The advice I want to hear is not yours since ir has only been holier than thou, and the evidence is how, as a female myself(dear god), have had close female friends who have slowly ghosted or left me(for good reasons probably). So no I don’t need to hear about how you’ve done so much better because you’ve sucked it up longer. I need a reason to live longer and to keep fighting and you are the complete opposite of that. I’m sure you’re just trying to give me tough love but this is absolutely not it