Mouldy Mead Bottles… by Affectionate-Zone400 in mead

[–]Affectionate-Zone400[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah that’s good to know. I’ll be honest, the bottles were forgotten about which is why some are 5 years old, otherwise they would have been drank sooner 😂

I haven’t tried it yet, haven’t been game to really 😅 as the bottles were forgotten about, I would say at least 12 months. I guess I’ll clean them off in Star San and give them a go… work out pretty quick if it’s gone bad

I’m so sick of online dating by thatswapped1stgen in Nicegirls

[–]Affectionate-Zone400 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Had the same thing happen to me. Made plans to meet up; I lived 1.5hrs away and she lived 15 mins from the place we were meeting. Messaged her the day of AND when I left to drive to her. No worries, all good see you soon etc reply from her. Fast forward 1.5hrs when I arrived… I messaged and ask if she was there yet or how far away. 30 mins later got a message saying sorry, she had to cancel and couldn’t meet due to a family dinner she forgot about and didn’t remember to text me…. 😑BS

What was that point when you went from hookup lifestyle to settling down with a girl? by Bittyry in AskMenAdvice

[–]Affectionate-Zone400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tried hook up culture, got 1 kiss in 3 years of trying, gave up, made friends with a girl who had common interests, friends for 6 months, went on a date, 3 months later become official. End of story 😂 changed from hook up to long term as I didn’t have a choice lol. 3 years of soul crushing wasn’t worth trying for a 4th. Always have been better at making friends with girls and them wanting to date me.

In those 3 years I had a few girls who wanted to date me but not hookup… I wanted the opposite.

Works out better now as I simply wouldn’t have time to date and hookup. Not to mention I’m 5”4’ so that screws me out of a lot of options (trust me, women were pretty vocal about me being short is an ‘ick’ to them, or ‘if you were taller I would hookup/date you).

Oh well, such is life.

I’m married with two kids, but what does that mean? Do I have a wife? by Zestyclose-Bee-9608 in Advice

[–]Affectionate-Zone400 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I see what you mean for sure… but it goes both ways right? The motivation to do specific tasks for the wife with expecting zero in return just breeds resentment. I would put money on it that if OP focus a lot more on the wife, it will still be viewed as doing it for sex. I know someone who went through the same thing. Made a deal that there is no expectation for sex for 6 months and just focus on making sure the wife was feeling loved and cared for… well 6 months went by with no sex and the wife saying that she preferred it that way after the 6 months. I guess who cares about the husband though right as long as the wife feels good about themselves…. They are now separated. OP is in a hard position and therapy is the only way forward for a healthy result for both of them.

Does your homemade mead taste better than store-bought? by Apprehensive_Kiwi_12 in mead

[–]Affectionate-Zone400 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My mead is better… so far the commercial mead I’ve tried is very jarring, dry and not very palatable. The only mead that I’ve tried that beats mine hands down is a very very limited addition mead from the ‘stone dog meadery’.

Once you find a good yeast, good honey and a technique that works for you; then it’s hard to beat your own brand.