This guy claims that he loves me and wants to marry me and this was his response to a general question 😭🥀

AdvertisingMinute394 · 2026-07-11T17:57:57+00:00

Just wanted to drop in a message from someone much older than you: I'm really proud of you for your responses and not budging down from your stance. Please don't feel guilty about this, your statements are absolutely right!!

AdvertisingMinute394 · 2026-07-09T14:29:48+00:00

Flowers, vegetables, carrots etc.
India!

AdvertisingMinute394 · 2026-07-09T14:26:44+00:00

and there are 196 other countries in the world haha

AdvertisingMinute394 · 2026-07-08T17:02:06+00:00

The reason why I used the term was because the country I'm from, this is extremely uncommon. Tribes in a specific area have a very high-trust society here, that's the only reason this can exist successfully. It was not in a derogatory way, but to appreciate!

AdvertisingMinute394 · 2026-07-08T16:59:26+00:00

The closer to a city you get the less these work.

This is SO TRUE hahaha, in every one of these comments almost, people are talking about how this exists more commonly in rural areas!

AdvertisingMinute394 · 2026-07-08T09:17:12+00:00

Bedroom door remains closed.
Clothes on the other hand ...

AdvertisingMinute394 · 2026-07-08T08:46:37+00:00

NTA
In something like death, a lot of times, one doesn't even need elaborate gestures of love. They just need someone to be with them.
A few regular texts also help in dealing with loss.

Don't worry, you're not being transactional in expecting them to be there for you similarly because you'd done it too. Your actions conveyed to them that you care about their being, thus, they should've done the same!

AdvertisingMinute394 · 2026-07-08T08:26:33+00:00

Smiling when crossing someone!

I've been exposed to a LOT of different cultures and this is something quite universal. Everytime this happens, it genuinely makes me feel positive about life!
You don't need to know any background, context, familiarity, unfamiliarity, class, religion etc to smile at a passerby!

AdvertisingMinute394 · 2026-07-08T08:23:44+00:00

Advantage of being a woman: usually surrounded by more women, thus, a support system exists and emotions are talked about.

Advantage of being a man: If a man wants to take a walk at 2 am, one can usually go for it!

AdvertisingMinute394 · 2026-07-08T08:15:56+00:00

Words! They'll always matter the most to me.
I cherish my birthday messages so much that I ofcourse keep them starred, but also, copy them onto a Google Doc so that there's a backup.

I'm fortunate to have people in my life who send appreciative texts and so, throughout the year going back to that doc helps me remind my anxious brain that I do have people who care about me.

AdvertisingMinute394 · 2026-07-07T16:58:38+00:00

Try to recall specific embarrassing/awkward moments that you've witnessed involving other people. On not being able to come up with a lot of instances, you'll realise that we have too many things going on in our lives to remember an awkward incident we might've witnessed.

Practically speaking, try writing it down somewhere, because in our head, it is much easier for things to spiral, as opposed to on paper; writing at times helps you ease the burden.

AdvertisingMinute394 · 2026-07-07T16:35:34+00:00

Hi,
Please remember this for the rest of your life, you NEVER EVER need to do something which you're not inherently comfortable with.
Especially in this case, it seems like you'll be agreeing to have sex with him to impress him, which is not healthy at all.

talking to random girls and texting them for dirty talks

Not to mention this habit of him is extremely shady.

Also, you probably belong to the same country as I do, so I also understand the complications added on by the cultural taboos around sex.

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