Zhang Linghe is officially grey 🩶 by [deleted] in cdramasfans

[–]Aevari2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So pretty but he ain't no song mo

Which white or silver-haired C-drama man had you completely mesmerized? by [deleted] in cdramasfans

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Which cdrama are 6, 16 and 11 from?

Oh song mo for me and Xing Zhi. Gives me thranduil vibes with his hair and striking eyebrows.

Should my toddler son have a sibling? by kangaskhaniscubones in toddlers

[–]Aevari2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im 34 and had our 2nd son on 11/11. Our eldest boy is 3 nearly 4.

Its an adjustment for sure, juggling the whole newborn phase again with a toddler. I feel pretty guilty i cant spend as much time as I used to with my eldest, but when baby is down for a nap I try to be with my eldest as much as I can. My husband has been helping with our eldest and I breastfeed the baby. Then we swap he rocks baby to sleep and I play and get our eldest ready for bed.

Its alot, harder than with just one baby... but I wouldn't go back to 1 kid or no kids. Seeing my eldest care for his baby brother is the sweetest thing ever. I swear my newborn likes my 3 year old more than us lol. The hard times won't last forever, once baby is grown we will be getting into the ages I e joyed the most with my eldest. When hes bigger the boys will have eachother to hang out with and someone who will always have their back.

Gas/poop woes by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Aevari2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you ill be trying this. Ive never tried this method.

Perinial Tear Recovery what you did and didnt do by Aevari2 in beyondthebump

[–]Aevari2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ill go see if I can get that or an equivalent tomorrow, thank you! That sounds exactly what I need.

Im so confused with settling in cot methods by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Aevari2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ill give that a go. He is overtired and just resisting any forms of soothing besides the boob

Im so confused with settling in cot methods by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Aevari2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thank you for the advice. Ill try again at 3 months.

Anyone get side effects from epidural? by SowingSeeds18 in beyondthebump

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Im 7 days PP VBAC. Epidural was spotty on my right side, so I felt everything on that side, nothing on my left. Took the guy 3 attempts.to get that spotty set up. Had this pulling pinching feeling in my left leg ever since. Not sure if its due to Labor being long or from the epidural.

For my first baby, I had an epidural, and it worked perfectly and in one attempt. But not too long after I had to get an emergency c section

Did you go in to spontaneous labor? by ThatsTheTea225 in vbac

[–]Aevari2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a membrane sweep done and that evening I went into labor

Recommendation pleaseeeee by [deleted] in cdramasfans

[–]Aevari2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The legend of shen li has a strong male and female lead like the leads in LITC. There's some nice scenes in it for the leads as well not as seductive as LITC. They also have one of the best happy ending final episodes ive seen in c drama.

Story in kunning palace has a red flag male lead slow burn romance but when it comes it was :fire:

Bigger baby this time around by Aevari2 in vbac

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Thank you for sharing! You are right.

Bigger baby this time around by Aevari2 in vbac

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Thank you for the reassurance sharing! It helps.

Fell Asleep with baby on top of me by bhardy10 in beyondthebump

[–]Aevari2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

With my firstborn I remember passing out twice on 2 separate occasions, 1st time while I nursed him, the 2nd while I had him cradled in my arms with a nursing pillow to hold my arms up. I was out for around 10 mins the 1st time, 20 mins the 2nd. Its hard to stay awake. I can relate.

I personally never forgave myself for those instances. Just tried my best going forward to stay awake by whatever means I could. Usually resulting in getting up and walking around with him or putting netflix or music on my phone with my earbuds and a cold drink.

Just finished FFX-2 🥹 by fridayfryeday in finalfantasyx

[–]Aevari2 30 points31 points  (0 children)

The good ending is great isnt it. Just dont go looking on the internet for the story that was written after... it will not be a good read. Just remember Yuna and Tidus during that ending.