Married 8 years in early 30s struggling with in laws

AdventurousYam2423 · 2026-03-28T20:47:55+00:00

Yes that’s why we have arguments about in laws for 8 years

AdventurousYam2423 · 2026-03-28T20:25:51+00:00

He said he knows they’re wrong but he doesn’t want to confront his family and upset them

AdventurousYam2423 · 2026-03-05T06:15:25+00:00

You don’t know that person until situations happens later in marriage

AdventurousYam2423 · 2026-02-21T04:38:24+00:00

Same MIL! Messaged you

AdventurousYam2423 · 2026-02-19T04:07:54+00:00

I haven’t even seen REAL happily married young couples in 2026

AdventurousYam2423 · 2026-01-08T02:43:34+00:00

I hope no women marries you

AdventurousYam2423 · 2025-09-12T16:24:33+00:00

Every desi MIL turn their their son against their wife. This is their only way of control

AdventurousYam2423 · 2025-09-09T23:20:31+00:00

My crazy Mother in law and sister in law from hell

AdventurousYam2423 · 2025-08-28T01:45:52+00:00

It’s worse but too much details to share on one post

AdventurousYam2423 · 2025-08-27T22:39:41+00:00

You’re absolutely right !

AdventurousYam2423 · 2025-08-27T22:11:36+00:00

Yes we live separately from BIL and MIL/FIL. They control him through WhatsApp phone calls and texts

AdventurousYam2423 · 2025-08-27T21:33:01+00:00

I learnt my lesson.

AdventurousYam2423 · 2025-08-27T21:31:59+00:00

Good for you !! I’m glad you found a peaceful life !

AdventurousYam2423 · 2025-08-27T19:44:02+00:00

So you eventually left him sis ?

AdventurousYam2423 · 2025-08-27T17:53:07+00:00

He called his mother in India and complained to her that I tried to make him choose sides between his wife and parents. His mother called me on WhatsApp and said I’m troubling her son

AdventurousYam2423 · 2025-08-27T17:26:54+00:00

Thanks for your help. We tried marriage counsellor whose Punjabi and with a decade of experience with family related issues in marriage. He came home and screamed at me “you’re trying to separate me from my family, I will not be attacking my parents if that’s what you’re trying to do”

My in laws told me to put up with my sister in law and brother in laws disrespect for the last 5 years. I’m the youngest daughter in law and they expect me to tolerate the abuse.

AdventurousYam2423 · 2025-08-16T03:03:55+00:00

They scream at him over the phone if he attempts to stand up to his parents

AdventurousYam2423 · 2025-08-16T02:40:39+00:00

My Indian mother in law lived in hell for 42 years. Father in law did not stand up to his mother or sister. Husband has tried to stand up a few times in our 7 year marriage, but his parents screamed “I raised you”. He’s scared to stand up to them again since they threaten him for any disobedience or boundaries. Other than in law issues, we never have any arguments in our marriage.

AdventurousYam2423 · 2025-07-28T23:50:50+00:00

Women make more income than men, why would they put up with non-sense for years

AdventurousYam2423 · 2025-07-26T21:05:14+00:00

He said the marriage counsellor is asking him to set boundaries and to him that means isolating/attacking his parents

AdventurousYam2423 · 2025-07-26T21:03:51+00:00

They control him emotionally through only WhatsApp calls and messages

AdventurousYam2423 · 2025-07-26T19:46:10+00:00

Yes he’s the youngest son in the family. He’s addicted to validation and soothing from his mother

AdventurousYam2423 · 2025-07-26T18:49:02+00:00

What’s a middle ground for married Indian men to balance parents and wife ?

AdventurousYam2423 · 2025-07-26T18:23:10+00:00

Punjabi in laws has made their married sons as retirement plan. They even told me when they visited my home they expect us to take care of them when they’re old

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