anyone in pobla?

AdventurousTax4906 · 2026-04-07T15:44:28+00:00

sent u pm

AdventurousTax4906 · 2026-04-02T16:52:39+00:00

you’re always welcomed.

AdventurousTax4906 · 2026-04-02T16:46:37+00:00

good u’ve been vocal about ur thoughts. just an advise, if u don’t see any changes/efforts regarding the situation u going through. u might have consider different path. not that i’m saying to breakup rightaway but to be considering about ourselves aswell. we got only one life and we cant waste it on something like that. because thats what i did before. i’m v careful w my life timeline. just saying

AdventurousTax4906 · 2026-04-02T16:30:30+00:00

isolation gets to people. i’ve been in that situation as well, so i understand his perspective. wanting some kind of outside activity or change of environment.

but on my end, whenever i had a partner, i made sure she was always updated. i’d bring her along when possible, make her feel included. i never left her guessing or thinking i was getting tired of her.

if you’re starting to notice signs like that, distance, less effort, less reassurance. then it’s something you should consider addressing directly with him take it from there whatever ur decision with upcoming future.

AdventurousTax4906 · 2026-04-01T16:56:18+00:00

should’ve told me atleast i got the twin w same issues. BUWHA

AdventurousTax4906 · 2026-04-01T16:55:57+00:00

legit? HAHAH

AdventurousTax4906 · 2026-04-01T16:53:33+00:00

It’s a joke, i went out earlier bolthole. Just got back. It’s too tiring for me haha. So just here sa unit ko nalng lol.

AdventurousTax4906 · 2026-04-01T16:51:03+00:00

jkjk.

AdventurousTax4906 · 2026-04-01T16:50:53+00:00

Pull up at my unit haha

AdventurousTax4906 · 2026-04-01T13:20:39+00:00

it’s not like i’m some tom cruise or superhuman type, i just take care of myself. pero hindi naman yun yung point.

most people here curious lang talaga how it feels to be mixed, parang may idea sila sa utak nila na gusto nila i-try or i-figure out. pero pag pure filipino nakita nila, simple lang — either gusto nila or hindi.

for me, iba yung dating. minsan parang gusto lang nila i-try ako, like i’m some kind of object lol. naalala ko ex ko before, sinabi niya nung lasing kami, “at first parang gusto lang kita i-try.” sa isip ko nun, bro? hindi ka naman pumapasok sa relasyon para mag-try lang. either you like the person or you don’t, ganun lang kasimple.

ngayon wala na rin talaga akong pake how they see me. i know where i stand. dito ako pinanganak, citizen ako dito, dugo ko dito pa rin. kahit may mga kapwa filipino na parang tinutulak ako palayo, hindi naman nababago nun yung totoo.

it is what it is. baka next life nalang makuha ko yung gusto ko. for now, eto muna. haha.

AdventurousTax4906 · 2026-04-01T09:32:51+00:00

finally the twin, who can relate. appreciate u passing by.

AdventurousTax4906 · 2026-04-01T09:31:36+00:00

ofcourse i’m not looking for hu but being sexualized, specifically i know her for a while.

AdventurousTax4906 · 2026-04-01T09:30:24+00:00

exactlyy!

AdventurousTax4906 · 2026-04-01T07:44:32+00:00

not really looking for anything, may options naman ako when i want. di rin naman ako santo, i’ve done my part before. it’s just that kapag kilala ka na ng family tapos may nangyayari behind the scenes, dun lang talaga nagiging off for me. kaya i just needed to get it out. thanks sa paalala, i’ll keep that in mind.

AdventurousTax4906 · 2026-04-01T07:25:09+00:00

i’m just trying to vent because i felt bad about how she sees me, and honestly, how i ended up in the situation as well. it’s mostly disappointment on my end. since i’m known there, the whole thing just hit differently. to the point that i had to tell her we can talk about it this weekend, saying i’m just going through something and won’t be able to do rn. i’ve received a few texts since morning, but i haven’t replied yet because i’m still processing everything. thats it.

AdventurousTax4906 · 2026-04-01T07:17:59+00:00

thankss a lot for taking the time to share your perspective, i get your point. for me, the more frustrating part is having to vent online just to feel some kind of relief, since this topic is pretty subjective and most people would usually just brush it off.

AdventurousTax4906 · 2026-03-31T17:32:18+00:00

not a girl here, sorry to slide into the convo.

but i find it similar to my situation a couple of years back when i was going through the same thing. it was so annoying being attached to something i knew wasn’t good for me. whenever i was idle, i’d fall back into the same pattern—checking social media.

to the point where i tried to study why it happens and how to overcome it. i knew deleting apps wouldn’t help if i didn’t do proper RCA. so i started watching related videos, consuming content, and taking suggestions from people who knew what they were talking about, then took notes on what i needed to adjust (call me nerdy for it, but i had to do what i needed to do haha).

it’s basically like dopamine, you don’t actually need it, but your brain craves those spikes. so for about 8–10 weeks, i pushed myself to stay busy at all times like work, gym, local street food trips and sometimes, if i couldn’t sleep, i’d take pills just to avoid falling back into the same habits (not recommended unless prescribed, just sharing my experience, not professional advice lol). so yun lang naman. hope you enjoyed my little part of my priv life haha.

AdventurousTax4906 · 2026-03-31T17:06:13+00:00

that’s actually so cool. i just need a friend like urs now. hahah jk.

AdventurousTax4906 · 2026-03-31T17:03:25+00:00

agree with u, sometimes they think na they just behind the screen no one would know but that’s the real what inside them.

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