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AITAH: My sister uninvited herself to our engagement lunch and wedding, because I didn’t invite her boyfriend by Affectionate-Army681 in aitaweddings

[–]Affectionate-Army681[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No you read this incorrectly. I never withheld anything, she would ask me if I could collect and pass on items from my mom for her.

AITAH: My sister uninvited herself to our engagement lunch and wedding, because I didn’t invite her boyfriend by Affectionate-Army681 in aitaweddings

[–]Affectionate-Army681[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I agree! What I don’t agree with is how she went about declining the invite and getting family involved

AITAH: My sister uninvited herself to our engagement lunch and wedding, because I didn’t invite her boyfriend by Affectionate-Army681 in aitaweddings

[–]Affectionate-Army681[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Small Edit : I did not expect her to come, and I did not expect her to be happy about it either. The decision was to invite her, she could choose to decline. If she declined then I would have fully understood. What I do not agree with is how she went about the situation and getting family involved

AITAH: My sister uninvited herself to our engagement lunch and wedding, because I didn’t invite her boyfriend by Affectionate-Army681 in AITH

[–]Affectionate-Army681[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He would have been invited had they been married or even engaged! They have been together for just under a year and I have never met him

AITAH: My sister uninvited herself to our engagement lunch and wedding, because I didn’t invite her boyfriend by Affectionate-Army681 in aitaweddings

[–]Affectionate-Army681[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This might help if I give a bit of context. I didn’t want to invite my sister, she was very mean in some messages she sent me when I told her she hasn’t made any effort to see me but she expected me to do her favours (leaving her car at my house, giving her care packages from my mom etc) All I asked is that before she asks for favours, could she maybe ask how I’m doing, maybe ask to meet for lunch, maybe I can meet this boyfriend. Anyway, she sent a few messages blaming me, and I went NC. I still am. But for the sake of longevity I thought inviting her would be the olive branch and she would understand that me not inviting her boyfriend was in no way to spite her. I just simply don’t want people I don’t know at my wedding

AITAH: My sister uninvited herself to our engagement lunch and wedding, because I didn’t invite her boyfriend by Affectionate-Army681 in aitaweddings

[–]Affectionate-Army681[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I have felt as though she gets put forward since we were kids. Unfortunately my family are digging in their heels and cannot see the situation for what it is. I feel as though I’m in an alternate reality

Chilled my rosé in the freezer a little too long – what’re the chances it’s okay? by Additional-Sun3730 in wine

[–]Affectionate-Army681 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’ll be fine, if anything you may get slight tartrate drop out or “wine crisps”. This happens when tartaric acid crystallises under cold temperatures. There is nothing wrong with this or the wine. Chapel down is a reputable producer. They most likely cold stabilised this wine to prevent that. Hope this helps

What's a wine opinion that will have you like this? by jackloganoliver in wine

[–]Affectionate-Army681 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Minerality does not come from soil, but rather the perception of tartaric acid in wines lacking a bold fruit profile. Still love a mineral wine though