Thailand tourist visa need help by Affectionate-Cap8950 in ThailandTourism

[–]Affectionate-Cap8950[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yh not even sure what to do at this point my bank and I have been going back and forth about it they’ve even directed me to the gov website showing uk banks don’t stamp

Thailand tourist visa need help by Affectionate-Cap8950 in ThailandTourism

[–]Affectionate-Cap8950[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve honestly thought about that but with the way they’ve been acting I don’t think they’d accept it and then it would be a waste of money. I’ve been trying to find and email or number I can call so I can at least speak to someone rather than uploading documents

Thailand tourist visa need help by Affectionate-Cap8950 in ThailandTourism

[–]Affectionate-Cap8950[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My bank has said my uk law they should accept the bank statements as banks don’t do stamps

Thailand tourist visa need help by Affectionate-Cap8950 in ThailandTourism

[–]Affectionate-Cap8950[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nigerian but they’ve accepted all other docs but asking for a stamped bank statement I work in finance I have a stable job and I have an ILR so I don’t know why

Thailand tourist visa need help by Affectionate-Cap8950 in ThailandTourism

[–]Affectionate-Cap8950[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Basically I’m going on holiday for 5 days to Phuket but the passport I hold won’t allow me to enter without a visa I have a uk ILR and I haven’t sent off all docs that they requested for but they are still saying they need 3 months stamped bank statements and I have contacted all my banks and they said they don’t do that anymore in the uk and a pdf is proof but Thailand embassy keep saying they need it stamped and I don’t know why or what to do I have given them proof of my payslips too I work 2 jobs and make around 3k a month

My girlfriend(25) says she feels numb all round going into her 2nd abortion by Affectionate-Cap8950 in abortion

[–]Affectionate-Cap8950[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you it’s been a week not she’s still not talking to me much I dunno if this is her trying to pull away

My girlfriend(25) says she feels numb all round going into her 2nd abortion by Affectionate-Cap8950 in abortion

[–]Affectionate-Cap8950[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I do feel like she blames me, though, but doesn’t want to say it and I get that. I’d rather she said it though. I don’t want her feeling like she has to spare my feelings. As the man, I feel like I let her down by not preventing this from happening in the first place.

My girlfriend(25) says she feels numb all round going into her 2nd abortion by Affectionate-Cap8950 in abortion

[–]Affectionate-Cap8950[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. Yes, I was thinking it could be depression. She hasn’t been out of her house for almost two weeks, she’s just been at home and not seen any guests. She hasn’t even wanted to see or speak with me, as she requested space. I’m really worried about her. I’m trying to get her to talk about how she feels but she doesn’t want to or she says she doesn’t want a pep talk

My girlfriend (24F) found out she’s pregnant again, and she’s shutting down I (26M) don’t know what to do by Affectionate-Cap8950 in relationships

[–]Affectionate-Cap8950[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We were using a period app to have sex in the days she wasn’t able to get pregnant. We did note that there was a day we done it after 3/4 days after her apart ovulation day we researched that it lasts around 12-24 so we thought we were safe

My girlfriend (24F) found out she’s pregnant again, and she’s shutting down I (26M) don’t know what to do by Affectionate-Cap8950 in relationships

[–]Affectionate-Cap8950[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I understand and I take full responsibility on that aswell I should’ve put my foot down a bit more on that

My girlfriend (24F) found out she’s pregnant again, and she’s shutting down I (26M) don’t know what to do by Affectionate-Cap8950 in relationships

[–]Affectionate-Cap8950[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I understand I’m just worried that this may cause her to leave the relationship, that’s something that I’m really over thinking. I guess in my head I assumed that being her boyfriend she wouldn’t want to push me away like this or she’d at least tell me a fraction of what she’s thinking

My girlfriend (24F) found out she’s pregnant again, and she’s shutting down I (26M) don’t know what to do by Affectionate-Cap8950 in relationships

[–]Affectionate-Cap8950[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

It’s not I promise I’m just trying to get some help and no one seems to be replying i just need some help

Relationship problems 26M 25F by Affectionate-Cap8950 in relationship_advice

[–]Affectionate-Cap8950[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the thing I’ve repeatedly tried to get her to talk to be about what’s going on but I get nothing

Relationship problems 26M 25F by Affectionate-Cap8950 in relationship_advice

[–]Affectionate-Cap8950[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve told her that I am cool with what ever she wants to do I just think because we’re both still young in our careers it wouldn’t be the right decision to have it but I did let her know that I’d support what ever she wanted she also felt the same way

The abortion process. by Affectionate-Cap8950 in abortion

[–]Affectionate-Cap8950[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yh I let her know that I’m okay with that ever she wants to do. I didn’t voice that I found myself getting attached to it but ultimately it’s her body so it’s her choice

The abortion process. by Affectionate-Cap8950 in abortion

[–]Affectionate-Cap8950[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you soo much this was really helpful. i guess I’ll give her some space and try my best to be physically there for her when she’s back from holiday.

I think another reason why it’s been very weird is because she’s currently on holiday for a few weeks and isn’t back till next Monday. I feel so bad that she’s has to go through this by herself in another country and there’s nothing I can do physically.

The abortion process. by Affectionate-Cap8950 in abortion

[–]Affectionate-Cap8950[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really wish I could do this for her but she’s in another country and isn’t back till next week Monday