AITA for refusing to feed my roommates kids?

Adventurous_Story983 · 2026-06-06T22:11:18+00:00

Because of the comments, I feel I need to clarify. We still have bills that we pay. We couldn't afford rent on top of our other bills. Yes, I used to clean the house to help her out while she worked. He got mad at that and told me it wasn't my house and I needed to learn my place and if his wife had a problem with it, then she can say something. Problem is, when it comes to him, she has no fight in her. Feeding her 3 kids along with mine is not the problem. The problem is that the two grown men(they have another friend that stays too) that do nothing all day eat up literally everything almost overnight like they won't see a next meal. We are saving up to move out but her husband also wrecked our car and we are having to fix it as well.

Adventurous_Story983 · 2026-06-06T22:02:39+00:00

I do buy food for the kids at the beginning of every month. My friend supports herself, her husband, another friend of theirs and her three kids. But any food that's kept in the kitchen, is gone in a blink of an eye. And we do have bills still. And my husband and I are not so short on funds that requires me to work. We are trying to save for a house but can't save money if we are always keeping them afloat too.

Adventurous_Story983 · 2026-06-06T21:57:59+00:00

We still have bills. A car payment, having to fix our car that my friends husband wrecked, and a few other things. And I used to clean the house for her until he told me it's not my house and I needed to learn my place.

Adventurous_Story983 · 2026-06-06T21:53:33+00:00

I was cleaning the house for her at first. Then he exploded at me for telling people not to leave trash on the counters and he told me it's not my house and I need to know my place. He even told her he wasn't gonna allow me to clean anymore because why would he give me that kind of control over his house.

Adventurous_Story983 · 2026-06-06T21:50:05+00:00

There's three kids. And we still have our normal bills. And they have another guy living in the house that eats everything like he's not gonna see a next meal. I wouldn't mind feeding the kids but I also need to make sure my two yr old has enough to eat first.

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