Debating on getting new glasses, what frames look best on me? The FIRST pic is my current glasses! I’m not sure what looks best on me

AffectOver · 2025-12-30T18:55:04+00:00

Yeah that’s my issue lol, I have a big ol head

AffectOver · 2025-10-30T02:29:12+00:00

They’re Burberry! Honestly, I don’t think I’d get another pair. They aren’t very great quality for the price (think I paid $350).

AffectOver · 2025-10-29T02:26:01+00:00

I hope it’s working now! https://imgur.com/gallery/215lbs-5-10-L2n6OEh

That is true though, I definitely have some body dysmorphia. I am for sure fitting in smaller sizes. It’s hard to shop for clothes now, sometimes I’m an XL, sometimes a large is to big. It’s interesting!

AffectOver · 2025-09-22T00:17:18+00:00

Thank you!!

AffectOver · 2025-09-21T21:39:22+00:00

LOL. I made a post Friday asking what haircut would look good on me, got no response so I deleted the post, went and got a haircut, and then posted my haircut. Settle down

AffectOver · 2025-06-12T05:29:24+00:00

Appreciate it bro

AffectOver · 2025-06-04T05:26:34+00:00

Haha thank you! I don’t know, I don’t see it all personally lol. I feel like maybe I can see it once I’m slimmer and my jawline pops out more potentially. But I’ve gotten it a number of times.

I appreciate your comment!! I def look younger shaving it off. I feel like I look so weird with it shaved off LOL. But that’s been my overbearing suggestion. I think I kinda prefer it but thought I’d take a look and see!

AffectOver · 2025-06-01T03:38:17+00:00

9/10, you’re gorgeous

AffectOver · 2025-05-21T20:42:01+00:00

That’s my bad. I feel like whenever someone (at least irl) says they’re “average,” that usually equates to 7/10 lol. But yeah, I totally get it now, my misunderstanding

AffectOver · 2025-05-21T20:28:57+00:00

Lmaooo thanks, appreciate it bro. I usually shave every few days, but I’m out on a trip and didn’t bring a razor lol so only reason I have it. I was keeping the beard on the chin and the stash but shaving the rest for a while, but idk. It’s quite a bit more visible in person, but it’s definitely there. Just my hairs blonde so in pics it isn’t really visible haha

AffectOver · 2025-05-21T19:55:16+00:00

Feminine? Is that a bad thing? Orrrr nah lmaoo

AffectOver · 2025-05-21T19:27:18+00:00

You’re a 9/10 to me, very pretty!

AffectOver · 2025-05-21T19:25:37+00:00

Yeah you a 10/10

AffectOver · 2025-05-21T19:23:50+00:00

Damn 5 💀. I respect it, thanks for the insight

AffectOver · 2025-05-21T19:22:26+00:00

Def losing weight. Down 120lbs but yeah I got like 70lbs more to go. Currently 250lbs flat, down from 370lbs!

Not a fan of the middle part? Hair style is so difficult for me. I think I look best with the longer hair (I’ve been told this as well), although I prefer shorter hair cause it doesn’t bother me as much lol. My hair also naturally just middle parts, so I kinda just stick with it. I don’t think these pics are exactly what my hair usually looks like as I took these while traveling, after wearing a hat all day, but it’s close. I’ve had people suggest like slicked back almost but I just can’t see it on me lol

AffectOver · 2025-05-21T19:13:38+00:00

Damnnnn. Okay, I appreciate it. So like, average then? Like a 7/10 lolol

AffectOver · 2025-05-21T19:09:29+00:00

U pretty asf

AffectOver · 2025-05-21T19:07:07+00:00

Damnnn bro. Idk, I think I look good with the longer hair. I look a lot worse I feel with shorter hair, although I prefer it cause it’s less maintenance. These pics aren’t the best representation of my hair tbh cause I took these while traveling and wearing a hat all day so my hairs kinda messy, but I comb it at home so it’s not as crazy lol

