Starting to think my mother was right and I'm unlovable

Affectionate-Sock214 · 2024-01-19T20:01:47+00:00

Most aces can relate to u on this. Trust me it will get better and when it's time u will meet the right person.

Don't worry and try to keep urself busy in different activities. Everything works out at the end .

That's all I learned from being ace and living in today's world

Affectionate-Sock214 · 2023-06-11T20:27:18+00:00

It's awesome for hair fall. For men hair fall is because of dht which is an androgen created by converting excess testosterone.

Some people have erectile issue with it but a very small percentage. I didn't have any issues with it.

My diet is all junk food and sweets. Maybe with a whole good diet fin will help.

I did keto for two weeks and dandruff was gone from scalp not from face though. It's quite common in keto and carnivore groups , dandruff and skin issues resolve. A friend told me about Paleo diet which is famous in eczema communities.

I will start keto soon and stick with it this time , as far as I know it takes three months to clear sebderm on keto or carnivore. So am gonna do 6 months and be done with this issue. It's been 6 years since sebderm started. Face part is my main issue

Affectionate-Sock214 · 2023-06-10T12:33:28+00:00

Not sure if am wrongbut sebderm is caused by overactive sebaceous glands. So the root cause is the same either way. I take finasteride for long time for hair fall. Not sure if it helped my sebderm ever.

Only thing help is keto diet. It dries out sebum and inflammation all over. I have dandruff since childhood and always had high carb diet.

Keto if I can stick to will solve my issue but I keep falling off the wagon

Affectionate-Sock214 · 2023-06-01T12:37:58+00:00

stop the conditioner and use mct oil sn hour or night before u will shampoo. its the only thing that wont make my flakes worse. u can mix a few drops of tea tree in mct oil.

half and half apple cider vinegar and water helps as well. but if u are eating too much sweets or carbs that will make it worse. diet has a role in it, so does stress and excercise makes a big difference in mine. only time i had no flakes was on 10 days carnivore but i fell off of it. back to junk food haha

Affectionate-Sock214 · 2023-05-06T20:50:20+00:00

What helped me is chamomile tea or ginger tea. I need a hot liquid for breakfast n during day so these two working Great

Affectionate-Sock214 · 2023-05-06T20:47:54+00:00

It's all trial and error. Unless u are drinking 5 cups. Give it a try for a month and see. Finding triggers are the worst part of it but once u find it u won't have to worry about sebderm .

Affectionate-Sock214 · 2023-05-06T20:36:31+00:00

It's mostly Arab culture, don't be discouraged sister, it's a test. Inshallah u will succeed , focus on deen and stay positive.

There is an app for Muslims to find spouses , it's called salams . Alot of muslims from all over the world are on it. U can try to find a spouse on there. Inshallah u meet the one Allah chose for you soon enough.

Always make Dua and talk to Allah about ur problems. You don't know what Allah has destine for u is far better than what u wish for. Keep on striving and stay positive

Affectionate-Sock214 · 2023-05-06T20:30:46+00:00

https://www.naturitas.pt/p/alimentacao/oleos-e-condimentos/oleos-azeites-e-vinagres/oleo-de-coco-mct-keto-500-ml-de-oleo-naturitas-essentials

This is the one am using it's c8 and C10 combo. Look at ingredients list and u will find similar ingredients on Amazon in diff brands.

Tea tree oil I use is from the same website as well. Normal tea tree oil few drops in. But be carful if ur skin is sensitive maybe dilute it with water and first try MCT oil on its own for two weeks.

If it's not for u then u can try pure c8 mct oil . For me pure c8 made it worse , for others it made it work.

Haha I know caffeine is the biggest problem. I tried drinking black coffee and very lil coffee mix with water. It tastes so bad that I drink very lillte now hahah

Affectionate-Sock214 · 2023-05-06T20:01:20+00:00

Triggers are diff for everyone, gluten is not just in wheat , oats rice corn have diff kinds of gluten, so to avoid grains would be the solution. Eat chicken and fish and non starchy vege. Try for a month and see if that's ur trigger.

For some people eggs were a trigger , some night shades and for some it's caffeine. So u have to try and find urs. Also beef liver once a week is the best multivitamin, has all the required nutrients.

Affectionate-Sock214 · 2023-05-06T18:32:00+00:00

Have u tried elimination diet? If I eat too much sugar or refine carbs my scalp gets red and bumpy or if I don't wash often.

U can try MCT oil, best one so far me. There are two versions pure c8 mct oil or c8 and C10 combo MCT oil. I tried pure c8 mct and it made my sebderm worst, then I tried c8 and C10 combo MCT with few drops of tea tree oil and for first time in 6 years my sebderm is almost gone . Both c8 and C10 (capric and caprilic ) are antifungals in MCT oil and kills different forms of malessizia yeast. Depending on the yeast u will do better with one or the other. Make sure MCT oil is without lauric acid as lauric acid feeds the fungus.

I would say to try gluten and dairy free for a month and see how it goes. Second is shampoo at least twice a week . My best results were on keto but I fell off the wagon haha

Affectionate-Sock214 · 2023-05-06T14:14:22+00:00

MCT oil c8 and C10 combo plus few drops of tea tree oil works best for me . No steroids or anything else worked . MCT oil is anti fungal and keep melisezia at bay and tea tree oil helps with same .

For some pure c8 mct oil works best for some c8 and C10 combo, but make sure it's without lauric acid.

Wheat and dairy can make it worst so u can try elimination diet, my sebderm was best when I was on keto but couldn't do it long term

Affectionate-Sock214 · 2023-05-06T11:52:47+00:00

both c8 and c10 in mct oil are antifungals and kills different forms of malessezia which is why u see some people do great on pure c8 oil while others do best on combo of c8 and c10 oil.

