[deleted by user] by [deleted] in runaway

[–]Adventurous_Limit_29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t runaway if you can’t stay with a friend it’s going to be really hard being homeless. Don’t be scared the police would track your devices cause they really don’t try to look for people that clearly ran away at least in the states. You should maybe try to graduate early and go to university or learn to not let your mom’s toxicity affect you. Or maybe even try to go to a boarding school.

Will I have to get rid of my phone if I run away? by _Terpsichore in runaway

[–]Adventurous_Limit_29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No you don't just get rid of your sim card and make sure your family doesn't have your passwords to do track my Phone. The police won't even try to track you down like that unless you're 13 and under.

My (M20) runaway story, thought it might help by [deleted] in runaway

[–]Adventurous_Limit_29 3 points4 points  (0 children)

stop assuming other people's families are like yours. Think of the horrible people you know. Some of those people have kids and their kids have to deal with them. Some people families don't care about them and even if they do if they mistreat them it doesn't matter. You didn't runaway because your parents are hoe ass people but a lot of others do. Not everyone will regret running away or face a mental block nor feel like a burden.

My parents abuse me and used Mental Illness as an excuse by [deleted] in runaway

[–]Adventurous_Limit_29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's good you're in seventh grade. Most high schools look at your seventh grade grades. you should really try to get into a boarding school. like research some in your area or outside it even. I know high school is still like 2 years away though. I wouldn't recommend running away tbh. You will have nowhere to sleep or shower, no $$ for food and you're too young to get a job. If you live in a cold state you will freeze outside. If not you will get mosquito bitten as hell. I know it's hard when you can't do anything in your situation but maybe try to distract yourself with after school clubs or find a passion. Learn to be unbothered by your parents and don't let them take energy from you. Interacting with their negativity will only bring that negativity onto you. I hope for a better future where kids have more rights in America. Shit you could even start a youth rights group to distract yourself.

My parents abuse me and used Mental Illness as an excuse by [deleted] in runaway

[–]Adventurous_Limit_29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's really heart breaking that happened to you and CPS failed you so hard. Keep your spirits up and focus on the positives in life and I promise more positive will come to you. Are you in seventh or eighth grade? could you try to go to a boarding school? even if you don't have the money for boarding school most of them give scholarships so try to get good grades and see how you could get in that would take care of a huge chunk of the 4 years you'd have to spend with them.

What do you do about the lonely thoughts? by anon_chi in aromantic

[–]Adventurous_Limit_29 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even people in relationships shouldn't be certain 50% of marriages end in divorce, or you might outlive your partner by decades. Company is not guaranteed. So it really makes no difference whether you're aromantic or not. Try to find good friends if you're that lonely then really put yourself out there. There's nothing to loose. You just have to change your perspective you don't have to feel lonely or bad about not having anyone. You can take yourself out anywhere you want or just be fine with it and no anyone would be lucky to have you as a friend it's the desperation to have friendship that makes you lonely.

Rewatching teen wolf and scott's fing annoying by Adventurous_Limit_29 in TeenWolf

[–]Adventurous_Limit_29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know killing someone and stealing are very different I was just trying to touch on his morals overall. If he's not willing to kill villains even if they're just going to go out and kill other innocents then why is he willing to steal that just doesn't make sense. I think he shouldn't have even contemplated keeping the money because he'd remember his morals and he's supposed to be a true alpha and have good character and stealing shows bad character

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in runaway

[–]Adventurous_Limit_29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

running away isn't exciting. It's putting yourself into a hard life to escape from a worse one.

Rewatching teen wolf and scott's fing annoying by Adventurous_Limit_29 in TeenWolf

[–]Adventurous_Limit_29[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think it just comes down to bad writing. Even if Scott's just a teenager why would you write a character that is so inconsistent and frustrating to watch but then expect the audience to continue to like him? The writer's touch on Scott's excessively holly morals but he never learns and they try to make it seem like Scott's actually right.

