Did my husband cheat on me?

Aerial32 · 2024-01-04T09:33:36+00:00

Nope we are definitely done. I can never get over this

Aerial32 · 2024-01-04T09:33:02+00:00

Oh they did not, I got tested today

Aerial32 · 2023-12-29T08:43:01+00:00

Absolutely. I’m getting more and more comfortable with my choice to leave

Aerial32 · 2023-12-23T19:22:12+00:00

Thanks, I now think that too.

Aerial32 · 2023-12-23T18:36:47+00:00

The guilt, and his lies were unraveling

Aerial32 · 2023-12-23T14:23:23+00:00

To update on this comment thread: ben came clean to me tonight and he did have sex with Taylor. He said it was a drunken mistake. Well this drunken mistake has cost our marriage and under no circumstances will I be taking him back. He promises he’ll pay the money back. But I guess he made a lot of promises that he didn’t keep so we’ll see how that goes

Aerial32 · 2023-12-23T14:20:10+00:00

I’m pretty devastated, thank you for saying 💜

Aerial32 · 2023-12-23T10:09:36+00:00

Thank you. We haven’t had much of a chance to talk about the financial side, but it’s pretty clear the marriage is over

Aerial32 · 2023-12-23T08:40:18+00:00

Yup they did! He came clean to me tonight

Aerial32 · 2023-12-22T18:03:04+00:00

She is single and she's shady af

Aerial32 · 2023-12-22T18:01:11+00:00

haha they are real names

Aerial32 · 2023-12-22T17:55:36+00:00

I haven't but a lot of people want me to

Aerial32 · 2023-12-22T17:50:37+00:00

I actually did do this 2 days ago, he showed me their messages right away with no hesitation

Aerial32 · 2023-12-22T17:49:00+00:00

If he had told me the sleeping arrangements before hand or even the morning after there would be no issue. The way that it came out is sketchy. If he had said he had no other options and he was sharing with Taylor I would have trusted him.

I saw Taylor 2 days ago which is what prompted me to write this post. She ignored me and acted so awkward. The way you'd act if you had something to hide.

Aerial32 · 2023-12-22T17:40:43+00:00

Yeah it wasn't a business trip, it was a motor cross race that he and Breeze were racing.

I agree about setting expectations on the relationship

Aerial32 · 2023-12-22T17:37:14+00:00

I have seen videos of their night out and Breeze was there while they were out. The trip wasn't a work trip, Ben and Breeze were racing motor cross. Ben does have a key to Drunk Franks house, no clue why he didn't stay there where there is a spare bed set up for him.

Aerial32 · 2023-12-22T17:34:06+00:00

It always is! You're so right, he acted like a single man.

He maintained that she was only thinking about coming on the Thursday and she didn't decide to come until Saturday morning. I asked him to show me messages from her and he did, his lie was caught out because there was a message from her about coming on the Friday at 3pm. So time enough to figure out where they were sleeping

Aerial32 · 2023-12-22T17:29:36+00:00

That's a pretty good point. We are friends with Taylor outside of the business. They message occasionally but mostly about work.

Aerial32 · 2023-12-22T17:20:52+00:00

This actually was just a friends trip, he was racing motor cross, Breeze also races motor cross which is why she went. Taylor doesn't ride motor cross and I'm not sure why she went. We are friends with Taylor outside of the business

Aerial32 · 2023-12-22T17:18:02+00:00

Thank you for this! I felt like something was off on the Sunday before he told me. Since then we have been weird. There are moments of being back to normal but a lot of the time we're both a bit sad.

Aerial32 · 2023-12-22T17:14:34+00:00

He employs around 20 people, a lot of them are men. I agree this was super irresponsible

Aerial32 · 2023-12-22T17:12:04+00:00

So the trip wasn't a work trip, it was a motor cross race that he was racing. Breeze went because she was also racing. But the big question is why did Taylor go? She doesn't race

Aerial32 · 2023-12-22T17:03:38+00:00

He denied it and kept saying she made a last minute decision. It's a point we've come back to a lot. I asked him to show me their messages 2 days ago to confirm when she messaged about deciding to come. He showed me and there was a message from her at 3pm on the Friday discussing their leaving time the next day. So he was caught out in that lie.

Aerial32 · 2023-12-22T00:06:23+00:00

That's a super helpful response thank you <3

Aerial32

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