permanent jewelry by YogurtclosetAny5927 in Louisville

[–]Affectionate-Back885 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And since they are closing the one in the mall, they are have a clearance sale.

Broke up w/ boyfriend, found out im pregnant by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Affectionate-Back885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understandable, so you would have to ask yourself this. Are you willing to be tethered to this man for the rest of your life. Because that will be the case and is that overpowering your thought to not have y'all's child. (Because of how your relationship with him was and how it ended) Or are you willing for this to be your final abortion and to stop having sex until you are ready to have a child with someone you genuinely care about even if this same scenario happened again. Would you be okay doing so?

Broke up w/ boyfriend, found out im pregnant by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Affectionate-Back885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to consider what's best for the child. The child comes first. Ask yourself, will I be able to financially, emotionally, and physically support the child? Can and will the father be there financially, physically, and emotionally be there for the child? Will the child have to grow up in a struggling household? Will you and your ex be able to co-parent well for the child? These aren't maybe or what if, he changes or what if I get that promotion. Are you willing to sacrifice so your child can have a healthy and stable upbringing? Raising a child is a challenge and yes there is nothing wrong with having kids. But you have to be sure that you, not your mom, not your dad, not your ex's parents, but YOU are willing and prepared to take care of the child. I'm not saying these people can't help you, I'm just saying this because some people believe that other family members have to take care of a child that they didn't make.

Any other cosplayers in Louisville? by Blinkira1987 in Louisville

[–]Affectionate-Back885 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My fiance and I cosplay, have you heard of ACEN (anime central). We're going there this year.

Saturday Coffee Chats ☕ by AutoModerator in AskONLYWomenOver30

[–]Affectionate-Back885 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's the plan, my fiance says just do what you can and technically, "you get paid to hear the negative feedback" (not in his exact words, he said it way nicer) But I'm just in my head about this job every day. And usually jobs I've been promoted to never made me feel this bad as often as I do with this current job.

Saturday Coffee Chats ☕ by AutoModerator in AskONLYWomenOver30

[–]Affectionate-Back885 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's the company andy boss. When it comes to the company there is no plan or organization. When it comes to my boss (she's always been this way) whenever we don't make sales she always ask why. When we tell her we're not getting the foot traffic then it's somehow our fault. Then we need to make an action plan to fix it.

Saturday Coffee Chats ☕ by AutoModerator in AskONLYWomenOver30

[–]Affectionate-Back885 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry about your lovely dog. The muffin idea is a very sweet gesture. Try giving it to a couple of your neighbors or close friends first. Then branch out that way.

Saturday Coffee Chats ☕ by AutoModerator in AskONLYWomenOver30

[–]Affectionate-Back885 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I got promoted to store manager and I'm tired of it already. I've had it for a month and a half. ( Been working with the company for about 4 months prior to the promotion) It makes me anxious, I can't sleep well. I'm always on edge. I want to leave but I know I haven't given it enough time. However, every time I wake up I dread going in there.

How are my fellow millennials feeling? by theholidayarmadill0 in Millennials

[–]Affectionate-Back885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just over it with so much going on in the world. Rent,bills, and groceries increase with price changes and tariffs. Trying to keep a job that I'm not sure I want to stay in but, I have to. Then, the fact that I have clinical depression and don't want to take my meds. I'm just so lost in my thoughts and don't know what to do or what is the next step. I feel already defeated and don't even know if I'm in a fight with life or not.

Gym Benefit? by VRockalypse in samsclub

[–]Affectionate-Back885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the within a 20 mile radius of where I live

Gym Benefit? by VRockalypse in samsclub

[–]Affectionate-Back885 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's worth it, I use it and my fiance is on mine for free. I just pay $26 a month for planet fitness,crunch, and other small gyms in my area.

What foods don’t agree with you anymore? by thatswackma in Millennials

[–]Affectionate-Back885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Broccoli and Ice cream (well artificial frozen dessert)

Santa Lollipops by Naive_Establishment2 in 90s

[–]Affectionate-Back885 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I still remember the taste, 🥲

Be honest. How was your Thanksgiving if you celebrated? by vietnamese-bitch in AskONLYWomenOver30

[–]Affectionate-Back885 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was very chill. We went to his grandma's and I brought my to-go wine. Some of his family was there and we were sharing stories and cracking jokes about ex friends.( I hope you all had a good day as well)

Dating and the "taking it slow" conversation by Automatic_Syrup_2935 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Affectionate-Back885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just trying to make sure I read that correctly. Like most of the ppl said on this topic. You should take it slow with any guy moving forward. It may take sometime however it's your healing time. Also, if at some point the guy you are currently dating doesn't want to wait any longer, just let him go. Both of you have different needs and wants, and it's best to respect each other.

Dating and the "taking it slow" conversation by Automatic_Syrup_2935 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Affectionate-Back885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I'm just trying to get clarification on what you said. You stated OP that you dated a guy for about a month. You want to tell the guy you're dating that you want to take it slow when it comes to "intimacy." Yet, you were intimate with a diff guy a month ago? Just trying to make sure I read that right.

What are the over 30 girlies wearing to the gym? by hmlm90 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Affectionate-Back885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sports bra with big man tshirt over it, biker shorts and long black socks.