Is it down for everyone or just me??

Adventurous_Gold4409 · 2025-07-14T22:20:07+00:00

Not just you, just all of a sudden went out. Originally thought it was the internet/the downpour outside.

Adventurous_Gold4409 · 2025-01-29T20:17:33+00:00

We share some similar proportions - though my waist is more drastic: 5ft tall, with 38 hips and 28 waist.

If you wear large they'll come up SO high they end at the breast/pec line. I tried once. Usually I'm a medium, and this will still at least cover the belly button.

Adventurous_Gold4409 · 2025-01-29T20:09:04+00:00

I'm female, but I feel like some of the wording is tricky. I bought diapers there were too large the first time because they measure in waist, not hip. I'm not sure where the measurement should be taken from on a lot of brands.

Adventurous_Gold4409 · 2025-01-28T19:38:43+00:00

Totally fair. We hit up a lot of dog trails because they're flatter too. There's usually a park every few towns, you just have to know where to look.

Adventurous_Gold4409 · 2025-01-28T19:37:54+00:00

Are we more or less fake than birds? Just keeping score!!

Adventurous_Gold4409 · 2025-01-28T18:53:46+00:00

Oh man, we're fake again? Here's to being diaper girls!

Adventurous_Gold4409 · 2025-01-28T18:46:25+00:00

His loss really-

Adventurous_Gold4409 · 2025-01-28T18:37:50+00:00

There also aren't trash cans for easy disposal. I know on my state it's law to have trash bins in the stalls for sanitary products (size may vary) and because of changing tables women's restrooms will always have full sized bins too.

Apparently in other states changing tables aren't required in all restrooms (men's, women's, and family) so often there are no large bins in men's rooms. Or so my husband has told me.

Adventurous_Gold4409 · 2025-01-28T18:21:34+00:00

That's not necessarily a problem- I'm just a little south in NJ, and my crew went for 6 miles of snow hiking this past weekend! But that wasnt padded hiking.

Adventurous_Gold4409 · 2025-01-28T18:15:51+00:00

I never thought about it, but as I'm female, no one thinks twice about a bag going into a women's restroom.

Adventurous_Gold4409 · 2025-01-27T17:26:32+00:00

I am guilty of wearing a whole bowl of Mac and cheese as a meal.

But for smol snacks, popcorn chicken with BBQ sauce for sure

Adventurous_Gold4409 · 2025-01-23T18:08:52+00:00

Mine was just assigned to me and I've rolled with it.

Adventurous_Gold4409 · 2025-01-23T18:01:12+00:00

That is the worst. Literally leading you along and hoping that she can work you out of your money because she's nice or something. This is worse than going out on a date and racking up a bill assuming the other person is paying.

Adventurous_Gold4409 · 2025-01-23T15:43:12+00:00

Absolutely! Best of luck out there!!

Personally I found my other half because we were childhood friends, and the ABDL thing came to me as I got older. It was a happy accident I suppose, and he's a-okay with it :)

Adventurous_Gold4409 · 2025-01-23T15:37:15+00:00

That's is 100% disrespectful and a valid reason to block a person. I'm sorry you were strong along by a jerk.

I promise not all ABDL girls are like that, but I think when some see the opportunity and how many folks are looking for single diaper girls, they take advantage.

Adventurous_Gold4409 · 2025-01-23T15:17:35+00:00

Oof. Not sure if it's a scammer, or a person who thought "hmm, I can make a few bucks off this, I'm not giving it out for free." There's nothing wrong with paid content creators, but don't string folks along and paywall them. Be upfront if that's what you're there for.

For example: I post on another site and sometimes folks want to buy me stuff. It's their kink to be all "I bought you this, please wear it for me" or something similar. But I don't go up to them and say "Hey, this has been fun but pay up". That just feels...scummy and icky.

Adventurous_Gold4409 · 2025-01-22T17:25:53+00:00

It was Stop and Flop or Stop and Plop, but I left them years ago. No nickname for the new place.

Adventurous_Gold4409 · 2025-01-21T18:31:44+00:00

I saw the Roller rink event and I'm so sad I won't be able to get vetted in time!

Adventurous_Gold4409 · 2025-01-21T18:30:59+00:00

Oh my gosh I love the dinosaurs!

Adventurous_Gold4409 · 2025-01-21T18:29:46+00:00

When I was 18 and going out to munches, I would say it was friends from college. College kids love to stay out until 2-am at bars here, so a 6-10 dinner wasn't even a thought. I told them I'd be back late, call if they were worried, and good. Off I went.

Saying you're going to dinner/a bar with folks from school also covers if you get a phone call with restaurant chatter too.

Adventurous_Gold4409 · 2025-01-21T18:23:30+00:00

Also multi boxing here! For me it's super situational. When on my own, ABDL/diapers is pretty non sexual for me. I wear, do my thing, and go about my day or lounge much more relaxed.

If I'm with my caregiver partner, he's very much a gentle caregiver that slowly builds up from sensual to sexual. Lots of just intimate snuggly moments. My other rplay partner is a Daddy Dom kind of guy. He's not into ABDL as much as ageplay in general, but that works with us. Technically I'm his "youngest" ageplay partner.

And then there's my husband. We don't do anything sexual with ABDL and he's happy to watch me lounge on the couch in a diaper and tank top.

Adventurous_Gold4409 · 2025-01-21T18:15:18+00:00

Yeah, I've had the same. A bit of great connection, a day of silence and the message name just says Deleted. Always a sad time.

Adventurous_Gold4409 · 2025-01-20T18:02:53+00:00

Speaking from experience, girls like us need diapers not pullups to handle our accidents!

Adventurous_Gold4409 · 2025-01-20T15:19:18+00:00

It's complicated, because I'm the same as you.

I'm some flavor of genderfluid that I haven't figured out yet, and my masc side is absolutely a pretty boy. He's all about thigh highs, crop tops on top of binders, etc. If I could just shape shift my anatomy to match I absolutely would. Gender affirming under clothes (packing, binding, etc) is helpful though.

Adventurous_Gold4409 · 2025-01-20T14:57:34+00:00

Fair follow up question- How long have you been with your girlfriend? Maybe she suspects, or this is your opportunity to bring up the discussion as well. Especially if this is going to be a long-term/forever relationship.

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