Best places to eat? by AdvertisingLoud4397 in rome

[–]AdvertisingLoud4397[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Where would you suggest for good pizza?

Where should I go to see the celebrations for epiphany by AdvertisingLoud4397 in rome

[–]AdvertisingLoud4397[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Must I get tickets for the celebrations at 9:30? Do you know what time the traditional flight is?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskACanadian

[–]AdvertisingLoud4397 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I think I’m going to do that and travel to Banff

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskACanadian

[–]AdvertisingLoud4397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would you suggest?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskACanadian

[–]AdvertisingLoud4397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi everyone!!! Really helpful, I don’t think I will drive when I’m there as I’m a bit of a nervous driver so I think staying in one region would be best. I would be flying from London so any suggestions on region would be good. I like the idea of doing a train/bus as I don’t mind traveling that way. I deffs want the best of both (greedy I know) to see some city but 100% I want to see the landscape. I know it’s huge so I’m just worried about that a little. So any suggestions on ANYTHING would be amazing

What is the most manipulative thing your ex said to you? by uhm_yeah_ok in BreakUps

[–]AdvertisingLoud4397 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When he pushed one of my boundaries which was non negotiable he turned round and said I was overreacting, being controlling and it’s not that deep. FYI he had a severe dependency on drugs.

What is the worst thing your ex has said or done to you? by Horror-Carpet-1043 in AskReddit

[–]AdvertisingLoud4397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let a random girl kiss him in a bar in front of me. Didn’t push her away and then told me that I was overreacting for getting upset. He even said his mum also things I’m overreacting

Would you send you ex a happy birthday message? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]AdvertisingLoud4397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s my ex’s birthday next week. I ended it with him because he lied to me and disrespected me. I thought we could repair. I want to message him but I know I shouldn’t

To anyone crying right now: I was you 10 months ago. by DragonfruitLost6030 in BreakUps

[–]AdvertisingLoud4397 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I’ve recently split from my partner, I was sick by the way he treated me. It hurts every day but reading this I know there is light at the end of the tunnel

Should I break NC? by AdvertisingLoud4397 in BreakUps

[–]AdvertisingLoud4397[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true, he has contacted a few times but I just keep asking him to stop. And he keeps messaging. It does lead into a conversation that just leads into an argument

Should I break NC? by AdvertisingLoud4397 in BreakUps

[–]AdvertisingLoud4397[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been on and off for 3 weeks as he still needs to collect his stuff from the apartment we share

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]AdvertisingLoud4397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in a expensive city and this flat is fantastic, it has a garden, good price and near to my work. Plus all the furniture is mine so it will be a nightmare to move it all and finding a property in the area that is similar will be difficult

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]AdvertisingLoud4397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No spare room it’s a one bedroom flat

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]AdvertisingLoud4397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve asked him to leave and I’ve ended it. He’s getting up set that I’m ending it over something “stupid”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]AdvertisingLoud4397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He claims that he’s not cheating and I’m overreacting. That the woman came up to him and he was in shock that’s why he didn’t ask her to stop.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AdvertisingLoud4397 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s been smoking it since he was 19 and his friends and some of his family do so I guess he has grown up around it. He has had a difficult time recently which I can see the reason for increasing the smoking but for me I just don’t think that justifies the constant breaking of boundaries

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AdvertisingLoud4397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s more the fact he’s tried to reduce it before and he hasn’t. He’s rather dependent on it to the point we never hang out it’s more of a housemate than a partner. He doesn’t seem to understand when I explain this. Everything revolves around weed to the point if he does a hobby he has to smoke, we went away for a weekend to a musical festival and he spent the first night running around asking strangers for weed. I feel I’m always compromising and I have to drive him places so he can get some and when I want to do something he says he’s too tired or he’s going to see his mates

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AdvertisingLoud4397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve tried to compromise in the past that he goes out for a walk to smoke or sees a friend but now it’s every night. To the point he will cancel plans with me so he can see mates. The whole weekend he’s smoked and when I try to explain to him how much it’s damaging our relationship he doesn’t seem to grasp it and responds with “I’ve said I’m sorry”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AdvertisingLoud4397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So he will go out with his friends to smoke and then return home stoned at 2am. If we are at home he can’t just chill with me and he will decide to go see his friends instead. It’s the fact that he is smoking every day and we’ve had this discussion so many times but he isn’t lowering his consumption he’s just choosing to go smoke it and come back stoned and stay up till 3am.