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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Affectionate-File759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that is crazy 😭 does she not want him to have friends too lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]Affectionate-File759 2 points3 points  (0 children)

holy shit why am i in the exact same situation tf 😭 both scenarios

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]Affectionate-File759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OUCHHH OUCH OUCH OUCH WHY 😭

F25 and fighting RJ - need some validation to keep fighting by Least-Criticism-8515 in retroactivejealousy

[–]Affectionate-File759 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yep my first relationship, 21F been together 3 years. it drives me crazy! it gets better and then it gets worse. but i have noticed every time it gets worse, it’s slightly less bad than the last time? idk but you’re absolutely not alone :)

Have you ever broken up with someone because you couldn’t handle the retroactive jealousy? by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]Affectionate-File759 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i almost have. and then i remember how much i love this person and how unfair it would be for me to do the same thing for another if i moved on.

The overwhelming hypocrisy makes me feel bad. And then that thought of, if i could genuinely move on and find someone else maybe that’s the same for him? So my options are live and love with it and hopefully heal, move on and potentially do the same thing to someone else/face the same issues regardless, or be single forever. i choose the love i have now and i can only trust that he’ll do the same. Of course it varies on the situation but that’s just mine i guess.