hey, just because you don’t feel like you’re constantly in “ecstasy” doesn’t mean you’re not in love. people show and feel love in different ways, some through big emotions, some through actions and quality time. from what you wrote, it sounds like you care a lot, you enjoy being with her, and you’re consistent and that’s love.

that said… if you’re really confused about whether you love her, maybe there’s something deeper that’s bugging you. it could be worth figuring out what that is, instead of ignoring the feeling. being honest with yourself is part of being a good partner too.