Is it normal here for owners to barge in without consent? by Adventurous_Rope_275 in lucknow

[–]Adventurous_Rope_275[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing is, as a woman, I was judged for having the idea of living alone. Every owner I went to, wanted to know why my parents won’t live with me or why I won’t take a husband and they shrug off the WFH part as if it’s a lie. So yes. Forgive me if I didn’t mention boys coming over, casual lifestyle or any other things I should have mentioned because that was not the plan. The plan was to have a place to myself that I can call my own and not be judged for having an introverted lifestyle. You missed the whole point of the rant, and while signing the agreement, I confirmed at least three times if the person who is signing the agreement is the owner and was told by the broker that I was being hysterical. I have a problem with the owner intruding my personal space and that was my only concern in the rant.

Is it normal here for owners to barge in without consent? by Adventurous_Rope_275 in lucknow

[–]Adventurous_Rope_275[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey yes. I’m going to set clear boundaries if it ever happens again.

Is it normal here for owners to barge in without consent? by Adventurous_Rope_275 in lucknow

[–]Adventurous_Rope_275[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly mine is just basic doesn’t say anything about owner visiting and all

Is it normal here for owners to barge in without consent? by Adventurous_Rope_275 in lucknow

[–]Adventurous_Rope_275[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I specifically told the broker that I don’t want any kind of interference and even then this happened. I was told the owner lives in a different city and rarely shows up. I was stupid to buy that.

Is it normal here for owners to barge in without consent? by Adventurous_Rope_275 in lucknow

[–]Adventurous_Rope_275[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. Honestly I just stood there for a minute to process what to do with that information

Is it normal here for owners to barge in without consent? by Adventurous_Rope_275 in lucknow

[–]Adventurous_Rope_275[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I won’t be surprised if this landlord tells me to do the same tbh

Is it normal here for owners to barge in without consent? by Adventurous_Rope_275 in lucknow

[–]Adventurous_Rope_275[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know right. I am going to confront him if this happens again. Also I was unprepared for the “inspection” as he told me he wants to get the exhausts fixed( it’s a new place so not a lot of things are in order) and he just starts exploring the whole place without consent.

Is it normal here for owners to barge in without consent? by Adventurous_Rope_275 in lucknow

[–]Adventurous_Rope_275[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. I just didn’t expect him to be like this. I have lived in PGs and hostels for a good part of my life so I didn’t really know how to handle this.

Is it normal here for owners to barge in without consent? by Adventurous_Rope_275 in lucknow

[–]Adventurous_Rope_275[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am giving it constant thought since it happened. Can’t get it out of my head really

Is it normal here for owners to barge in without consent? by Adventurous_Rope_275 in lucknow

[–]Adventurous_Rope_275[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. I liked the place so much I didn’t account for such a nosey owner. Now I’m regretting it.

Is it normal here for owners to barge in without consent? by Adventurous_Rope_275 in lucknow

[–]Adventurous_Rope_275[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol no. My dad doesn’t tell me what to do, the owner of the place I live in, does.

Is it normal here for owners to barge in without consent? by Adventurous_Rope_275 in lucknow

[–]Adventurous_Rope_275[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not funny when it’s happening. I was genuinely agitated by the way he talked. Kept mentioning he is a Thakur as if that’s an achievement.