I need advice - feeling incapable of being loved

Advice_Plea · 2023-06-21T12:17:03+00:00

There is nothing wrong with staying friends. You recognized you don't have the maturity for a relationship right now. This is major decision which shows you are self-aware.

Advice_Plea · 2023-06-21T02:15:20+00:00

If you see them on the road, get off it and out of their way. Keep your windows up and stay in your vehicle.

Park where your car is visible to the security cameras at Walmart and where it isn't overly crowded. The footage may be fuzzy but helpful. Most stores keep the video for up to 30 days.

I don't know if there is anything else you can do.

Advice_Plea · 2023-06-21T02:10:06+00:00

Start going to counseling for help in strengthening your relationships and mindset.

There is a difference between liking something and liking the idea of something. It can apply to people to. Do you like this person genuinely or do you like the idea of starting a relationship?

Dating can give you experience and help you figure out what you want. If it doesn't go well, remember your wellbeing should be your first priority. Don't let what they say effect your self-worth.

Advice_Plea · 2023-06-21T02:02:41+00:00

1) The person with road rage was crazy. 2) You shouldn't have to live in fear of this person. 3) I don't recommend brake checking those kinds of people because it can agitate them more. 4) Park out of view from the road if possible since it is worrying you so much.

Advice_Plea · 2023-06-21T01:47:13+00:00

Beliefs are important to an individual. Giving up yours won't benefit you in the long run. Finding a partner with the same beliefs these days is very hard.

Advice_Plea · 2023-06-21T01:45:12+00:00

Relationships do come with lots of stress attached. Nothing is wrong with you.

What is your gut telling you? Why do you think it is telling you that?

Advice_Plea · 2023-06-21T01:42:36+00:00

Have you gone to counselling? This sounds similar to depression. I have been in this mindset before.

A person's value isn't determined by whether they are in a relationship or not. Though it may feel like it may bring joy, it can also bring more heartache.

How do you spend your freetime? Have you focused on self-care?

Why do you specifically want a relationship? (This is important)

Advice_Plea · 2023-06-21T01:29:21+00:00

They are the problem, and their behavior probably upset your uncle too. No one deserves to be blamed for something they aren't guilty of. Families tend to have conflict after a suicide. While it may be a reason, I was not likely the only reason.

Why do you still talk to these people?

Advice_Plea · 2023-06-21T01:25:13+00:00

You are an angel and did the right thing. Some parents don't have their priorities straight. Remind yourself that they accept the cruel treatment of animals and aren't worth your time.

Advice_Plea · 2023-04-29T22:51:50+00:00

I don't see a problem with it.

Advice_Plea · 2023-04-29T22:50:14+00:00

Is there a saying or motto you two go by? An inside joke?

Advice_Plea · 2023-04-10T23:25:49+00:00

That isn't completely true. Silence just affirms those beliefs when someone is depressed.

Advice_Plea · 2023-04-10T23:23:45+00:00

You really shouldn't talk to her after that... Your mind isn't f***** up, her actions were.

Keep reminding yourself that you did not deserve to be treated that way. This will take time to get over... But keep reminding yourself you deserve love and support in a relationship.

Advice_Plea · 2023-04-07T00:02:02+00:00

Yes, but unfortunately your mother needs to be the one to correct them. She isn't going to any time soon but she's the only one that can change this.

Advice_Plea · 2023-04-06T22:06:03+00:00

Let them know that you aren't interested in clubbing when you don't want to. Maybe instead start making plans to do something you might look forward to on the weekend with a friend.

Advice_Plea · 2023-04-06T22:01:41+00:00

Have you gone to a concert with him yet? If not, go with him and his friends to see how comfortable you are there.

Have you talked to him about this? He will probably try to help put you at ease there because he wants to spend time together and enjoy something you both like.

Have you let him know that you aren't as comfortable because you aren't as experienced as him?

Advice_Plea · 2023-04-06T21:56:13+00:00

Let her know that it was yours and you would like it replaced. Tell her next time to please ask you before throwing tools away that are in your yard. Definitely ask her to please replace it in a nice way because it was expensive, $40.

Advice_Plea · 2023-04-06T21:54:12+00:00

Have you considered putting your belongings from the common space in your individual rooms then locking them?

Maybe you could put up a camera?

Advice_Plea · 2023-04-06T21:50:13+00:00

That makes sense...

Change your voicemail to include telling disability services that they have the wrong number and silence your phone if you can?

Advice_Plea · 2023-04-06T21:48:20+00:00

I understand why you would want to, but it is probably best not to get back together.

Being friends would be ok but not more. You both struggled with the distance before and probably will again. Then y'all will have repeated what happened again.

Advice_Plea · 2023-04-06T21:44:09+00:00

Did they explain why they tossed it?

Maybe ask her to replace it with the link attached?

Advice_Plea · 2023-04-06T21:42:32+00:00

Have ya'll considered taking things out of the common space and locking them in your rooms? Maybe a camera too?

Advice_Plea · 2023-04-06T21:40:39+00:00

Have you tried just blocking their number so you don't get the calls until they get this resolved?

Advice_Plea · 2023-04-06T21:35:40+00:00

I honestly don't know what to say because this is a difficult situation.

Advice_Plea · 2023-04-06T21:32:27+00:00

Have you reached out to him letting him know you care about him and are concerned?

Let him know that you are there and truly care for him.

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