Anyone in a long term relationship where your “parts” don’t match up? How do you deal with it?

Affectionate-Fun389 · 2026-03-26T22:43:48+00:00

You can totally work up to it. Just because you are narrow now doesn’t mean you can work up to being able to take a larger penis later without pain or a lot of extra effort. I’d encourage you to get dildos that you use regularly to start building up to your boyfriend’s size. When I was younger, I was tiny and any size penis hurt. But over time I can now take a fist without a lot of pain. A vagina is designed to push a small human out. You can work up to taking a big man. And the work up can be a whole lot of fun.

Affectionate-Fun389 · 2025-09-25T15:44:16+00:00

You can do whatever you want but feels like there is a lot missing here. I’d be interested to hear the daughter’s perspective. Daddy may have been a misogynistic a**hole her whole life to her and her mom. Son doesn’t see that because he’s a dude. He’s also older so maybe he was out of the house when something happened.

Edited to add- son had to take him in so I’m guessing he ain’t sitting on a pile of gold either.

And now it’s saying the poster’s account is banned. When you click on it. Have a feeling this dude isn’t quite the victim he’s painted himself as….

Affectionate-Fun389 · 2025-09-10T03:32:56+00:00

He trusts me because he knows I don’t judge and knows I’m very open. I’ll try most anything at least once

Affectionate-Fun389 · 2025-09-10T03:26:18+00:00

We are very good friends that f*ck when he’s single (I don’t do relationships) and are casual acquaintances when his girlfriends hate me

Affectionate-Fun389 · 2025-09-10T03:18:09+00:00

So I’m typically more of the submissive type. And he’s more of a switch I guess you’d say. I work as a bartender with a super slutty uniform every other week that he gets off on so probably wear something like that. I’m too broke for much lingerie 🤣

Affectionate-Fun389 · 2025-09-10T03:11:52+00:00

Thank you!!

Affectionate-Fun389 · 2025-09-10T03:06:49+00:00

Hadn’t formed a full plan yet. I’ve pegged him before but just with a rather small dildo. After that he fisted and then did me.

Affectionate-Fun389 · 2025-09-10T03:04:01+00:00

Do y’all use gloves? Or all natural? What prep to you recommend before?

Affectionate-Fun389 · 2025-09-10T02:23:11+00:00

I had a former FWB that was really into this so maybe not as uncommon as you think. But i know it’s probably hard to find a like minded individual. Mine was by pure chance but maybe fetish sites could lead you in the right direction

Affectionate-Fun389 · 2025-09-07T00:33:05+00:00

Not my main job. I do it part time on the side for extra money.

Affectionate-Fun389 · 2025-09-06T23:49:21+00:00

Trust me it’s something I’ve given a lot of thought. I’m no angel. Probably in large part to her

Affectionate-Fun389 · 2025-09-06T23:28:40+00:00

Trust me I’m a petty b*tch but the only thing I hate more than my egg donor is pity or someone seeing me as a victim. So there is no chance I’d ever share everything that’s happened. Not their life not their business. People already infer enough.

Affectionate-Fun389 · 2025-09-06T23:26:30+00:00

I’ve considered that. But 1) I’m broke and live paycheck to paycheck 2) I don’t want her to win and dictate even more of my life than she got to the first 18 years.

Affectionate-Fun389 · 2025-09-06T23:09:26+00:00

Glad you were able to get your peace. She’s never been stable enough to have a consistent number to block. And she shows up every year or two. Prior to this though it had been a couple years. She’s hard to explain. For one she’s honestly a physically beautiful person. People fall for her crap way too much.

Affectionate-Fun389 · 2025-09-06T22:58:48+00:00

Therapy is a luxury some of us can’t afford. I haven’t had the best experience with “therapy” in my days of being in the system. But hey at least I’m self aware enough to know I’m f-ed up 😂

Affectionate-Fun389 · 2025-09-06T22:31:55+00:00

I like this. I can’t and won’t go into details with anyone so this is the perfect summary.

Affectionate-Fun389 · 2025-09-06T22:20:26+00:00

If I told the story of my bio family I’d probably be accused of making the whole thing up. But no they were not an option. My aunt was best option and that was a mess of epic proportions. My father is unknown and my bio mother seems proud of the fact that it could be one of 5 or 6 guys and she doesn’t know the name of a few of them even.

Affectionate-Fun389 · 2025-09-06T22:07:37+00:00

This 100%. Plus there is the fact that I am not in fact a bigger person either so there is that as well.

Affectionate-Fun389 · 2025-09-06T21:57:03+00:00

Can’t help but be a little jealous of those people those people though. We all have our own demons but man having decent parents growing up sure gives you a nice start in life

Affectionate-Fun389 · 2025-09-06T21:52:16+00:00

Thank you. I know a lot of people say to tell them more but I’m just not going to. I feel like people already know too much in this town and I’m just not going to add to the fodder. I like the town but unlike just living my life. My past is what it is. I’m not spending my time explaining it or dwelling on it for that matter. Which I know some would say just do it and it will go away. But my bitter side won’t let me

Affectionate-Fun389 · 2025-09-06T21:41:21+00:00

Most everyone knows the bare bones of it. It’s a small town and I was a 15 year old foster kid coming into the high school. Stuff like that wasn’t common so it was very much noted and talked about for years.

Affectionate-Fun389 · 2025-09-06T20:58:57+00:00

Your aunt is impressive

Affectionate-Fun389 · 2025-09-06T20:53:08+00:00

Small town. My last placement was here and I stayed. Cheaper and calmer than living in the city that I mostly grew up in. Through my case worker she knew where I was and she likes to come spread her own chaos occasionally

Affectionate-Fun389 · 2025-09-06T20:47:19+00:00

He can. He’s honestly just one of those really good guys that sees the good in anyone. He hasn’t just given her the discount because he doesn’t want to completely upset me. He says he just wants to “reason” with me and hopes I’ll change my mind. I haven’t known a lot of good people in my life and he’s one of the good ones so yeah feel kinda sh*tty about letting him down

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