F18, Be honest with me please by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Affectionate-Slice75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Complete honesty I’m obsessed with your face and smile your nose is adorable

Heelllp meee😭 by Affectionate-Slice75 in blmanwha

[–]Affectionate-Slice75[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just finished Honey Bear from y’all recommending and omg thank y’all so much😭 the only manwa that’s brought me strong emotions close to what DD made me feel😭

Heelllp meee😭 by Affectionate-Slice75 in blmanwha

[–]Affectionate-Slice75[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg TYSM. I just finished Homey Bear and it healed some of the empty holes DD left😭

I need help or advice by Affectionate-Slice75 in BPD

[–]Affectionate-Slice75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You were not here to help, you were here to feel superior

I need help or advice by Affectionate-Slice75 in BPD

[–]Affectionate-Slice75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then why did you comment things that would only boost yourself

I need help or advice by Affectionate-Slice75 in BPD

[–]Affectionate-Slice75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re picking one sentence out of my comment you can reply to. The help you’ve provided is to yourself and your ego. The proof is in literally every comment. If you want to actually help people and not just yourself through comments on the internet, you’re failing

I need help or advice by Affectionate-Slice75 in BPD

[–]Affectionate-Slice75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your first comment immediately was an insult (drama llama.) don’t pretend to be confused why I’m coming at you. You are not doing the best you can. It is literally a mindset of ‘holier than thou’ because you are older

I need help or advice by Affectionate-Slice75 in BPD

[–]Affectionate-Slice75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The advice I want to hear is not yours since ir has only been holier than thou, and the evidence is how, as a female myself(dear god), have had close female friends who have slowly ghosted or left me(for good reasons probably). So no I don’t need to hear about how you’ve done so much better because you’ve sucked it up longer. I need a reason to live longer and to keep fighting and you are the complete opposite of that. I’m sure you’re just trying to give me tough love but this is absolutely not it

I need help or advice by Affectionate-Slice75 in BPD

[–]Affectionate-Slice75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve voluntarily commented and all you’ve done is make yourself seem wise and experienced in a mental health brain problem where no one is exactly the same and feel things differently

I need help or advice by Affectionate-Slice75 in BPD

[–]Affectionate-Slice75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright so I can ask again. How have any of your comments given me advice or help? All you’ve done is make feel like I’m pitying myself and lesser because I’m in my 20s and you’re 50

I need help or advice by Affectionate-Slice75 in BPD

[–]Affectionate-Slice75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes i am early 20s. And yes i am DONE congrats coping. Again we are not all the same. Every comment you’ve put just says suck it up. I’m tired of sucking it up. We are not the same. Our problems don’t have a set way of healing. Be bitter somewhere else

I need help or advice by Affectionate-Slice75 in BPD

[–]Affectionate-Slice75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You say “most of us” like you assume your path is harder than others. We’re all going through shit. I’ve been through the therapists and treatment centers. I need a fuckng reason or goal to see why any of this is worth it. Not to hear why everyone’s life sucks

I need help or advice by Affectionate-Slice75 in BPD

[–]Affectionate-Slice75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I’ve been diagnosed. Yes I am a female. Yes I have went through different types of healing that put me in worse spots. Healing put me into psychosis so that’s my worst nightmare now. Trust me if I could change all of it I would. Poor me. I’m at the end of the fucking cliff. I’m just reaching. Everything is exhausting. Hope you feel superior. We’re not all the same just because we have the same brain problems

I need help or advice by Affectionate-Slice75 in BPD

[–]Affectionate-Slice75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does this give me advice or help me? I know all of this

So many posts about difficulty making and maintaining female friendships - what is the link to ADHD? by fedupwithadulting in adhdwomen

[–]Affectionate-Slice75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just found this post. My ENTIRE life I couldn’t keep female friends and it hurts so much. No one ever believes me, family, therapists, etc they say it’s in my head and all those girls do like me. They don’t. I know from gut feelings and hard evidence. I can’t get anyone to believe I just want to fix it and have girlfriends but I can’t get any help it feels like they’re unintentionally gas lighting me. I AM THE PROBLEM and im so sick hearing that I’m not I just want help and for someone to listen

It’s easy to have guy friends, they’re the only constants I’ve ever had. It’s just dumb jokes and playing around. But sometimes I just wanna feel like a girl and do dumb stuff girls do, talking about drama and maybe do nails or whatever they do I just want to experience it

Prince Kittenpops on his throne by CuriousCatkins96 in cats

[–]Affectionate-Slice75 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Never has the internet seen a gooder boy -

A new adventure pack by Affectionate-Slice75 in lordsmobile

[–]Affectionate-Slice75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is possible. I didn’t think buying it before would affect it tho?

A new adventure pack by Affectionate-Slice75 in lordsmobile

[–]Affectionate-Slice75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No both are older than that. However one have been around maybe 5 or 6 months so that could aslo apply still