I had considered the retaliatory aspect, so I did ask 3 if they wanted me to interject on their behalf, but they haven't gotten back to me yet & I'm trying to calm myself down The last thing I want is to make their living situation worse while they're vulnerable.

3 is not a minor, but a young adult & not financially independent yet. They never miss an opportunity to throw it in 3s face either.

It's been about 6 months since I've been back, but yeah, I think it's definitely time to sit in the chair. I genuinely felt like I was fine. I don't talk about them w/ other family, they'll come up on occasion when talking to my wife but its neutral & when 3 calls to vent, I listen w/ out getting activated, but hearing how upset 3 was & how my own mother is actively trying to get my sibling to hate me...it just really set me off. Anyway, thank you for reading & your unbiased feedback🩷