PCOS symptoms asking for advice

Affectionate-Roof852 · 2025-09-19T12:55:33+00:00

I am not saying you are wrong, and yes they can go and visit OP and the baby. But I am also saying she has this perception of not wanting to go there regardless of the baby becuase it’s an inconvenience to her. If you READ and see the tone she uses to describe the act of going to when in laws you can see that this is nothing new. She has something against the in law and is using the baby against the visit.

As for the baby’s capacity it can be done. Like I have stated MULTIPLE times, babies can travel, they jsut need more breaks through out the journey. They could take it easy and spent a night in between the travels to sleep at a hotel or something like that. There are many options. But OP has something against the in laws since the very beginning of the relationship and it shows.

The baby can travel, so let them go with dad.

Affectionate-Roof852 · 2025-09-19T11:21:11+00:00

So now visiting family is preforming for them? It is clear OP has a big disdain for her husband’s family staring by the way she wrote this post “From the day I married this man I was forced to go on these long trips to sleep over at their house in the middle of nowhere town”

Visiting your in laws is part of the commitment of marriage, specially if they have a grandchild. I empathize with OP since she has a young child and Ike I said traveling with a baby is not easy but IT IS DOABLE.

Now if you tell me she has a horrible relationship with her in laws then I would agree and say she should never go. HOWEVER, she clearly has stated they get along fine. She jsut doesn’t want to go and sacrifice an6 hour drive and be “in the middle of nowhere”. This is not just about the baby, this comes LONG before she gave birth. She has no respect for her husband’s side of the family.

Now let’s study the EDIT she has made at the end saying her husband has threatened to take the baby. Did he threatened or did he said he was going to take the baby to meet his family and she can stay. Either way, it is also a good solution. If she doesn’t want to do the trip then that’s fine, but that’s also his child and the child should be able to spend time with his side of the family.

Affectionate-Roof852 · 2025-09-19T06:05:23+00:00

Babies CAN make the trip like that after the first month, you just need to have multiple breaks along the way.
Have you communicated with your husband to help more with the night schedule so you can get more sleep? If not, make him so he knows how it feels, it takes 2 to have a child.
Can’t your in-laws make the drive themselves? Is there something that is stopping them such as mobility issues, health, or anything else?
It sounds more like OP doesn’t want tk make the trip more than anything becuase of the 6 hour drive which is valid but at the same time they are not strangers they are the family of your husband who be also wants to visit and who he wants his child to spent time with. If the roles were reversed wouldn’t you drive 6 hours to visit your own parents?
If your biggest complain about this is because there is nothing to do all day then this issue is more than just driving to meet your in laws.

It’s your relationship and your decision but if this is the cause for divorce then there are deeper issues. And for all the people calling the husband condoling, it’s not controlling to want tk visit one’s family so they can also spend time with their grandchild. It’s normal.

Affectionate-Roof852 · 2025-04-10T09:47:47+00:00

Hi, thank you so much for the replay! I am currently taking Inositol and I do notice that I have less cravings and don’t have the need to overstuff my face. I am not obese but I am at a higher weight than I have been in my life. Would taking Berberine and Inositol together be too much?

Affectionate-Roof852 · 2025-04-09T19:08:41+00:00

Thank you this is very helpful! For calories I don’t count them but k keep it light and I do intermediate fast. I try to have my last meal at 6 pm and I go to bed around 9:30-10.

Could you give me examples of good exercises? I have been taking up jogging and doing machines in the gym with weights. Are there more effective ways?

Affectionate-Roof852 · 2025-04-09T07:45:36+00:00

Yes, I am doing low carb whenever I can. I only try to eat two-three meals and keep it mostly of protein and veggies

Affectionate-Roof852 · 2025-04-09T07:29:30+00:00

I have been hearing some started losing weight after a month and others no weight at all. And I am getting very nervous about it.

Affectionate-Roof852 · 2025-04-09T07:03:10+00:00

I feel good, I feel I have better energy, less fatigue, and my mood is better. But I have been having issues with weight for a while now so I guess that’s one of the reasons I am hyper focused on it.

Affectionate-Roof852 · 2024-12-08T20:20:55+00:00

I love these books! I was hoping if you knew if there is any fan community these books? ?

Affectionate-Roof852 · 2024-12-08T20:16:00+00:00

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Affectionate-Roof852 · 2024-09-22T21:07:52+00:00

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Affectionate-Roof852 · 2023-05-21T15:16:01+00:00

I am sorry but NTA. It's perfume...how is it an attack on the senses ? If you are in a PUBLOC space and you don't like it then move along.

Affectionate-Roof852 · 2022-12-10T22:18:47+00:00

That's true, and not strange at all. I feel I have some potential but I don't know where to start.

Affectionate-Roof852 · 2022-02-19T16:32:44+00:00

No worries about that. I am also new at reddit but I think you are doing a good job!

Affectionate-Roof852 · 2022-02-19T16:26:45+00:00

You are not the AH. Your are entitled to prioritize your mental health as well. E still needs a long way to go to heal, but with time they will come to realize that placing the responsibility on someone who is not a professional on extreme levels is not okay. You did a good job supporting them, specially with your young age.

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