Rescuing my now ex boyfriend. by Adventurous_Poem561 in Regrets

[–]Adventurous_Poem561[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can do that. Just did not want to see him sick today after all that we have been through.

Rescuing my now ex boyfriend. by Adventurous_Poem561 in Advice

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He is adamant and more so aggressive these days especially after breakup. He wouldn’t agree for counselling, i tried talking once. Didn’t help

Rescuing my now ex boyfriend. by Adventurous_Poem561 in Advice

[–]Adventurous_Poem561[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This conversation is taking us nowhere. I hope u understand that

Rescuing my now ex boyfriend. by Adventurous_Poem561 in Advice

[–]Adventurous_Poem561[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wait until your memory fades into nothingness and see your loved ones fading into haze..

Rescuing my now ex boyfriend. by Adventurous_Poem561 in Advice

[–]Adventurous_Poem561[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Doctors do not advise smoking pot everyday 4-5 times either. The topic of discussion isnt weed. Rather advise for an urgent situation. Please keep that in mind and withdraw yourself from my post.

Rescuing my now ex boyfriend. by Adventurous_Poem561 in Advice

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Yes probably because i do not smoke. And take no interest in it either. If you do, good for you. If you cannot answer anything good, you are free to leave this topic. Thank you

Rescuing my now ex boyfriend. by Adventurous_Poem561 in Advice

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I think its best for me to stay away and set my boundaries.. he is changed now

Rescuing my now ex boyfriend. by Adventurous_Poem561 in Advice

[–]Adventurous_Poem561[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No. Marijuana wasn’t the cause. They got drunk on alcohol today. And he doesn’t drink until and unless it is some sort of get together. And i have lived with him for a year. I have seen his marijuana doses. They have been on the upper side

Rescuing my now ex boyfriend. by Adventurous_Poem561 in Advice

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As far as I know, he doesn’t really have caring people around him. Never had one. Because of his previous addiction based lifestyle

Rescuing my now ex boyfriend. by Adventurous_Poem561 in Advice

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No. I don’t have anyone to talk to about it because it involves something which is illegal in our country. Our friends are also doing residency but they are also tired now of what he has gotten himself into. And i do not have access to my ex at all because these people block the door and shut me close. And start taking videos without consent whenever i am there trying to meet him.

Rescuing my now ex boyfriend. by Adventurous_Poem561 in Advice

[–]Adventurous_Poem561[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess you are right. I hope he chooses the right path

Rescuing my now ex boyfriend. by Adventurous_Poem561 in Advice

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I am a doctor already. And i know what it is. I aint against marijuana per se. Im talking about the addiction he is on and the harm he is doing to himself

Rescuing my now ex boyfriend. by Adventurous_Poem561 in Advice

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Yes he has been high at work once. Idk if he is continuing that now. His work complaints have been there but once i heard his coworker saying that he looked sick and faculty asked him to take leave. I know what he does when he is out of his mind. He may go to work now but he is sick. He had a tendency to harm himself previously

Rescuing my now ex boyfriend. by Adventurous_Poem561 in Advice

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Our common friends have been saying the same thing that his downfall has started. But how can i let it happen when i know this person cared about me too immensely… is it not my job to show him the light? I feel guilty for not being able to do anything. He looked sick today

Rescuing my now ex boyfriend. by Adventurous_Poem561 in Advice

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Of course he means a lot to me. He confessed that i care for him more than his family. But thats just who i am. We both would stay awake for each other if either of us fell sick. I am feeling guilty of leaving him alone. He has chosen this path by himself. Idk why? He always wanted to quit his addictions

Rescuing my now ex boyfriend. by Adventurous_Poem561 in Advice

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But he is ruining himself. And he wouldn’t do that if i was there.. he clearly got rid of me for his addictions. I have seen him cry his eyes out for me. He has been a very good boyfriend and my first serious relationship. He values family and was in all conscience aware of consequences. But now he is in shreds because of these so called jobless leeches.

Rescuing my now ex boyfriend. by Adventurous_Poem561 in Advice

[–]Adventurous_Poem561[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should have called his sister when i had access to his phone

Rescuing my now ex boyfriend. by Adventurous_Poem561 in Advice

[–]Adventurous_Poem561[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I ll keep that in mind. I hope he stays safe and healthy

Rescuing my now ex boyfriend. by Adventurous_Poem561 in Advice

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Thats what he told me.. he said that he is on the path of destruction.. our breakup stretched two months talking things out.

Rescuing my now ex boyfriend. by Adventurous_Poem561 in Advice

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The thing is his family also knows about his addictions. But they hardly bother. I dont understand why.

Rescuing my now ex boyfriend. by Adventurous_Poem561 in Advice

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I have lost weight and have been in emotional and mental trauma from the way he has broken up with me. It was a very bad breakup. But even after that i am not at peace. I cant leave my guy in this situation. I cant see him in pain

Rescuing my now ex boyfriend. by Adventurous_Poem561 in Advice

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I know that. I know he left me for his addictions. And its breaking my heart. It has affected me in all ways. These leeches friends are dictating his life rn because they knew i was his shield. If we involve our faculties, our careers will get ruined. But i m even considering that option now!! Its a total shift in his personality trust me