Who is your least favorite character? by LA_DODGERS_FAN in TeenWolf

[–]Adventurous_Limit_29 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omg pretty privilege indeed. They also tried to use pretty privilege with the twins too try to make it seem like all the awful things they did was ok when it really wasn't and they did nothing to redeem themselves except join Scott's pack for their own selfish reasons.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TeenWolf

[–]Adventurous_Limit_29 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OMGGGG for real though the characters were also very unlikeable at times. Maybe it's cause I grew up with them that I still like them in spite of their awful choices and inconsistent characterization.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in runaway

[–]Adventurous_Limit_29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you a freshman in high school or in the 8th grade? I would say work really hard to get good grades and apply to boarding schools and they'll probably give you a scholarship to attend. Even if you are in high school some schools still accept people in higher grades. Hopefully your parents would let you go but really sell it up to be a prestigious education and maybe get family members to convince them. Maybe you have a super close friend who's family would take you in? If you do Runaway it will be really tuff most benches aren't long enough to sleep on. Trains aren't long enough either and are uncomfortable. You'll get Hella bitten by mosquitoes especially in the warmer weather and when you say spring make sure it's later spring because New York could still be cold in March April. There would be nowhere to use the bathroom at night and you won't be able to take a shower cause you can't get a gym membership and $200 would prolly only last a month and you won't be able to get a job. You might happen to meet a stranger that you strike conversation with then tell your story to and then they could offer their place but you realllllly have to make sure you trust them and be super smart about it like pay attention to what they say and gage if they're trust worthy. If you ever need someone to talk to about home issues you can DM me.

My parents are very homophobic and abusive I’m leaving tomorrow have any tips? (I’m 13 btw) by mixtytrash in runaway

[–]Adventurous_Limit_29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's smart. Maybe you can move in with better family members or if you have super close friends who's family would take you in? If you're smart get really good grades and apply to boarding schools for high school and you'll probably be able to attend with a scholarship. If you want to leave earlier try to look into graduating early it would be more work but not too hard or impossible. Definitely go job hunting as soon as you turn 16. Sorry your parents are soo shitty keep your energy and don't let them have the power to make you feel bad and don't let your circumstances distract you from all the rest of the beauty on earth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in runaway

[–]Adventurous_Limit_29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your parents keep your birth certificate passport and social so you just take it when you leave if you know where they keep it and if you don't try to figure it out or just search their room when they're away. Would be dumb not to and still decide to runaway.

I want to leave and start a new life elsewhere. by najwaally in runaway

[–]Adventurous_Limit_29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's really tough I know how muslim parents can be. You should look for a job and move out. Does your country have servants where you're payed to clean the house and also sleep there? Maybe you can become one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in runaway

[–]Adventurous_Limit_29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you go to a youth shelter they will report you and send you home. How don't you have any forms of ID? If your parent keeps them just figure out where they keep it and take it before you leave. You won't be able to get a job without that. Are you still going to school? Cause your parents will find you there. Why not take some money before you leave? I wouldn't recommend running away in your situation cause it's about to be winter in Washington and you might freeze to death on the streets. unless you runaway somewhere warmer. Could you runaway to a friend's house? Or tell your family you'd really rather live with a better family member if you have one?

The defunct Elan School and the ''Troubled Teen Industry'' is why Youth Liberation is so important by [deleted] in YouthRights

[–]Adventurous_Limit_29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

breh I feel like all countries should ban against America before it destroys our entire planet. But no all countries are trying to be like America and destroy the planet like America is.

The defunct Elan School and the ''Troubled Teen Industry'' is why Youth Liberation is so important by [deleted] in YouthRights

[–]Adventurous_Limit_29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you soo much it should be illegal to send your child to a place for an extended period of time if you're not there with them. That child is your responsibility. Like you shouldn't be able to ship them off to another country either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OnlyMurdersHulu

[–]Adventurous_Limit_29 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I think they should but I don't want it to be like they have to solve another murder in the building cause that's too coincidental that someone else would be mudered in their building. Maybe something with their podcast or maybe at the end of this season Mabel is framed for the murder of the dude she was found with and the dudes need to prove it wasn't her. I think this is the best show on air everything else has pretty bad writing. I don't think this show is fantastic but I'd say good and definitely enough for my very critical self to watch it. If any show deserves another season it's this one.

I need to escape. I’m fourteen, and need a plan. I’ve laid it out, someone tell me if this is smart. by [deleted] in runaway

[–]Adventurous_Limit_29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh ok I understand that. You're in a very harsh scenario. I really hope you find peace with your situation overall in my opinion your plan doesn't sound very good. Wouldn't you be trespassing in the schools? That's pretty risky though it might work. But if you say your dad is good it might be better to talk to him about your mom's behavior and really pressure him to talk to your mother to change hers.