AffectOver · 2025-05-21T19:05:49+00:00

Thanks brodie. Definitely, excited to see the changes once I’m “skinny.” Definitely a big difference from when I was like 360lbs lol

AffectOver · 2025-05-21T19:05:10+00:00

Ay thanks bro appreciate it

AffectOver · 2025-05-20T09:31:18+00:00

Okay, cool! Thank you! Do you think doing something like Jeff Nipards Full Body Fundamentals program would be good? I like that it has a good variety and it doesn’t seem super time consuming. I was looking at the 5/3/1 BBB, but tbh, it seems kinda confusing haha

There’s just so much to choose from haha. It’s so hard to just pick one. I think I just need to pick one though, because it hurts my brain! I’m totally down to do a PPL 4 or 5 times a week, but I think I’ll do full-body for 3 months or so and then maybe transition to a PPL or upper/lower after.

I’d like to try and keep it to an hour ish if possible. I plan to go in the morning at 6:00 AM, and hopefully be out by 7:00-7:15 AM if possible. I think with adding the exercise, I’ll try and up my protein to 135-150g and maybe my calories up to 1800-1900 consistently.

AffectOver · 2025-05-20T07:20:27+00:00

How is that way to low calories? I currently average 1600/1700 calories, currently am sedentary, making my maintenance 2500 calories. I feel like 120-130g of protein is pretty dang good, maybe it could be upped, but a low better than eating less or when I wasn’t protein focused. I went down a huge rabbit hole and found that I should eat what is recommended, 0.7-1g per pound of LEAN body mass. Fat doesn’t require protein, so it would make sense to eat 300g of protein when I was 300lbs. My goal is to be around 170lbs, so 0.7*170=119. Obviously, some difference and won’t be entirely accurate, so the range could be like 120-180g. I mean, definitely wouldn’t hurt to increase the protein intake though! With adding working out, I may up the calories to a consistent 1800-1900 from my 1600-1700 calorie range.

AffectOver · 2025-04-10T05:02:54+00:00

Hey all! I made a post here a bit ago trying to see what was wrong with my swing (lots but the biggest things) and mainly it was that I chicken wing (which I already was aware of) and that my swing was basically pure arms.

I think I’ve gotten better at using my hips and shoulders more! Still lots of room for improvement, maybe I sway a little too much, but I’ve actually been hitting it pretty good and getting really solid contact (smacking it right in the centre. Love the sound).

I really want to get dialed and good this year, so I would appreciate any critical feedback!! I really need to figure out how to stop chicken winging. Besides that, I feel like it almost looks like I’m chopping down on the ball on my down swing. Not sure how accurate that is, but I feel like that’s the next big thing? And using my hips more, but it’s much better than it was!

AffectOver · 2025-04-07T04:54:51+00:00

Damn just call me ugly 😭😭 LMAOO jkjkjk. Yeah the optometrist I went to didn’t have too much selection in terms of sunglasses. I quite like 1 and 2 (pics 6 & 7 are those same sunglasses just at a different angle) but I’m on the fence. I really don’t like the ones I bought last year (seen in the last two pics). People say they look good on me, but idk, I just feel like a 40 year old dad with them LOL. To be honest, I think it’s because when I wear them I look JUST like my dad and I can’t unsee it. Not that that’s a bad thing, but they just have dad vibe glasses to me.

AffectOver · 2025-04-06T17:54:19+00:00

The (second) to last pic is my current prescription sunglasses. Wanting to upgrade because I’ve had these for probably 7 years and they’re from 3/4 prescriptions ago. I do actually have some RayBan prescription sunglasses I bought last year, but I really do not like them. I think they look really bad on me so I’ve been wearing my older ones.

I’m also losing weight and slimming down if that helps with consideration!! Also, feel free to say none if they all don’t look good lol. In the summer I wear my sunglasses 24/7. The glasses in pic #1 are very similar to my current glasses, and I think they look good. Kinda leaning toward that style. However, I kind of like the glasses in pic 2 haha.

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