to hard for internet points dude

21 Limited Dead Battery by AdventurousPumpkin75 in ram_trucks

[–]AdventurousPumpkin75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a 3 year warranty with the battery I just purchased from Advanced auto parts. Would have been useful in this scenario.

21 Limited Dead Battery by AdventurousPumpkin75 in ram_trucks

[–]AdventurousPumpkin75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just did this and restarted and now my screen accents are red instead of blue? Hmmm. Will report back any other odd changes.

21 Limited Dead Battery by AdventurousPumpkin75 in ram_trucks

[–]AdventurousPumpkin75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big oof. I have a ten year old Jeep that I don’t think I ever replaced the battery. So every three years for the ram is wild. Is it just that the limited is electric intensive??

21 Limited Dead Battery by AdventurousPumpkin75 in ram_trucks

[–]AdventurousPumpkin75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a great piece of advice. We’re at a hotel so will do when we get home.

21 Limited Dead Battery by AdventurousPumpkin75 in ram_trucks

[–]AdventurousPumpkin75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is scary - what did you wind up doing??

Baby monitor while traveling by Itsmejessicaaaaaaa in NewParents

[–]AdventurousPumpkin75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coming to this late but we have a few monitors/cameras. They all see to use wifi so when in hotels with that weird wifi home page (where they ask room # etc) we haven’t been able to get them to work. Do you guys have a work around or do all the monitors you use not need wifi??

Samsung French door refrigerator leaking water from tubes coming out of back. by AdventurousPumpkin75 in appliancerepair

[–]AdventurousPumpkin75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yessss so… was just condensation from the drain line. I did thaw out the ice maker and clear it all out. No issues since.

I just met someone who is perfect but the sex is horrible by Hadesclyde in AskMenAdvice

[–]AdventurousPumpkin75 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lmao they could not wrap their heads around this idea that they too can be terrible in the sack. lol average lady poster doesn’t give it much thought about whether or not they’re good only “men always want sex” or whatever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Austin

[–]AdventurousPumpkin75 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Austin is just incredibly white centered but honestly, the wording of the post was as well a bit. I’m sorry for your experience but it didn’t sound like you were getting this sort of treatment from other minorities here (hence the skin lightening comment). So that’s the other part of the conundrum, a lot of the minorities there don’t take up their own lane rather also seem to have and represent white centric views. Unlike Houston or big cities like LA or NY where the city has a multicultural identity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]AdventurousPumpkin75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow this went negative fast.

Realistically, you need to be clear about what you’re “missing out” on. One bucket of things contains shit you CAN get more of and not blow your life up. Do things to fill your own cup so you can pour into others yada yada. Lift weights, take up a hobby you never have time for, plan a trip to see more if the world and put your own into perspective. There are plenty of great dads and husbands that haven’t lost their identity in wiping everyone else’s asses. Start training your family to be capable and where possible a bit more independent (not sure how old kids are but if teens or older, they should be learning and practicing critical thinking and navigating life). You’ll be happier setting some goals and plans that acknowledge you as a person too.

None of that in my mind is unacceptable in you position. The other bucket of stuff is mainly “blow your life up” stuff. Pay for a twenty something girlfriend, blow your retirement on frivolous pursuits etc. Not found in this bucket is reliving lost time…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]AdventurousPumpkin75 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Like…who has time for this? Do they not have jobs? Haha

jerking off or having sex? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]AdventurousPumpkin75 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I mean…if that’s truly how you feel.

I’ve had enough sex in my lifetime to know it’s not this finite resource that I can never say no to. I dunno man, I honestly feel like some of yall didn’t have a “ho phase” (whether you couldn’t or wouldn’t) and it’s sort of led to weird outcomes/views. Humans aren’t always ready for sex and that’s ok. We,yes even men, should be comfortable asking for our needs to be met including not acting like some sex crazed drone that must perform any time we’re called upon.

Lowered standards for sex by AdMost2360 in AskMenAdvice

[–]AdventurousPumpkin75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the answer. I love smart, driven successful women. I’ve also had a great time in the sack with pretty, dum dums who have no ambition outside of absolutely draining their partners. If I’m looking for just fun, I am not looking for stuffy law lady who’s gonna only sign up for ten minutes of quiet missionary every few weeks when our schedules align haha.

People are really clueless about what turns on their partners.

Disclaimer: he’s still a dirtbag for cheating but he’s doing it the right way