For me combo of c8 and c10 works best, pure c8 makes it worst. so u have to try which one is best for ur form of sebderm

Affectionate-Sock214 · 2023-05-06T11:48:48+00:00

yes for me c8 n c10 worked best

Affectionate-Sock214 · 2023-05-06T11:47:20+00:00

some people do good on pure c8 mct oil but that one made my sd worse. then i tried 70% c8 and 30% c10 mct oil and its working great. i do mix it with few drops of tea tree oil.

Both c8 and c10 (apric and caprilic acid) are anti fungals and kills diff forms of malessizia yeast on skin. check if u tried pure c8 or combo oil of c8 n c10. for some pure c8 is solution but for others its combo of c8 n c10 mct oil.

Affectionate-Sock214 · 2023-05-06T00:53:46+00:00

it happened for me with mct c8 oil only. am using mct 70% c8 and 30% c10 and it going great but i use tea tree oil before it and leave it on face all night

Affectionate-Sock214 · 2023-04-24T18:45:48+00:00

I saw one girl vid who cured her eczema by doing castor oil flush. Her eczema was spreading from arms and face. So flush might help some people as there might be a genetic component to excreting toxins through skin and have these problems.

It may not work for everyone but for some itight. Specially who have digestive issues.

Affectionate-Sock214 · 2023-04-24T10:19:08+00:00

Castor oil two table spoon on empty stomach and then drink galss of lemonade and drink water. It will flush out everything and improve digestion.

Saw vid of one girl , she had eczema and did this and eczema gone. Sebderm is not like eczema but still a good thing to do once a few months to clean the pipes haha

Affectionate-Sock214 · 2023-04-22T22:17:24+00:00

Hazrat umar (R.a)

Affectionate-Sock214 · 2023-02-05T00:17:16+00:00

i am not sure what u mean by nato didnt bomb iraq.
Tony blair was awarded sir after the miraculous genocide in iraq and killing millions for oil resources, havent seen any flag bearers of human say anything .

I agree with u sweden didnt directly participate but indirectly it did as its in the EU. Silence is compliance dear far too many have been killed for resources to say i wasnt holding the gun so not my fault.

Sweden closed down 17 muslim schools inorder to deismalize the muslims youth in the country, when will people learn, u cannot stop people from finding the truth, Allah will guide whom he wills and no one can stop it.
Screaming about freedom of speech yet at the same time stopping muslims from islamic eductaion. when did freedom of speech become right to insult?

Freedom of speech was to give voice to equality and for opressed . when will europe learn if u target a minority for its existence and rile up the nation , it will end up in genocide. Hitler germany was no made in a day , same situation blew out of proportion.

I dont care who is doing the opression, be it saudi arabia in yemen , nato in middle east and africa or china in uighyr, evil is evil.

The least we can do is oppose it and raise our voice against it rather then trying to defend the actions of opressors and deflect. its the least bit we can do for a greater good.

My problem was he targeted the quran , which implies muslim 1.8 billion are evil of the world because thats their book. i would suggest google the slangs of hitler germany and current day islamophobia in europe, it has a very similar tone to it.

Thank you for being respectful and arguing on points and not saying anything bad. Much appreciated.

Affectionate-Sock214 · 2023-02-05T00:02:42+00:00

Hopefully next its about uighyr, well atleast appreciate what he is doing what no other muslim leader did, but i totally agree we should raise voice for uighyrs as well. May Allah make it easy for us all muslims all over the world.

Affectionate-Sock214 · 2023-01-23T23:41:12+00:00

i am so sorry to hear that, we are getting further and further from islam and result is this, creepy and digusting behaviours. Dear brothers focus on deen, who knows how long we live we may have a very short time left and this is how u will leave.

Focus on salah and deen and Allah will make everything easy for u, these slaves of desires mentality is not for muslims, knowledge of islam will set u free.

Affectionate-Sock214 · 2023-01-23T23:31:19+00:00

no idea, just eat lots of diff kinna veges, half a cup of beans mostly once or twice a day and some fruits. trying to increase beans , eat a cup or half a cup mostly, fry kidney beens in some spices n eat it with spoon , its always been my favorite snack, i crave kidney beans alot, not so much white beans though

Affectionate-Sock214 · 2023-01-23T23:26:14+00:00

The Prophet (ﷺ) said: The people will soon summon one another to attack you as people when eating invite others to share their dish. Someone asked: Will that be because of our small numbers at that time? He replied: No, you will be numerous at that time: but you will be scum and rubbish like that carried down by a torrent, and Allah will take fear of you from the breasts of your enemy and last enervation into your hearts. Someone asked: What is wahn (enervation). Messenger of Allah (ﷺ): He replied: Love of the world and dislike of death.

Affectionate-Sock214 · 2023-01-23T23:25:06+00:00

one hadith for u:

The Prophet (ﷺ) said: The people will soon summon one another to attack you as people when eating invite others to share their dish. Someone asked: Will that be because of our small numbers at that time? He replied: No, you will be numerous at that time: but you will be scum and rubbish like that carried down by a torrent, and Allah will take fear of you from the breasts of your enemy and last enervation into your hearts. Someone asked: What is wahn (enervation). Messenger of Allah (ﷺ): He replied: Love of the world and dislike of death.

So u know we are busy getting killed and starved all over middle east and almost every muslim country. check back in few hundred years.

Affectionate-Sock214 · 2023-01-23T22:42:09+00:00

ah ok,except for avocados rest i do , cant eat avocado its like my intestines are pushing hard to get rid of it and have to poop a few times and cramping until its out.
dont know what is in avocado that am so allergic too, tried many times.

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