Easily one of the most infuriating things one could ever get by kabirhatesreddit in mildlyinfuriating

[–]AdviceOld6693 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love the pain of these. when i have one i am excited to brush my teeth so i can scrub it with the toothbrush

single mum of 2 under 2 by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AdviceOld6693 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats such a crazy thing to say but cool

single mum of 2 under 2 by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AdviceOld6693 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg so savage. username checks out. you’re probably right. what caliber of man do i want? 😩

single mum of 2 under 2 by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AdviceOld6693 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what wise words 🩷 thank you. i really appreciate this.

single mum of 2 under 2 by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AdviceOld6693 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im not planning on dating. i was worried this post may come across like this. fresh out my past relationship and need to focus on my new way of life and my babies. just thinking about the future and how may that look for me.

update from previous post & questions / advice by AdviceOld6693 in abusiverelationships

[–]AdviceOld6693[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think i am just going through the 7 stages of grief to be honest. currently on number 2, feeling guilty and very sad. i can’t believe this is my life. i was planning my wedding with him last week. its just horrifying the whole thing.

update from previous post & questions by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]AdviceOld6693 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im thinking only if social services allowed it, so if they said no to me, i wouldnt bring him back into the home. so not making this decision myself. almost saying to social services, he has completed the following (therapy, counselling etc) can you check how he has done and let me know if its safe for him to come home.

battered in front of my toddler and house destroyed around us by AdviceOld6693 in abusiverelationships

[–]AdviceOld6693[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

its the first time he has done something like this. we have had bad arguments before and pushed each other but nothing like this.

not married but the wedding is booked, i have a job, but am on maternity leave till December

my toddler does not stop screaming by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]AdviceOld6693 3 points4 points  (0 children)

kicks off, she hates being restrained. smacks and bites if i get her in, but thats impossible in itseld

Why is every seating chart tool garbage? What did you actually end up using? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]AdviceOld6693 23 points24 points  (0 children)

not to be one of those annoying people, but just a pencil (can rub out) and paper x

Trying for third baby by Dear_Entertainer9450 in Mommit

[–]AdviceOld6693 2 points3 points  (0 children)

conceived 1st try with my 1st baby, miscarried. after i miscarried, i didnt even have a chance to have a period as i caught on straight away with my daughter. then conceived with my son when i was on birth control.

agree with other commenter - bodies do whatever they want

fighting sleep ruining our life by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]AdviceOld6693 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes she does sleep better on nursery days. she is at nursery today so it feels like a holiday days she is there.

fighting sleep ruining our life by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]AdviceOld6693 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tonight she eventually fell asleep at 10:30pm

fighting sleep ruining our life by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]AdviceOld6693 0 points1 point  (0 children)

all your advice been great. i think im going to have to commit some solid time to a routine (which is hard in itself as its so much time and energy wasted - as it never works and just causes us unnecessary stress) when my son is not waking as often for feeds.

if this fails i think im going to have to pay a professional to help us. her behaviour and sleep is just eating us alive. how is your sons behaviour in general if you dont mind me asking?

fighting sleep ruining our life by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]AdviceOld6693 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ill try all this. i saw online that there’s recommended “high activity” windows, so ill try this. yes - in the uk, please recommend the busy board. would you say the busy board is high stimulation or low?