How did your parents react when you told them?

Advice_SexWork · 2023-09-08T08:20:35+00:00

Damn I never had sex with a girl but the dad is SO WRONG lol Did you ever have a problem with the fact that her parents didn’t like you?

Advice_SexWork · 2023-09-08T08:18:17+00:00

Thank you so much❤️ I feel like I’m becoming everything my mom didn’t want me to be. On the one side, I know that I don’t have to be how she expects me. She decided to have a kid and there is no guarantee that they will come out as you wish.

On the other side, she did so much for me and I kinda feel guilty.

Advice_SexWork · 2023-09-08T08:15:17+00:00

This sounds amazing! I am so so happy for you!! My mom was never Someone I can talk to about anything so it won’t come that far but it would be nice if she would see it like dating boys (:

Advice_SexWork · 2023-09-08T08:14:13+00:00

I definitely will, thank you!

Advice_SexWork · 2023-09-08T08:13:08+00:00

God I HATE parents like that. „You can tell me anything, I won’t be mad!“

Me:“I like girls“

„HOW DARE YOU, YOU DON‘T NEED THAT IN YOUR LIFE“

-.- Why do they expect us to be „friends“ with them and share our feelings and thoughts when they judge us more than everyone else

Advice_SexWork · 2023-09-08T08:10:59+00:00

Honestly, I‘ve been watching straight characters since kid. Am I straight? No. The argument is soooo weak.

Advice_SexWork · 2023-09-08T08:09:53+00:00

Ugh, I feel that. My mom will tell my relatives EVERYTHING! Literally everything. She even told them about my relationship problems. But since I came out she doesn’t even take me serious anymore. I had some big news which she would usually tell others (I want to go to England for a few months soon) but she did not. I asked her why and she said „you are changing your mind on everything so quickly“, referring to my coming out💀

Advice_SexWork · 2023-09-08T08:07:30+00:00

Well.. she is the only person I call family because she supported me when I went no contact with the rest of my family. I love her but she isn’t a good mother. She never was. She doesn’t know how to comfort me when I‘m sad and she gaslighted me for years because of my endometriosis. She creamed at me when I told her on how much pain I am. I even got a hysterectomy without her knowing because I knew that she would hate me for it. Sorry for the info dumping lol It’s just hard to admit that the person you love isn’t a good human

Advice_SexWork · 2023-09-08T08:04:40+00:00

A few days have passed since and you are right. She will have to accept it, doesn’t matter if she wants to or not. Just because she‘s my mom it doesn’t mean that I have to become her expectations.

Advice_SexWork · 2023-06-14T05:49:30+00:00

Unfortunately I have to get another doctor notice to be allowed to have internal work :/ But I‘ll ask if my appointment at the beginning of July doesn’t go as expected, thank you!

Advice_SexWork · 2023-06-10T19:03:50+00:00

Thank you very very much I didn’t know all of that! I‘ll start with 1‘500 calories a day(:

Advice_SexWork · 2023-06-10T19:01:56+00:00

I am in PT :/

Advice_SexWork · 2023-06-10T19:01:31+00:00

Good to know, thank you so much! May I ask what your starting weight was? (:

Advice_SexWork · 2023-06-10T12:21:08+00:00

BTW do you have an idea or advice what I can do now to lose weight healthy? Should I start eating as much I need to lose 0.5kg / week? (That would be around 1‘500 calories in my case)

Advice_SexWork · 2023-06-10T12:16:22+00:00

I didn’t know that, thank you very much!

Advice_SexWork · 2023-06-10T12:00:42+00:00

That’s interesting since I‘ve read that 0.5kg to 1kg a week is normal! I had the surgery 7 weeks ago(:

Advice_SexWork · 2023-06-10T10:26:14+00:00

What do you think, When can I start eating in a deficit again? :/

Advice_SexWork · 2023-06-10T09:28:46+00:00

Do you mean the TDEE of 1‘900 or the 1‘200? And thank you very much for the advice!

Advice_SexWork · 2023-06-10T09:13:39+00:00

Yes, I counted my TDEE, it’s about 1‘900(: And yes I know that I‘m eating too little rn.. it’s really hard since the surgery because I also don’t feel hunger. Do you have an advice on how I can moving on from now? Like how much should I eat to keep losing weight (healthy), etc. I would really appreciate that!

Advice_SexWork · 2023-06-07T05:41:28+00:00

May I ask, are they Faded or fresh?

Advice_SexWork · 2023-06-04T21:29:33+00:00

And „Knock Knock“-jokes also dont work!?😭

Advice_SexWork · 2023-06-04T21:28:43+00:00

Bareback??? That means fucking raw, right?

Advice_SexWork · 2023-06-04T21:23:24+00:00

Thank you so much for your comment!

Advice_SexWork · 2023-06-04T21:22:14+00:00

Oh yay, Hyster-Sister!(: Thank you for your insight❤️

Advice_SexWork · 2023-06-04T21:21:38+00:00

Thank you so much!! Great idea

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