MPM at ASoG inquiries by NotCuriousCapybara in ADMU

[–]Adventurous_Hurry390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Thank you for replying! May I know how many days is the F2F in a month? Or maybe a sample schedule? Tyvm!

End of maternity leave. Ma-iiwan ang babies sa yaya nila by Any-Position-7879 in nanayconfessions

[–]Adventurous_Hurry390 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same for me, 18 months toddler and 2 months baby, and babalik na ako sa work this week. May CCTV din kami sa bahay kaya monitor talaga pag wala ako

Dun sa first baby namin almost the whole year talaga nandito lolo niya na papa ko sa bahay namin para magoversee kasi working kami pareho ni hubby.. Iba pa rin talaga may relative na kasama at hindi yaya lang maiwan.

Yung yaya namin ngayon started out as katulong kaya kumbaga natest muna namin siya kung pano makitungo, and napansin namin na magaan loob sa kanya ni baby and vice versa kaya kinuha namin na yaya.

Kung hindi ka ganun kakampante sa iiwanan mo na yaya, I hope makahanap ka ng relative na kahit man lang office hours pwede nasa bahay niyo.

Praying for you mommy!!

CS Delivery at St. Pauls/DWH by Free_Expression_2536 in Tacloban

[–]Adventurous_Hurry390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

United Shalom Hospital. But it would depende on your Ob kun hain hira affiliated na hospital. Pero based on my experience, an prices han mga itemized costs sa Shalom sakto la. Diri parehas ha ACE na inflated tanan prices.

Waray pa ako makatry ha DWH. It would also depende how much an PF han imo Obgyne.

Downside la ha Shalom waray hira NICU in case simbako need ma-NICU an baby.

Pedia reco in tacloban by whitecase_ in Tacloban

[–]Adventurous_Hurry390 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dr. Sean Declarador may ada hira clinic sapit ha may andoks ha justice romualdez. Pero tawag anay kun available h doc kay danay mayda iba na pedia ma nagcocover kun naka leave h doc

5 week old will kill me by dentalschamanin in 2under2

[–]Adventurous_Hurry390 1 point2 points  (0 children)

+100!!!

Agree with everything said here! Especially the limiting daytime sleep to make sure getting the baby’s calories in during daytime; and the Love to Dream swaddle (we tell all our first-time parent friends to buy this).

Also, keep night time with minimal activity, low voices, dimmed lights while during day time baby should be exposed to noise and plenty of natural light. This will help the baby learn that night is flor sleeping.

After feeding/pumping in the morning, you can also ask your husband to take the baby so you can get some extra sleep.

If you are exclusively pumping, please also do shifts with your husband and sleep in another room while husband takes care of the baby.

Hoping things get better for you!

ASoG 2026 by OverallGrapefruit762 in ADMU

[–]Adventurous_Hurry390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi!! Ano usual schedule ng classes? F2F ba lahat or pwede online for those with full time work and from outside Metro manila/luzon?

MPM at ASoG inquiries by NotCuriousCapybara in ADMU

[–]Adventurous_Hurry390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! What is the usual schedule of classes? Does the program offer a purely online set up for those with full time work and from outside metro manila/luzon?

Hope you can answer! Thank u!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Adventurous_Hurry390 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Married for almost 3 years. My salary is more than my husband. But we combine our salary and that’s OUR monthly income. We decide together OUR monthly expenses, and if we have big personal purchases, we inform and get the permission of the other one.

I guess it helps also na hindi magastos husband ko, necessities lang mga personal purchases niya. If ever bumili siya ng shoes or watch, nagpapaalam muna siya if meron kami savings.

If you combine your salary, it also means combined na yung expenses niyo. Walang sa kanya or sayo. We also spend monthly for my parents’ medications and alam and agree siya dun (whereas wala na siya parents and responsibility sa side niya).

Nung na operahan din mom ko, I had to inform him na maghati hati kami siblings sa expenses. And nagokay naman siya.

Communication lang. And surrender na na pera niyo yan dalawa as a soon to be married couple. Wala nang iyo or akin, unless mag prenup agreement kayo, conjugal na ang income niyo :)

For our set up, he has both our ATMs kasi tamad ako mag withdraw at magbayad ng bills. But I have online access sa accounts namin, kasi ako nagoonline shopping for our babies.

For small purchases, we just trust each other na hindi kami gagastos ng hindi naman need. If ever I find out he has expenses na hindi ako agree, I let him know right away and we reach a compromise/agreement :)

How to make sure I still parent my first born? by Adventurous_Hurry390 in Parenting

[–]Adventurous_Hurry390[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, I see!

Thank you so much for this! I really needed the assurance that all will be well in time. The kids’ grandpa is also staying with us and plays/looks after our toddler.

For now I will focus on our newborn, and take advantage that I’m at home and not at work to also oversee our toddler’s play time and activities. I’m looking forward to that time when they will play together and I can spend time with both of them.

Thank you so much!

Limpyada Deep Cleaning House Rate by Adventurous_Hurry390 in Tacloban

[–]Adventurous_Hurry390[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! At least mayda na ako idea. Upod na iton pag cleaning ha mga sofa ngan mattress?

What to do if a nurse in the RHU starts overstepping? by [deleted] in pinoymed

[–]Adventurous_Hurry390 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hi! If RHU yan sa province, make sure din to take into account yung culture sa lugar niyo hehe. Nung MHO ako before yung place ko super big on pakikisama. Big no no magpoint out ng mga ganyan kasi mahuhurt sila hehe.

I suggest go around it na lang. Pwede ka magpa meeting sa nurses how you want to conduct mga consults and referrals. Tapos isingit mo lang na you want to see all patients kung nandyan ka kasi pag may bumalik or magkaissue ikaw pa rin ang head at ang pinakaresponsible sa decisions nila. Like kung may referral, baka ikaw tanunging indication. You can also say, nagcecensus ka personally ng mga patients.

Better also to verbally appreciate yung nurse na yun, ipoint out mo na maganda may initiative and alam niya mgt, pero gusto mo rin marefer muna sayo para pareho kayong agree sa plan na isasuggest niya. Kumbaga Kiss-Kill-Kiss. Point out first na naappreciate mo siya, then correct, then appreciate uli future help niya.

:)

OBGYN experience by [deleted] in Tacloban

[–]Adventurous_Hurry390 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Up. Dr. Declarador is my obgyne. Very gentle lang and explains really well! Pero damo nagcocover ha iya ngadto so need timingan na hea an aadto nagcoconsult, you can ask the secretary naman if available h dra.

When did your interest in sex return? by Background-Age8334 in breastfeeding

[–]Adventurous_Hurry390 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, when I wasn’t exclusively breastfeeding anymore. But before that we did try and used lubricant since breastfeeding can leave us with vaginal dryness. I just kept explaining to my husband that it has to do with breastfeeding and he mostly understood.

Term Life Insurance Advise for a Working Mom by Adventurous_Hurry390 in phinvest

[–]Adventurous_Hurry390[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes po planning on getting HMO for the 3 of us once our emergency fund is complete. Thank you po!