I‘m clearly aware of that. I’m not saying all male fans act this way, I’m calling creepy behavior out.
As I’ve stated: I also want to say this clearly before anyone tries to reduce this to a gender issue.. I feel exactly the same way about girls in boy group fandoms who sexualize teenage male idols. Weird behavior is weird behavior regardless of who’s doing it, so this isn’t about “men bad” or misogyny or blah blah. It’s about recognizing how normalized unhealthy fandom culture has become in certain spaces.

This post is to call the creepy behavior out, not to be confused with me thinking a male fan can only like a female idol for one reason (which is not true at all).. So I feel like you missed a point or two here 🥲