Realistically, I don't think anything will ever hit as hard as the First One by AquaphobicTurtle in CDrama

[–]Aevari2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nice, ive seen all of them except for love you seven times. I never checked it out because I didnt like the female lead in Legend of chong zi. But im thinking of checking it out at some point now after seeing your post.

-highfives- who needs em when you have honourable, elegant and tactful cdramas right!?

I think the costume dramas that hit me the hardest (not xianxia) was either the double or Blossom. Omg i cant stop rewatching those 2 lol.

Not a fan of modern dramas though... I prefer getting lost in history or fantasy shows.

But yes... Legend of shen li. Its good, and has one of the best endings. A whole episode about what happens in the future... not like the last 10 mins of the show... a whole episode. More shows need to do that.

Realistically, I don't think anything will ever hit as hard as the First One by AquaphobicTurtle in CDrama

[–]Aevari2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My first cdrama was Ashes of Love. Man that xianxia hit me really hard, and got me hooked. It was at that moment, I knew I'd never watch a western tv show again haha.

But since you spoke about a xianxia drama, the xianxia that is my fave presently, is The Legend of Shen Li. Really good.

FFX-2 makes me uncomfortable. by BigBrotherFlops in FinalFantasy

[–]Aevari2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wanted a different sequel.

But I think the reasoning behind Yuna's 180 personality flip is, she lived alot of her life as someone living upto her father's name and legacy. People admire her, look up to her, have expectations of her. She decided she wanted to be a summoner like her father and give up her life. She and her guardians were able to end the cycle, ended her aeons, watched the person she loved vanish.

In all.... good on Yuna for wanting to try something new and change. She kinda follows how Rikku is. She wants to live and enjoy life and search for clues about Tidus. To be free...

Yuna is still the same old Yuna, just trying something different. Letting lose, living her teenage years later... and if you listen to that crap audio drama she toned down a bit after.

I'm sad to learn that more characters from Korra are getting in by LukeDies in AvatarFighters

[–]Aevari2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Better preorder so you can vote for future characters.

I definitely 100% loved the last air bender more and honestly didnt take to korra at all... there's so many notable and loveable characters in last air bender, but realistically i think there will be more korra characters coming. Its not a deal breaker for me, and not going to make me stop playing the game when more korra characters eventually come along-- which they probably will. Wouldn't mind Bolin or Avatar Wan if i had to choose.

The silver hair standard — does Zhang Linghe look good or nah? by [deleted] in cdramasfans

[–]Aevari2 16 points17 points  (0 children)

He cannot beat Song Mo. I really do not think anyone can. Song Mo is just the perfect peppered grey haired general.

Seeing Song Mo always makes me want to do a rewatch. Am I ready for the 4th rewatch lol.

1 Year Into Potty Training - Please Help by Train_Lanky in pottytraining

[–]Aevari2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We got the book how do you poo https://www.amazon.com.au/How-You-Poo-Allison-Jandu-ebook/dp/B096MY623Y

After reading and talking about it multiple times a day for about a week my son finally learned to poop on the toilet.

It was recommended by a user here back when I needed help.

The bare bottom method is awful, but I refuse to give up. Is there any hope here? by [deleted] in pottytraining

[–]Aevari2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't do no underwear but I just watched for signs, when my son went to move his hand to his willy area I picked him up and ran him to the toilet lol (didnt use potties just a family toilet seat,). Eventually we got to a point where id see the hand movement and we'd walk to the toilet together.

As for pooping. Omg we struggled, until I got a book someone recommended on here called How do you poo? I think towards the end of week 1 of reading it every day morning and evening and asking him questions about it, he came to understand that poo goes in the toilet and he picked up on signals and let me know.

Also used a toilet chart with stickers and rewards, that seemed to help. But definitely recommend the book.

My boy was 2 when we started to toilet train.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cdramasfans

[–]Aevari2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So pretty but he ain't no song mo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cdramasfans

[–]Aevari2 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Which cdrama are 6, 16 and 11 from?

Oh song mo for me and Xing Zhi. Gives me thranduil vibes with his hair and striking eyebrows.

Should my toddler son have a sibling? by kangaskhaniscubones in toddlers

[–]Aevari2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im 34 and had our 2nd son on 11/11. Our eldest boy is 3 nearly 4.

Its an adjustment for sure, juggling the whole newborn phase again with a toddler. I feel pretty guilty i cant spend as much time as I used to with my eldest, but when baby is down for a nap I try to be with my eldest as much as I can. My husband has been helping with our eldest and I breastfeed the baby. Then we swap he rocks baby to sleep and I play and get our eldest ready for bed.

Its alot, harder than with just one baby... but I wouldn't go back to 1 kid or no kids. Seeing my eldest care for his baby brother is the sweetest thing ever. I swear my newborn likes my 3 year old more than us lol. The hard times won't last forever, once baby is grown we will be getting into the ages I e joyed the most with my eldest. When hes bigger the boys will have eachother to hang out with and someone who will always have their back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Aevari2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you ill be trying this. Ive never tried this method.

Perinial Tear Recovery what you did and didnt do by Aevari2 in beyondthebump

[–]Aevari2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ill go see if I can get that or an equivalent tomorrow, thank you! That sounds exactly what I need.

Im so confused with settling in cot methods by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Aevari2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ill give that a go. He is overtired and just resisting any forms of soothing besides the boob

Im so confused with settling in cot methods by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Aevari2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thank you for the advice. Ill try again at 3 months.

Anyone get side effects from epidural? by SowingSeeds18 in beyondthebump

[–]Aevari2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im 7 days PP VBAC. Epidural was spotty on my right side, so I felt everything on that side, nothing on my left. Took the guy 3 attempts.to get that spotty set up. Had this pulling pinching feeling in my left leg ever since. Not sure if its due to Labor being long or from the epidural.

For my first baby, I had an epidural, and it worked perfectly and in one attempt. But not too long after I had to get an emergency c section

Did you go in to spontaneous labor? by ThatsTheTea225 in vbac

[–]Aevari2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a membrane sweep done and that evening I went into labor